Pro tip? for 10 Approaching dilemmas

[Lawliet]

Hey bros,

There are times when I can't think of ways to come off effortless and natural in opening.
Aiming for Sprezzatura. Please advice guys!

When you can't come off smooth, do you approach?
Examples:
1. You already sat down on the bus. Sees a girl / Girl gets on after.
You pull out "Eyes that draw" but no success.
Getting up and walking over, too strong!
What now?

2. Girl moving and walking. Now what?

3. Girl is standing there, but there's no reason you can find to just go over there. There's nothing over there and she's just standing.

4. Girl is standing and as you approach, another guy (the guy she waiting for) comes up...
Hahaha this one was hilarious!

5. Girl on the phone.

6. Girl sitting in a seat that has no other seats next to her. There are chairs around.

7. Girl sitting on a one seater on the bus, only way is standing next to her
Instant chasing

8. Girl is chatting with friends. Male / female / mix
Oh this one got me hard. Pun unintended.

9. Girl who's on earphones
Tried a "HEY THERE!" not sexy at all.

10. Girl with their parents
This is also funny.

Any feedback or advice is welcomed!

Yours,
Lawliet

 

[Skid]

Hey dude ,

Sometimes in these situations you've just got to choose to approach the girl and make the sacrifice of looking a bit less smooth but for some of these situations I do have some more effortless alternatives which I'm happy to share.

1. If you're already on the bus and the girl sits away from you you really don't have much of a choice but to move closer to her I haven't opened girls on a bus in a while but usually sitting in front of her is better since she sees you before you open (reopening) its less threatening / gives higher chance of warmer response than if you're sitting behind her just turn so your shoulder is facing her and speak over your shoulder if you do want to open from the seat behind try to walk in front first so she sees you other than that you just have to bite the bullet if you want to try.

2. I started off opening girls that are moving. In some ways its easier because the girl can leave and doesn't feel stuck like she can if she is sitting where you sometimes need to throw in a time constraint so she feels more comfortable initially. If she is walking towards you just step in her path smirk and open direct. If she is walking ahead of you walk beside her for like 2 seconds tap her shoulder point backwards and say "hey saw you back there you're cute "

3. Open direct - you shouldn't need a reason to talk to a girl other than you find her attractive. It's really attractive to a girl if you can just go up to her and say "hey , you're cute what's your name ?"

4. Just engage the dude make friends with him same thing if her female friends show up.

5. Just open direct - (if a girl is clearly occupied and doing something always open direct its the best way to get her attention) - then after you compliment her address the phone in a chill way - "Hey , just saw you walking past you're cute - is this a life or death phone call?"

6. This is another you've just got to bite the bullet if you want to approach. Just walk past the row of seats and open. Only tried this a bunch and go really good or really bad lols.

7. Meh , just open her yeah I guess its sorta chasing but your over analyzing is preventing you from saying hi - just stand beside her like your ready to leave (open mid stride) if she responds well then start leaning on the pole and keep talking if not keep walking.

8. I never do this too messy and I'm not very good at dealing with big groups of people at once.

9. My personal favorite for this is say hey smirk and then motion taking headphones off - and then she'll take them off then continue with opening.

10. I don't bother with these either.

The biggest thing tho that will aid you in looking "effortless" when you approach girls is practice : after my first few months of approaching my friends where amazed at how "natural" I made it look.

Skid

 

[Man-O]

Dilemma 8 and 10 are daring and really show you got balls if you know how to break it.

I mainly do night game and often only the ugly girls are "viable" in the bars, meaning there are no guys or they aren't sitting more than 4 girls together.
It doesn't happen often to me I approach these sets since I need some strong vibe and state and the girl has to be very hot and intriguing before I do it because it is more of a hurdle than lonely 2sets. But I follow KISS (keep it simple and stupid).
I go directly over and introduce my name with handshake to the girl and I smile to her friends and tell them I felt attraction and I'd like to burrow her (sometimes followed by "are you single/is she single?". If I can't isolate I get her number as discretely as possible within 2 minutes (though getting n-closes in their groups is shitty). I've experienced some guys walking away who were just hitting on the same girls simply because the girls found me more interesting/better game. Even if it fails you still approached and will have a much easier time hitting other sets.

With parents I think it's the same (never done it but seen it on infield videos). All the guys are bold and usually the parents appreciate that, and if you are decent groomed then they'll approve putting pressure on their daughter.

But not trying means you may miss the girl of your life and you will fail to challenge yourself and in the end improving yourself at seduction.

 

[Fuck This]

I always seem to be able to engage them with eye contact, and a "hello".

Once I get that I can ask them about what they are doing:
What you reading?
What are you listening to?
Who are your friends here? How do you all know each other?

I'll admit I've been stumped on occasion. Like the girl at the Bank last week. She was at the Teller window when I came in the door. She made eye contact for the longest time. I stopped to fill out a deposit slip, and she had to pass me on her way out. I didn't have something to say, and she was moving with purpose as she passed me...Felt just like laying off a strike playing baseball..

 

[Ree]

Hey bros,

There are times when I can't think of ways to come off effortless and natural in opening.
Aiming for Sprezzatura. Please advice guys!

When you can't come off smooth, do you approach?
Examples:
1. You already sat down on the bus. Sees a girl / Girl gets on after.
You pull out "Eyes that draw" but no success.
Getting up and walking over, too strong!
What now?

2. Girl moving and walking. Now what?

3. Girl is standing there, but there's no reason you can find to just go over there. There's nothing over there and she's just standing.

4. Girl is standing and as you approach, another guy (the guy she waiting for) comes up...
Hahaha this one was hilarious!

5. Girl on the phone.

6. Girl sitting in a seat that has no other seats next to her. There are chairs around.

7. Girl sitting on a one seater on the bus, only way is standing next to her
Instant chasing

8. Girl is chatting with friends. Male / female / mix
Oh this one got me hard. Pun unintended.

9. Girl who's on earphones
Tried a "HEY THERE!" not sexy at all.

10. Girl with their parents
This is also funny.

Any feedback or advice is welcomed!

Yours,
Lawliet

Hey..,speezetura means mimnimum effort reguired....not small effort.And certainly..not no effort
Minimium effort required(might be a lot of effort that is required)

All my reponses will be things i have done...a lot of times.i will jot tell u theories....i will not tell u what i think...fellow comrade and seducer...i will only tell u what i know


1.i live in kenya where we use buses a lot....just jump from ur seat.....even if u had already sat(someone will inevitavly seat next to her anyway..might as well be you)
2.run(walking behing girls will make u feel like a creep)....i just ran..." hey,didnt mean to startle you,i just saw u and i knew,if i dont come over and say hi....il just go back to the office and regret ot for 5 hrs..
3.Just walk. Towards her and approach
4.I eject( a more experienced person might have an answer that still gets u the gal,i dont)
5.i Wait till shes not on the phone....or eject(again an answer that reflects not the limitations of game....but the limitation of my game)
6.Go there
7.I wouldnt approach(not because it cant be done...but i have never done it...and i will not give out info i haven tested out myself)
8.i have only found succes with Groups during daygame,if i
A.i am in a group myself...usually me and a wing
B.we approach indirectly....with opinion openers...,i know gc has a lot of negative stuff to say abt opinion openers,but in geoups thats the only opener that evr worked for me
9.This is the best gal to approach....done this loads of times....tap her....shell usually remove her earphones...say u like her style...then..proceed to guess what shes listening to...this is a good gal beacuse u usaully have an instant topic to discuss.....some gals..(rare)...will give u a blowout...but its very rare
10.Engage her and her parents in an incestious circle jerk threesome.....is what i would advise u to not atempt.....hehehe
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