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Polite Rejection or Possible Booty Call material?

Raqimus

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Met this girl the 6th at my work, in the interaction i feel like I wasn't as sexual as I would of liked to be I usually hold back at work, maybe toss out a comment and see if she bites, mostly been relying on nonverbals, gonna incorporate more tone

This is the texting:
Me: Nice meeting you xxx
-Raqimus

Her:it was nice meeting you too! and thanks for your help the other day :) I was thinking afterward though and I should be honest I'm so busy with work these days, I really don't have enough time to date... you seem very nice and I'd be happy to get a coffee sometime but I'm just not looking for a new person in my life right now.

So what I gather from this, she was thinking about me, possibly likes me, she is busy, I seem nice (good or bad? dunno), is down to get a coffee but at the same time isnt looking for a new person (maybe she means boyfriend). I think I may have came off too boyfriendy since I've been practicing being nervous :/ I think she is open to a booty call but to get the ball rolling that way I don't know what to send... orrrrr shes rejecting me

Any thoughts guys?
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Lotus

Modern Human
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Raqimus,

Sounds like a shit test to disqualify her orbiters. I would just pretend like she never said it. She agreed on meeting you for a coffee so focus on getting her out and run from there.

-Taylor
 
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