Problems with casual

[Sub-Zero]

This girl i slept with keeps trying to make me go out with her and do stuff. I remember chase's articles told me not to do this, and to have her just come over to fuck. I know i fucked her good, because she still talks about it, but she says she wants to do more than that. What should i do guys?

 

[ray_zorse]

Just be firm in your frame... if you set expectations correctly (there's no exclusivity) and you've correctly positioned yourself as a busy, high value man... then theoretically there should be no problem... I've had to deal with a fair bit of shit from my gf about this...

Her: I'm free tomorrow can I come over?
Me: Sorry hon I won't be home till 22:30 or so, try to give me a bit more warning and I'll keep it free for you
Her: don't be an asshole you know I have feelings for you and you're distancing yourself and cutting down the amount of time we spend together... I feel like I'm not important to you blah blah blah
Me: (no response for the next 10 days)
Her: okay I'm free next week on the Thursday how about we get some dinner
Me: yeah that would be cool i'll text you closer to the time about arrangements

In this dinner she says she wants to break up blah blah blah I ignore this but later return to the related issue on my terms and stress that she is important to me and I really am busy and I really will make time for her when possible. I then take her home (utilizing some plausible deniability just to be on the safe side, even though she's my gf) and fuck her hard. Done.

cheers, Ray