Preparing for being blown out

[killerman]

Right, there's one I've been thinking these last few days, and it's basically preparing for a particular scenario in the future where let's say I'm seeing a girl but then she blows me out somewhere along the line saying that it's not working out and we should stop seeing each other. What should I say in return? I know I have to appear unaffected and confident so what should I say in return? Thanks!

 

[ray_zorse]

It depends completely on the situation... if it actually comes to this you probably already have a pretty good idea what the problem is... and this might not be the time to try gamey stuff, if she's testing you then sure, do the Brad Pitt "look off to one side and up and laugh and then look back" manouevre, but if she's genuinely feeling things aren't working out it might be a good idea to find out why, or better still, if you already know, do something honestly and directly to address her concerns and make her feel heard. Franco often recommends this kind of thing. It's what I would call the "firm but reasonable" approach. Stick to your frame.
Ray