Pregnancy Scare

[thedude]

Hey guys....


Right now I am going through some really tough shit. I met this 35 year old woman and had sex with her.....


However during it she just shoved my dick in her without a condom and I just went with it. I came inside her once during the evening and learned after that she is not on the pill........
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To make matters worse.... she is on the 14th day of her cycle and she is taking hormonal drugs that as a SIDE EFFECT increase fertility.

We ordered the plan b pill and she should be able to pick it up at around 1-2 am at the pharmacy(we had sex around 11-12pm) But even then there are hoops to jump through to get the pill(did I mention she is in a shitty marriage with no sex, which is why I did it)....

I fucked up horribly, while we were fucking I knew I should have had a condom on but I assumed she was on the pill and I didn't want to ask during so as to not ruin the moment.....

Now because of my idiocy it seems my life will be forever altered in a terrible fashion(this is in Germany btw, I live in America)..... I see how disappointed and ashamed my parents will be and so many more terribly things if others were to find out. She says she would not rely on me a 21 year old(she is financially secure and wears the pants in the marriage) but this seems to good to be true....

I just needed to write about what I am feeling atm

 

[trashKENNUT]

CollegeJunior,

The best way is to avoid meeting her again, because she is using hormonal drugs. In the mean time, i know many guys who gone raw and i also learn many guys who are good with women that go on a raw rampage and nothing happen much except for a few unfortunate souls who caught herpes or accidentally knocked somebody up.

So i think just let it go. Keep calm. It can happen, but also know that many guys go on raw rampage. So if you really regret it, becareful next time.

Zac

 

[thedude]

Ok,

I will do that. I just hope she was able to get the plan b in time. Otherwise it will have to wait till Monday......

Thank you for the reply

 

[trashKENNUT]

CJ,

I will do that. I just hope she was able to get the plan b in time. Otherwise it will have to wait till Monday......

As long as you did get it for her, you can try to see her and ask her personally if she gotten the pill. Then leave before she grabs your dick and put it in. Hahas, It's fun of course but if she is using enhancers, that's something else.

Zac

 

[thedude]

Germany is a fucked up country.

You cannot get the pills on the weekends here........

We have to wait till Monday now- Now things are serious.

It seems we may need to look into a backup...

Depends when ovulation occurs.

 

[Mr.Rob]

I'd look it up but I'm pretty sure that a girl can only get pregnant 1 week prior to her menstrual cycle and one day after and even then it's a 20-25% chance.
Not sure but I had to get a Plan B pill yesterday and was researching the cite about it and found that information. However I'd double check it.

What are her thought on all this is she freaking as bad as you are?

 

[thedude]

She's not doing too well either.


its just the combination of her taking meds that increase fertility-being fourteen days into her cycle and now we can't get the pill immediately which decreases the chances.

It just seems like the perfect storm to me haha

Hopefully it will end well

 

[thedude]

Well it seems like everything is going to be alright.

Tomorrow she is gonna go look into this 99% effective device.

Thanks for the support guys

 

[trashKENNUT]

CJ,

Meeting her personally is important because you need to know if she receives the pill, and also taken the pill. You can leave after that.

Zac

 

[Chase]

CJ-

She's sounds very much like she's trying to conceive, either consciously or subconsciously. Perfect storms are rarely perfect by accident. She's at the age too where women often start working very hard to get pregnant, especially if they don't have any children yet, or want more. It sounds like the prospects of her current man doing the job are slim to none.

Chances are, once having discovered she was pregnant she'd just have the husband sleep with her and then tell him it's his. She wears the pants, and he won't question it, whether he suspects it might not be his or not (he'll fear pissing her off and incurring her wrath, plus seeming weak and in doubt of his own hold over his woman, if he suggests he thinks the child might not be his). She'll probably have him sleep with her soon anyway just as a precaution in case you have impregnated her.

I don't think you're at any risk of being on the hook for things financially here, though you may have mixed feelings about having a son or daughter raised by another man with you effectively just serving as the sperm donor. But I'm pretty sure that's all you are here - when a woman finds herself in an unsatisfactory marriage enduring a sexual desert with a man who lacks the wherewithal to seize the reins of the relationship and lead, it's not uncommon for her to look outside the marriage for a more testosterone-driven partner to provide her some more robust offspring. Kinda how these things go sometimes; not pretty, but it is part of human nature.

Chase

 

[trashKENNUT]

Chase,

I swear I was thinking about the same thing. Asking her husband to sleep with her as a precaution.

Zac

 

[Richard]

CJ-

She's sounds very much like she's trying to conceive, either consciously or subconsciously. Perfect storms are rarely perfect by accident. She's at the age too where women often start working very hard to get pregnant, especially if they don't have any children yet, or want more. It sounds like the prospects of her current man doing the job are slim to none.

Chances are, once having discovered she was pregnant she'd just have the husband sleep with her and then tell him it's his. She wears the pants, and he won't question it, whether he suspects it might not be his or not (he'll fear pissing her off and incurring her wrath, plus seeming weak and in doubt of his own hold over his woman, if he suggests he thinks the child might not be his). She'll probably have him sleep with her soon anyway just as a precaution in case you have impregnated her.

I don't think you're at any risk of being on the hook for things financially here, though you may have mixed feelings about having a son or daughter raised by another man with you effectively just serving as the sperm donor. But I'm pretty sure that's all you are here - when a woman finds herself in an unsatisfactory marriage enduring a sexual desert with a man who lacks the wherewithal to seize the reins of the relationship and lead, it's not uncommon for her to look outside the marriage for a more testosterone-driven partner to provide her some more robust offspring. Kinda how these things go sometimes; not pretty, but it is part of human nature.

Chase

LOL. This is exactly what I told Tool =)

 

[thedude]

Long Update:

Well everything is now going to be fine. To sum it up her gynacologist is a boy. She took the ella pill today which is 95% effective within 5 days no matter which day it is taken. Furthermore she is getting a thing inserted into urethra or somewhere tomorrow which is 99% effective within 5 days and actually is basically birth control for a period of 5 months(I think). This happened because her older friend convinced her to just go to the gynacologist(who is a family friend).


@Chase- What you say was absolutely true. But first let me show some light on the background of this woman. She is a retired law enforcement officer from Canada. After I made the opening post in this thread I calmed down more and more as I realized this woman is not financially dependent on her Husband. Her family is very wealthy as well.

Though what you say is true. She definitely wants children, she even said it at some point that faithful night. However some more background- 1. She already has a child with this dude- 2. The reason she married the Husband was because probably recently before he met him her boyfriend of 5 years died of Krons disease. Talking about her marriage, she spoke about how after his death she didn’t want to go around and thought marriage was the best option but she didn’t realize then how long life was.

She did seriously consider telling him that it was his but she didn’t want to live that lie for the forseable future.


Overall this (almost) fiasco has been a valuable learning experience and I’ve gained things too
1. Don’t assume the other person knows what she is doing. NEVER ASSUME.
2. I now know in my heart of hearts that I will not have ED again, my soldier will stand tall and slam pussy when I need it to haha
3. This woman is super experienced, if I really go all in into learning I will be some sort of sex ninja by the time I leave in December.
4. General life experience- I assume the doomsday scenario is gonna happen, need to stop this

Also other stuff like today she picked me up from the gym and also gave me this nutrition book(I’ve been figuring out weight lifting) in tandem with a new pillow because the one in my apartment sucks.

Im going to see her again on Saturday(she is bringing some fancy vodka and a surprise? Lol) but in the meantime I will get work done and continue to practice pick up. I definitely want to fuck at least one German girl before I live but God are Germans tough nuts.

Thank you guys for everything. It was an interesting ride.