So my game has been improving significantly, which was my New Year's resolution. Never have I had so much success. I will be posting about some of my techniques/tactics on here more often. GirlsChase has helped me out in ways I couldn't believe. Anyways, I currently have a list of 6 girls that I am in the 'take out on a date' stage. All of them have never been on a date with me before. Some have been waiting longer than other but they have all shown interest. I am in college so my availability to find time for dates with work and school is difficult, but I want to invest my time correctly into each girl. All have agreed to go out with me on a date.
Girl 1: I actually like this girl, she is a friend but trying to make her a girlfriend, we hang out in the same social circle and are always around each other. She's currently in an on/off situation with her ex boyfriend, and the competition to get her is high (one friend really likes this girl, another friend has a weird relationship with her they are both getting out of relationships and talk about it often). I am investing now because I've been able to build my social proof, and I fall into the highly attainable category with her. Tried to set up 1 date, she flaked, known to say yes but reluctant to act. This is a very difficult pull for me due to the situation, may hold off on it until summer.
Girl 2: Girl in my class, we talk before/after class, set up a 'study session' with her and didn't work out for either of our schedules. Ran into her at a recent party, but wasn't able to put in the effort to talk to her that night (she was with a group, I was drunk/already invested in a girl to take home that night). Was signaling very high interest.
Girl 3: Simple one. Followed me on instagram, DM'd her for her number, mentioned we should go out sometime. She agreed and said she was free this week.
Girl 4: Met at a bus stop, I text her here and there to build a small connection (convo at bus stop was rather quick), loosely tried to set up 1 date ("hey I'm in the area we should hang out") but she declined. Says we should hang out this week.
Girl 5: Hooked up with this girl at a bar, she texts me constantly (and is very dry) but tries to put in a lot of effort to meet with me. I flaked on her twice, she flaked on me once. Has a difficult work schedule that doesn't mesh with mine, and I don't reply to a lot of her texts for the most part (convos are boring). We have mutual friends, but she also lives far away. Not sure if she has a car. Sends me days she is available every week (I usually work the days she doesn't).
Girl 6: 10/10 girl I messaged on Instagram, holds great text conversation. Goes to school out of state, but visits her hometown (close to mine) often. Tried to set up 2 dates, first one she flaked for a legitimate excuse, 2nd time she flaked she already had plans. Tried to set them up on 2 diff days in a weekend (Friday and Saturday). Highly attainable girl (from my realm) would probably be the hottest girl I ever get with thus far if I succeed.
So there you have it. I am trying to get to all 6 and take them out on dates, and don't want the attraction to 'expire' as it has for me in the past. I've had a number of girls lose interest in me due to my forgetfulness of reaching out to them, or bad logistics. I have a decent connection with all except 1 of them (Girl 3). I'm usually available 2-3 days a week.
Girl 1: I actually like this girl, she is a friend but trying to make her a girlfriend, we hang out in the same social circle and are always around each other. She's currently in an on/off situation with her ex boyfriend, and the competition to get her is high (one friend really likes this girl, another friend has a weird relationship with her they are both getting out of relationships and talk about it often). I am investing now because I've been able to build my social proof, and I fall into the highly attainable category with her. Tried to set up 1 date, she flaked, known to say yes but reluctant to act. This is a very difficult pull for me due to the situation, may hold off on it until summer.
Girl 2: Girl in my class, we talk before/after class, set up a 'study session' with her and didn't work out for either of our schedules. Ran into her at a recent party, but wasn't able to put in the effort to talk to her that night (she was with a group, I was drunk/already invested in a girl to take home that night). Was signaling very high interest.
Girl 3: Simple one. Followed me on instagram, DM'd her for her number, mentioned we should go out sometime. She agreed and said she was free this week.
Girl 4: Met at a bus stop, I text her here and there to build a small connection (convo at bus stop was rather quick), loosely tried to set up 1 date ("hey I'm in the area we should hang out") but she declined. Says we should hang out this week.
Girl 5: Hooked up with this girl at a bar, she texts me constantly (and is very dry) but tries to put in a lot of effort to meet with me. I flaked on her twice, she flaked on me once. Has a difficult work schedule that doesn't mesh with mine, and I don't reply to a lot of her texts for the most part (convos are boring). We have mutual friends, but she also lives far away. Not sure if she has a car. Sends me days she is available every week (I usually work the days she doesn't).
Girl 6: 10/10 girl I messaged on Instagram, holds great text conversation. Goes to school out of state, but visits her hometown (close to mine) often. Tried to set up 2 dates, first one she flaked for a legitimate excuse, 2nd time she flaked she already had plans. Tried to set them up on 2 diff days in a weekend (Friday and Saturday). Highly attainable girl (from my realm) would probably be the hottest girl I ever get with thus far if I succeed.
So there you have it. I am trying to get to all 6 and take them out on dates, and don't want the attraction to 'expire' as it has for me in the past. I've had a number of girls lose interest in me due to my forgetfulness of reaching out to them, or bad logistics. I have a decent connection with all except 1 of them (Girl 3). I'm usually available 2-3 days a week.
