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I was sitting in the subway station and two young looking HB6s walked in. I walked up to them and started teasing them. Girl 1 was not interested and kept cockblocking, and Girl 2 was interested. My verbal game was a little rough - they were really keeping me on my toes, and i was trying to qualify them but it just wasn't coming out right. In the conversation snippet below, Girl 2 was trying to playfully resist me. I did some quick reframing and ended up on top...but I'm wondering if i should have playfully disqualified her instead of reframing, then tried to qualify her on something else? I feel the "me too" reframing was slightly chasey, and not exactly conducive to flipping the script to get her chasing:
The rest of the conversation is here:
My Own Analysis
This was a rough transition into getting to know them. My weird questions caused confusion, which created resistance from girl 1 AKA momma bear.
instead of asking "are you guys friends" i should have asked "how do you guys know each other"
instead of asking "are you in high school", say "you might be too young for me"
The rest of the conversation is here:
fog: hey you guys know you gotta be above 6 feet to even get in the subway station
girl 1: I’m proud of myself for even making it in
fog: I’m proud of you too. great accomplishment.
they ignore me for a sec because they are looking at directions on their phone. i just chill.
fog: so do you guys like to party?
girl 1: ehhhh…sometimes.
fog: or do you like to stay in and chill.
girl 1: depends.
fog: [to girl 2] and what about you?
girl 2: same as her.
fog: are you guys friends?
girl 1: i just met her.
fog: you know, she looks like a serial killer. you should avoid her.
girl 1: i know i keep telling her that
girl 2: !?
girl 1 is trying to walk away but girl 2 is clearly interested in me - she bows her head in submission when i look at her.
fog: [to girl 2] does she always try to abandon you like this?
girl 2: I’m confused.
girl 1: okay lets go.
fog: [to girl 1] just one sec, okay.
I want to briefly qualify girl 2 on something so I can get her number.
fog: [to girl 2] are you in high school?
girl 2: no. elementary school.
fog: me too!
girl 2: I’m the teacher.
fog: I’m the principal.
girl 1: and I’m the professor. okay we gotta get going now.
fog: alright see ya.
My Own Analysis
This was a rough transition into getting to know them. My weird questions caused confusion, which created resistance from girl 1 AKA momma bear.
instead of asking "are you guys friends" i should have asked "how do you guys know each other"
instead of asking "are you in high school", say "you might be too young for me"
