Re: Problem with low attainability and low value. Anyone facing this same proble
Zac,
This happens when you don't calibrate your vibe to each individual girl. One girl might see you as this absolutely amazing guy that she would normally not be able to have, and then instead of lowering your value and being humble, you tend to come across as cocky or arrogant, and it makes your attainability seem extremely low. So then that girl stops going for you because she feels like she can't have you (or that you won't treat her well). Another girl might see you as high attainability and too easy, and instead of challenging her, you come across as humble and too "nice," and it only confirms to her that you are lower value, so she dismisses the idea of sleeping with you.
Once you get better, you become faster at recognizing how a girl is seeing you after the initial introduction. Is she excited and wide-eyed? Does she seem really interested in you? This probably means your attainability is "lower" than average for her because you seem like a catch -- in this case, you want to come across as really humble and, for lack of a better word, "nice" to her so that she feels like she actually has a chance with you. However, if the girl seems standoffish, or "uninterested," then you'll want to do things like tease her or challenge her so that she begins to see you as someone who is more on her level. This makes your high attainability seem lower, and it also raises your value in her eyes.
- Franco
