Picnics - a good alternative path to intimacy?

[Ryan]

After reading a few articles about closing, intimacy and progressing to intimacy in general, i realised that one of the main methods Chase uses to get girls back to his apartment is to take them grocery shopping beforehand to ask them for their opinions on good ingredients.
He then convinces them to come back home with him and cook the meal with him. And of course, that is exactly what he doesn't do when they arrive home. He escalates and progresses to becoming intimate with the girl.

As i don't have an apartment of my own (or a car), and my parents have always been against me talking with girls/having a girlfriend until i finished university, i thought that progressing to intimacy would be impossible for me. Having a place of your own seems so important for intimacy.
But then i remembered that almost every girl i've spoken to about the subject seem to love picnics. I have no idea why, but that's just how it is.
So, do you think it's a good idea to slightly modify Chase's method? Instead of taking them grocery shopping, We will buy picnic ingredients and I will take her to a deserted part of a park where we can have sex behind some bushes.

good idea?

 

[Rebel]

This is actually a good idea. Just keep in mind some girls don't like sex in public places.

 

[Ryan]

I just realised i have a scarf at home big enough to be a picnic blanket when opened up fully.

Of course, it won't be used to place picnic food on

 

[Grand Pooba]

Ryan,

I've had some great results with the picnic date in the past. Of course, good weather is crucial, but definitely you can set it up so that both of you are doing an activity together (making sandwiches, playing volleyball), and depending on your goals you can also lie together or what not, her head on your lap. A crucial part of the intimacy side is priming her/making her horny with your conversation, and then leading her to the preselected location you will be escalating, and it must be private.

It's also a cheap date and fun, so definitely a good idea. One drawback is that it might lead to them thinking of you as a boyfriend rather than as purely a lover, because of the romantic feel. Just something to keep in mind.

 

[Zoro]

This is a great idea and ca be exciting for the both of you.
I may try this out myself.

Here's some things to keep in mind.

You probably already know logistics are important so make sure you scope out a reliable picnic/escalation area (unlikely people will come by, out of sight, comfortable ground, close to the grocery store.)

Keeping the vibe sexual is important here because normally she would not expect to have sex during the picnic. Bringing the sexual vibe will help your chances and if done right can make her want something more to happen than just eating some food.

Also, for rainy days and such, you may be able to find out if your girl's place is somewhere you can go. Just ask her where she lives, who she lives with, anyone home, etc.

-J Wick

ps where did you get that scarf, Ryan? Sounds interesting.