So I stumbled onto the blog looking into some help on my question. The blog is great and will read all of the past posts. I wanted to ask a question, this is concerning the blog post Attraction has an expiration date. I've recently went out a few times with a girl and one time we came close to sex but it didn't happen I wanted to wait. I've had somewhat of a blood flow problem, low T levels and sometimes I psych myself out and can't perform. So the doc gave me some cheap "build up over time" pills not Viagra. So when it was go time to hook up a few weeks later it just wasn't working. Now the girl and I don't talk anymore or rarely. I want to get some potent Viagra and call her up and show her what she was missing, but is it too late? Is my chance gone? Thanks for reading!
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Welcome, Airwlk!
You can certainly hit her up and see if she'll respond, but if you haven't talked in awhile, it's a lot less likely that she'll follow through with anything. If a girl likes you, and you've at least gotten to the point where you attempted intercourse with her, then there's a decent chance she'll give you another shot if you're unable to perform. However, every time this happens, your chances of her wanting to see you again go down dramatically.
The first time this happens, she might understand that it's just an alcohol problem (if you were drinking) or some other unrelated problem. But once it happens again, she'll think either one of two things: (A) you aren't enough of a man to get the job done or (B) you don't find her very attractive. In both cases, it causes her to lose attraction for you, and it'll be up in the air (no pun intended) as to whether or not she's willing to give you another try.
So you can try sending her a text out of the blue to see if she'll meet up, but if you don't hear anything back, it would probably be a good time to go out and meet some new women. =)
Hope that helps!
- Franco
You can certainly hit her up and see if she'll respond, but if you haven't talked in awhile, it's a lot less likely that she'll follow through with anything. If a girl likes you, and you've at least gotten to the point where you attempted intercourse with her, then there's a decent chance she'll give you another shot if you're unable to perform. However, every time this happens, your chances of her wanting to see you again go down dramatically.
The first time this happens, she might understand that it's just an alcohol problem (if you were drinking) or some other unrelated problem. But once it happens again, she'll think either one of two things: (A) you aren't enough of a man to get the job done or (B) you don't find her very attractive. In both cases, it causes her to lose attraction for you, and it'll be up in the air (no pun intended) as to whether or not she's willing to give you another try.
So you can try sending her a text out of the blue to see if she'll meet up, but if you don't hear anything back, it would probably be a good time to go out and meet some new women. =)
Hope that helps!
- Franco
