I decided to start telling every woman I approach that I find them attractive (after my usual opener of asking directions). I found I get less numbers, but the ones I do get are more likely to respond since they know what I want. It's genuine as I only approach girls I like.
I have a couple questions:
- Say I find her attractive after the opener or when is better?
The issue is if they mention a bf after this, I generally leave it and tell them to enjoy their day (who knows if they really do, or I caught them off guard, so they react instinctively). This cuts the conversation short. Otherwise, I say I'd like to get to know them, and ask some comfort building questions, or if they're in a rush I suggest we do it by text.
- Is 'You're the most beautiful woman I've seen in the past 5 minutes' good phrasing? I got this from Sasha Daygame. I figured this could lead to fun chats with light hearted women, as we negotiate it being the past 5, 10, or 15 minutes. But at the same time I don’t want to seem like a player.
I then ask if they prefer cafe's or bars, tell them I know a great one, and suggest we go for a drink soon (and to swap numbers so we can).
Wolf
I have a couple questions:
- Say I find her attractive after the opener or when is better?
The issue is if they mention a bf after this, I generally leave it and tell them to enjoy their day (who knows if they really do, or I caught them off guard, so they react instinctively). This cuts the conversation short. Otherwise, I say I'd like to get to know them, and ask some comfort building questions, or if they're in a rush I suggest we do it by text.
- Is 'You're the most beautiful woman I've seen in the past 5 minutes' good phrasing? I got this from Sasha Daygame. I figured this could lead to fun chats with light hearted women, as we negotiate it being the past 5, 10, or 15 minutes. But at the same time I don’t want to seem like a player.
I then ask if they prefer cafe's or bars, tell them I know a great one, and suggest we go for a drink soon (and to swap numbers so we can).
Wolf
