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I suck at FR so bear with me (also LMK if this is the wrong board for the post).
Context: Me + medium group of casual friends, I isolated a very close friend of mine (who has a bf) + two cute girls who I know from the past (both bi and had a LTR some time ago), rainy day, sheltered inside a quite noisy speakeasy. Girl A was throwing heavy IOIs to me (heavy touching, compliments, intense staring, etc.), Girl B was just being cool. Also an out-of-nowhere guy tried to AMOG by joining us and being loud and obnoxious, he tried hard to PU Girl B and I was confident (and correct) that he would fail, I responded with good vibes and mostly ignoring, he eventually left.
Long before said LTR I KC'd them both at the same time at a pub (not bc of my logistics -they suck- nor 2nd gen -which I quite lack- but bc they already where into each other and I already had built attraction in parallel with them, alcohol helped too) so I presumed attraction this time. My little group ended up at my friend's house where I KC'd both, separately this time (each unaware of the other)... After a while my friend left to her BF's, I stayed with Girl A + Girl B and tried them both to stay with me, only Girl B complied and the other left too (so now just Girl B and me alone).
Context: I normally sleep like shit and I've been a teetotaler for a couple of years now, this time I made an exception with alcohol and partly fired back. So you guessed right, ED kicks in, we did other things but no d-in-p. She eventually leaves in a good note not showing frustration -which ofc I know there was-... Perhaps PA was part of the issue too, maybe but not sure.
So, my PSA is don't get overconfident with stamina, but also looking for advice as I'm not entirely sure that is my actual issue TBH: any experience with ED? Any advice besides sleeping well + hydrating + good diet + being stress free? I'm quite rusty so that might be it IDK... And yes I feel like a fool, but unfortunately this is not the first time this happens to me (it truly feels like random, which I guess is not but who knows).
TIA
PD: Also, any good logistics and 2nd gen info is welcomed
Context: Me + medium group of casual friends, I isolated a very close friend of mine (who has a bf) + two cute girls who I know from the past (both bi and had a LTR some time ago), rainy day, sheltered inside a quite noisy speakeasy. Girl A was throwing heavy IOIs to me (heavy touching, compliments, intense staring, etc.), Girl B was just being cool. Also an out-of-nowhere guy tried to AMOG by joining us and being loud and obnoxious, he tried hard to PU Girl B and I was confident (and correct) that he would fail, I responded with good vibes and mostly ignoring, he eventually left.
Long before said LTR I KC'd them both at the same time at a pub (not bc of my logistics -they suck- nor 2nd gen -which I quite lack- but bc they already where into each other and I already had built attraction in parallel with them, alcohol helped too) so I presumed attraction this time. My little group ended up at my friend's house where I KC'd both, separately this time (each unaware of the other)... After a while my friend left to her BF's, I stayed with Girl A + Girl B and tried them both to stay with me, only Girl B complied and the other left too (so now just Girl B and me alone).
Context: I normally sleep like shit and I've been a teetotaler for a couple of years now, this time I made an exception with alcohol and partly fired back. So you guessed right, ED kicks in, we did other things but no d-in-p. She eventually leaves in a good note not showing frustration -which ofc I know there was-... Perhaps PA was part of the issue too, maybe but not sure.
So, my PSA is don't get overconfident with stamina, but also looking for advice as I'm not entirely sure that is my actual issue TBH: any experience with ED? Any advice besides sleeping well + hydrating + good diet + being stress free? I'm quite rusty so that might be it IDK... And yes I feel like a fool, but unfortunately this is not the first time this happens to me (it truly feels like random, which I guess is not but who knows).
TIA
PD: Also, any good logistics and 2nd gen info is welcomed
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