Calls & Texts Predicament..

[ThrowDown]

After making several approaches every weekend, I manage to acquire several numbers over the course of the two days (Minimum of 2). My approaches are mostly straight up, direct openers. I.e. "I think you are the most prettiest girl, I've seen all day.. and I just had to introduce myself, my name is X." I like to keep the approaches short (within 2-5) minutes and before I leave, I let these ladies know that I'd love to continue this conversation another time (Coffee etc.) and receive their numbers thereafter. These conversations are very lively, and I mix sexual frames within them. And if I feel like the vibe is not there? I follow the ACER law.

However, after giving it a day to five day period of no-contact I text the numbers: "Hey, X, It was a pleasure to meet you, Hope your day is amazing and beautiful. Let me know how life is treating you. - kevin"

and receive no reply. I follow Chase's texting rule of thumb and would send a follow up text, and would at times receive a reply (1 in 3) and not (2 out of 3)

I send 2-3 texts, following the rule of thumb, and after that? I cut them loose. No chasing

I have already read the article on "What To Do When A Girl Doesn't Text Back" and would like to receive more feedback and advice in order to prevent this from re-occuring again.

- Kevin.

 

[Richard]

Bro,

If you're running day game and doing direct approaches - do not wait a day to 5 days before sending an icebreaker text.

It's better to send the icebreaker texts a few hours after closing their number, and you only wait til the next day if you pulled the number during night game.

Girls will forget about you fast, and the longer you prolong that first text the more time they have to forget who you are.

"Hey, X, It was a pleasure to meet you, Hope your day is amazing and beautiful. Let me know how life is treating you. - kevin"

Also, if that's your first text to them, then I'd recommend changing it because you're investing more into them, and it feels like you're straining yourself to force conversation out of them. My general icebreaker is:

"Hey X, it's Richard. Save my number " and I send it a few hours after meeting the girl because she knows my name and I'll be fresh in her memory. After a day to 5 days, her thinking shifts from "That guy I met today was cool" to "Who was that guy I met a few days ago? What was his name again?"

That's my advice for ya

-Richard

 

[ThrowDown]

Thanks, I'll implement that ASAP.

 

[ThrowDown]

Is it just me? Or are their others who experience the same problem.