Pre selection and jealous girls?

[Flu1d]

Hello everybody! I've been seeing the results of how pre selection can dramatically spike women's interest in you even after she rejected you! I want to know if girls like these are worth your time and how to easily create pre selection for yourself. First, I'll share my experience with this girl...

Last year I asked this girl to homecoming very boldly and I see many huge mistakes in hindsight, but I digress. Without knowing her I bought her flowers and said she was an amazing girl. She didn't go with me and actually made fun of me! Anyways down the road I hooked up with a gorgeous foreign exchange student and went to another dance with her. We were dancing a long time and I was physically escalating with her by grinding and increased holding and touching. We were having a blast, but when it came time for dancing slow and closely, the girl who rejected me burst between physically separating us and crying. She wasn't there with a date.. She stormed off before I could talk, but I never did since I knew it was her. She then became extremely flirty with me the following months. I didn't get involved since I didn't think that was my type and she had her chance. Despite kind of liking her i figured it wasn't worth it.

I was astounded at how having dated this girl for weeks was able to get so much more interest than usual for me. This girl who had flat out rejected me became extremely interested in me just by seeing me with another! Is there anyway to create the same results or how to improve pre selection easily? Also, what are your thoughts on girls like this?

Thanks

 

[Franco]

Hi Flu1d!

It is astounding how much pre-selection can really pique a girl's interest! Girls are extremely competitive when it comes to men (even more so than men are themselves -- and we are supposed to be the 'hunters' who "win" the 'prized trophy')! This can especially be seen through girls who once had a chance with you and then see you with another woman that they deem as "high value."

It's funny that you mention the homecoming story because I have a story that is almost EXACTLY the same from high school. I was essentially turned down by a girl to the Winter Formal dance because she was asked by a guy that she was interested in at the time. The guy ended up abandoning her at the dance, and to make matters worse, she found me later with my date... who was none other than the only hot college girl that went to this dance.

I heard from my social circle later that the girl I had originally asked ended up in tears at the end of the night. She then began to text me constantly for the next few months. I had lost interest at this point.

Pre-selection is a valuable tool. If you know how to use it, you can even win back the interest of girls that initially turned you down!

- Franco

 

[Ross]

The girl you describe as getting jealous seems to be.. Less desirable and socially attuned. A girl who was closely socially attuned and desirable would probably have figured out a way to get what she wants, so when she "made fun of [you]" she was simply getting some attention and trying to boost her status as a desirable woman; because she wasn't, although she may have been physically attractive. The fact that she couldn't find a date probably added to her undesirability, which may explain why she was so emotional. This probably explains why you didn't care for her afterwards, because you realized how she wasn't desirable.

The funny thing about pre-selection is that it's typically used to form an opinion prior to meeting someone. Woman sees you with an attractive girl and thinks, wow, that guy can get girls, he must be desirable. The reason it is so powerful is because it forms a quick opinion, which is all about moving fast. I'm not sure that her reaction was really genuine... Sure, she reacted in jealousy, but would she still sleep with you if you wanted her? That question really can't be certainly answered, but it is the one we want to answer. She reacted, but there weren't really any results because her attraction took a significant dip because you viewed her as undesirable.

After that thought and clarification, here's the answer to your questions. Yes, pre-selected girls are worth your time, because most women react to pre-selection, and it typically won't warrant enough jealousy. Besides, if this evoked such a big reaction of jealousy in a girl it would be great at screening that her value is low. Pre-selection can be improved by having a good time with women when you are with them. Pre-selection can work against you if the girl seems bored or uninterested.

I wouldn't go as far as to suggest that girls like the one in your story was bad. She just seemed to not be extremely valuable because of her reaction, and may have just been having a bad day. Not so great to categorize and label women into groups, it's better, although harder as the brain naturally categorizes, to look at people as their own self and give everyone a separate evaluation of value.

 

[Flu1d]

That makes sense. That reaction does show low value. However you don't want to discount all women like that necessarily.
I've also noticed as far as women you've never met, if you appear to be busy and social on your fb for example, some similar first impressions can be made that are beneficial to you when you actually meet them.

 

[Franco]

Flu1d,

RTB is correct in that pre-selection is generally used to meet girls you haven't met yet by building up their interest based on positive social interactions you are having with other women. The best way to improve your results with pre-selection is to simply talk to lots of women! Chase makes a point that, when you go out, you want to start talking to women as soon as possible so that you can generate "momentum" and begin feeling comfortable in your shoes. While the first few women of the night might turn you down, all it takes is one decent-looking girl to really enjoy a conversation with you and all of a sudden five other attractive women are noticing you!

As far as your second question, it probably wasn't too mature of the girl in question to make fun of you for doing what you did. Girls in high school don't have much exposure to being courted by men, so they often handle awkward situations like that very inappropriately. The fact that she felt the need to make fun of you probably tells you a lot about her personality, so it was probably a girl that you wouldn't want to be involved with anyway. There are definitely better women out there who have the looks and the personality you are looking for without the lack of social grace.

Just make sure to keep truckin', and you'll come across a keeper soon.

- Franco

 

[trashKENNUT]

I saw The Tool did "Bump" on some of the older posts. Perhaps this week could be great in reviving some older materials.

BUMP!

Zac