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I'm having trouble giving a girl I meet for the first time a decent sexual experience.
This has happened just recently, and now that I've recognized it, it's happened in the past as well.
Most recently:
- brought the girl home and while we were making out, I got so excited that I could not help but cum in my pants (tight-fitting jeans, uncomfortable)
- she stayed over in hopes of getting it, but I was nervous and couldn't get it up at all
- she came over another evening, I got hard, but came within 1 minute of being inside her
Similar situations (getting excited by a first-time girl, cumming in my pants) have occurred in the past.
I had a girlfriend in late December and we had no problem with sex. I wasn't lasting long (max of about 10 minutes), but I could always get it up. So I attribute this problem to excitement of being with a new woman. Since early January, I've actually been doing Kegel exercises using an app 2/x day, so I would have thought that I would have gotten better, not worse.
The problem is that I'm gaming and meeting new women. I want to be confident that I can give them a decent sexual experience the first time. Otherwise, the seduction loses a lot of its meaning.
I would prefer not to use any pills. I generally eat healthy (avoid all sugar, try to eat simple foods with as little ingredients as possible), don't jerk off at all (will not change that either), and work out 2-3 times/week. I'm in my 30's.
Look forward to your thoughts.
This has happened just recently, and now that I've recognized it, it's happened in the past as well.
Most recently:
- brought the girl home and while we were making out, I got so excited that I could not help but cum in my pants (tight-fitting jeans, uncomfortable)
- she stayed over in hopes of getting it, but I was nervous and couldn't get it up at all
- she came over another evening, I got hard, but came within 1 minute of being inside her
Similar situations (getting excited by a first-time girl, cumming in my pants) have occurred in the past.
I had a girlfriend in late December and we had no problem with sex. I wasn't lasting long (max of about 10 minutes), but I could always get it up. So I attribute this problem to excitement of being with a new woman. Since early January, I've actually been doing Kegel exercises using an app 2/x day, so I would have thought that I would have gotten better, not worse.
The problem is that I'm gaming and meeting new women. I want to be confident that I can give them a decent sexual experience the first time. Otherwise, the seduction loses a lot of its meaning.
I would prefer not to use any pills. I generally eat healthy (avoid all sugar, try to eat simple foods with as little ingredients as possible), don't jerk off at all (will not change that either), and work out 2-3 times/week. I'm in my 30's.
Look forward to your thoughts.
