Please Remove Me From The Boards - Chase or Franco :)

[Garrett]

Hello all,

I've decided that it's time for me to part ways with the lifestyle I've been living for the past 6 months.

Due to my Christian beliefs, I've decided that this lifestyle is sinful so I will have to ask that my account be shut down.

In my opinion, following this lifestyle is sinful because you are committing adultery, you are following the path of the flesh as opposed to God, you are expressing a lack of faith in God, and you are following your own selfish path. If you believe in God and that Jesus Christ is God, you will realize that this faith will lead you to someone. Finding a girl to be with isn't something you are supposed to seek, she will come with time. I understand you may plow a lot of your time into a girl and she'll leave you. It hurts, I know, but God will lead you to someone who you are MEANT to be with.

For example, Chase your social studies teacher made the right choice. The woman he was to marry tried to get him to stray (the temptation from the devil), but he chose to have faith in God. As a result, he probably found someone who he is happy with. I understand your idea of 'settling', but God has a plan for all of us, and you have to have faith in Him if you are to find happiness and choose His will over your own.

I'll leave you to think about this...

Matthew 4:17
New King James Version (NKJV)
17 From that time Jesus began to preach and to say, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.”

Repent from unbelief not from sin
Therefore believe that Jesus Christ is Lord and that God The Father resurrected Jesus Christ from the dead, and you will be saved.

That is called the Gospel. That is it.

Thanks for everything guys, but this is not my calling,
Garrett

 

[trashKENNUT]

I've decided that it's time for me to part ways with the lifestyle I've been living for the past 6 months.

Due to my Christian beliefs, I've decided that this lifestyle is sinful so I will have to ask that my account be shut down.

In my opinion, following this lifestyle is sinful because you are committing adultery, you are following the path of the flesh as opposed to God, you are expressing a lack of faith in God, and you are following your own selfish path. If you believe in God and that Jesus Christ is God, you will realize that this faith will lead you to someone. Finding a girl to be with isn't something you are supposed to seek, she will come with time. I understand you may plow a lot of your time into a girl and she'll leave you. It hurts, I know, but God will lead you to someone who you are MEANT to be with.

For example, Chase your social studies teacher made the right choice. The woman he was to marry tried to get him to stray (the temptation from the devil), but he chose to have faith in God. As a result, he probably found someone who he is happy with. I understand your idea of 'settling', but God has a plan for all of us, and you have to have faith in Him if you are to find happiness and choose His will over your own.

I'll leave you to think about this...

Hey Garrett,

whatever the choice you made, in my opinion I want you to know humans plans for the future, but ultimately only God decides it happen. I am not sure what you been through this week, but if you do intend moving away and get married someday, use the skills here to get the girl you want and maintain that relationship.

to your calling,

Zac

 

[PinotNoir]

Garrett, it was nice to know you man. I thought you had some great posts on here. This one is actually a pretty big shock to me.

I'm not Christian, so I can't really relate. I was raised Christian, but moved away from all religion together at the age of 13 for reasons not important to this discussion. I still like to read religious texts of all different religions, and I consider myself spiritual (as opposed to a completely atheistic outlook without belief in afterlife, etc.), but there is no one religion I wish to align myself with. I have no problems with religious or atheistic individuals. People are free to be who they want to be and believe what they want.

However, I think you could still follow techniques/advice here in alignment with your morals. You can bend and adjust the advice. It's not set in stone. The only thing that'd you have to ditch is having sex so fast. It is seen as an important aspect, but you could just not follow it, and you can experiment and judge the results for yourself.

Here is how you could change the advice here into your lifestyle:
1.) Approach many women. Once you get a date with a girl, no longer approach other women. If dates don't go anywhere, approach a lot of new women again. I don't see what's wrong with approaching women until you get a date. I don't see how it would be sinful.
2.) Move fast to get a date.
3.) Be the sexy man. Surely, Jesus would be okay with this You can be a bad boy Christian.
4.) Move fast to kiss -- instead of moving fast for sex. Nothing wrong with kissing and making out, right?

Then just follow the rest of the texting/phone call advice without using sex.

Anyway, man, I wish you the best. Take care.
-PinotNoir

 

[Garrett]

Do not look for women. If you have faith in God and Jesus Christ she will find you. You do not need to go out and look for her. This is overcomplicated logic that stems from a lack of faith in Jesus Christ. Use your free will to follow the will of God.

You should only be with 1 woman and have sex with 1 woman or else it is considered sinful. This is not a skill that is to be learned, for having sex with more than one woman is considered to be adultery, which is sinful. You all believe in God within yourself, do not deny yourself from this.

You may get muscular or grow stubble or whatever if you wish, so long as you stay with 1 woman. Do not change yourself to be loved by others. Be yourself and accept Jesus Christ your God as your saviour.

 

[skin_man]

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[Estate]

Garrett,
All the best with your decision.
This is not a religious discussion board so I won't comment on all that, I think we should just leave that out of it.

This site teaches a lot of skills which revolve around social interaction which apply not just to "sleeping with multiple women" but also maintaining a healthy and successful relationship if/when you do meet that one great woman.
So much of these skills also apply to non-romantic relationships such as friends and in business, many of the articles here aren't even specifically about meeting women but how to be a better and successful man.

Personally I think all of that is important and is a very big reason that I am here myself.
There is no obligation to view everything here as set in stone or that you MUST sleep with multiple partners. So much of this advice can be used quite successfully applied by a virgin wishing to meet settle down with one single woman before sleeping with her.

As I said, this is not a religious board and I'd never force my religious beliefs on anyone else but I think some of the best advice I've ever gotten was that "God helps those who help themselves".
I know you are still young. You have a long life ahead of you, I'm sure you'll continue to grow and learn, all the best.

 

[Jay]

Garrett,

I sense there is more to this sudden decision, and I do not necessarily agree with you on your points laid out here, but I won't argue with you about it, I am agnostic, and your choices are your choices bro.

Good luck on your journey brotha, hope you find someone great,

Jay

 

[Chase]

Garrett-

Sorry to see you go, brother, but we all have choices to make and I respect that you've made yours. Here's hoping your new path brings you fulfillment!

I'll be on the boards a little later today, and will close out your account then.

Best of luck Garrett, and God bless-

Chase

 

[Knight]

See-you Garret. Best of luck to you.