In taking an impartial look at my overall skillset and game, I've been feeling a bit overwhelmed. Everything is just a complete trainwreck. Now I want to spend a small amount of time on women and game in general, so the appropriate thing is to take one or two things at a time, let's say one nonverbal and one verbal, and hammer that in for some time then move on.
The main things I need to work on:
Nonverbal:
1) Body language
2) the elements of gunwitch's "SECT" model (eye contact, sensual voice tone, closeness (proximity) and touch)
3) sexual state projection
Verbal:
Approaching:
1) Opening: becoming skilled at specific situational push-pull sorts of openers, to me it seems like Todd's structure "I saw you doing X, which means you are either Y good thing or Z bad thing, and I'm curious as to which" is the one that appeals to me the most, but will take some time to master.
(I know indirect is touted as great here, maybe later on I will move to it, but it is technically harder to transition. obviously the standard stock direct "I think you are cute and want to meet you" is complete and utter shit)
2) Emotional spiking (teasing, roleplaying, pushpull, etc.)
3) Deep diving and qualification
Mid-game/Dates:
1) Emotional stimulation key, including NLP
2) Arousal key, sex talk
3) Escalation
4) Flirting (more emotional spiking but more sexual in nature "sexual banter" as skills calls it)
Now for me all of these particular things are quite shitty. So I feel overwhelmed at the amount of things I need to fix just to have an intermediate level of game. I presume the best way is to spend perhaps a week to a month focusing hard on one nonverbal and one verbal thing, then moving on while making sure to maintain what was worked on before.
But what would you guys say to put as priorities? What to work on first, and what is not so important as I may think? Should it just be linear (things more relevant in the beginning of an approach first, and then later things more relevant closer to the lay?)? How do you know when you've achieved enough mastery at each skillset element? What is your approach to "deliberate practice" on each of these things?
The main things I need to work on:
Nonverbal:
1) Body language
2) the elements of gunwitch's "SECT" model (eye contact, sensual voice tone, closeness (proximity) and touch)
3) sexual state projection
Verbal:
Approaching:
1) Opening: becoming skilled at specific situational push-pull sorts of openers, to me it seems like Todd's structure "I saw you doing X, which means you are either Y good thing or Z bad thing, and I'm curious as to which" is the one that appeals to me the most, but will take some time to master.
(I know indirect is touted as great here, maybe later on I will move to it, but it is technically harder to transition. obviously the standard stock direct "I think you are cute and want to meet you" is complete and utter shit)
2) Emotional spiking (teasing, roleplaying, pushpull, etc.)
3) Deep diving and qualification
Mid-game/Dates:
1) Emotional stimulation key, including NLP
2) Arousal key, sex talk
3) Escalation
4) Flirting (more emotional spiking but more sexual in nature "sexual banter" as skills calls it)
Now for me all of these particular things are quite shitty. So I feel overwhelmed at the amount of things I need to fix just to have an intermediate level of game. I presume the best way is to spend perhaps a week to a month focusing hard on one nonverbal and one verbal thing, then moving on while making sure to maintain what was worked on before.
But what would you guys say to put as priorities? What to work on first, and what is not so important as I may think? Should it just be linear (things more relevant in the beginning of an approach first, and then later things more relevant closer to the lay?)? How do you know when you've achieved enough mastery at each skillset element? What is your approach to "deliberate practice" on each of these things?
