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I was finished approaching for the day..or so I thought. as I was waiting for my bus, this tall black girl hovered next to me. then she walked in front of me, and started hovering on the other side of me. I opened her, and I surprised myself with how casual I made the conversation - despite hitting on her. Randomly, she’s trying to walk away though. I realized I forgot to make my intentions clear as to why I wanted to keep talking to her. She was African, so I said:
Now she’s back beside me, and stuck like glue in the conversation. Very nice.
Earlier I had been walking around on campus on one of the bigger universities in Toronto. I was feeling pretty confident. A short HB6 and a tall HB6 were approaching. The short HB6 was joking around and sort of acting…silly. But when she noticed me, she corrected her behaviour. Huh, interesting. A few months ago I would have considered girls of this quality to be out of my league. Tables have turned it looks like.
I approached an HB6.5 wearing a trenchcoat who was sitting on a rock. This was a challenging set for me. My mind was in overdrive! In the middle of the set she says something along the lines of:
My go to answer was to say, “every first wednesday of the month” and we joked about that for a bit, but i was in my head trying to figure out how to rebuild attainability, which I could not figure out before she was taking me for a walk in the park again, lmfao…the answer was so easy, just qualify her! but i could not truly qualify her on anything and maintain congruence. the only possible thing i could have qualified her on was her being a history major, but i actually negged her on that a little bit when she brought it up at the start of the convo:
She was….strangely over-accepting of me clearing things up, almost even before i had finished what I was saying. Makes me think it was a test of some sort.
Speaking of qualification, I’ve become a little too rigid with it…like if I haven’t qualified a girl or the girl has no redeeming qualities I’m looking for, I won’t get her number, even if the vibe is cool between us. So I’m thinking about genuinely qualifying girls based on their qualities being something new and engaging for me to explore. Then I can get more girls
Oh ya, then I was gaming another 6. At one point we were vibing exceptionally, and it would have been an opportune moment for a close. The nagging voice in my head told me I needed to qualify her more. Unfortunately, I listened and went on to make a few mistakes causing her to lose interest.
I’ve been trying out new teases - I told this chick “i dont date girls who wear shoes” which was stupid. I delivered it at the wrong time with the wrong vibe which put a dent in things. I really should have avoided trying out new material in this set given how well we were getting along. Then i wanted to see the lines on her hand and told her that people of the same horoscope sign usually have the same lines on their hand. This was incongruent, because it’s not true. I tried to move beside her to compare the lines on our hands but it was just too much awkwardness, and I was feeling antsy from the shoes line, so I came off as creepy. Attraction plummeted.
I’m happy I’m able to realize the mistakes I’m making shortly after I make them, or after I come home and reflect. I can't wait to be able to course correct for more advanced aspects of what's going on right in the moment.
I'm annoyed by the incongruence in my game. That needs to be flushed immediately. And there's this voice in my head that is nagging me in the middle of sets: "don't hit on her! it's weird!" or "don't touch her! she won't like it" I almost always do the opposite of what it says.
Now she’s back beside me, and stuck like glue in the conversation. Very nice.
Earlier I had been walking around on campus on one of the bigger universities in Toronto. I was feeling pretty confident. A short HB6 and a tall HB6 were approaching. The short HB6 was joking around and sort of acting…silly. But when she noticed me, she corrected her behaviour. Huh, interesting. A few months ago I would have considered girls of this quality to be out of my league. Tables have turned it looks like.
I approached an HB6.5 wearing a trenchcoat who was sitting on a rock. This was a challenging set for me. My mind was in overdrive! In the middle of the set she says something along the lines of:
My go to answer was to say, “every first wednesday of the month” and we joked about that for a bit, but i was in my head trying to figure out how to rebuild attainability, which I could not figure out before she was taking me for a walk in the park again, lmfao…the answer was so easy, just qualify her! but i could not truly qualify her on anything and maintain congruence. the only possible thing i could have qualified her on was her being a history major, but i actually negged her on that a little bit when she brought it up at the start of the convo:
She was….strangely over-accepting of me clearing things up, almost even before i had finished what I was saying. Makes me think it was a test of some sort.
Speaking of qualification, I’ve become a little too rigid with it…like if I haven’t qualified a girl or the girl has no redeeming qualities I’m looking for, I won’t get her number, even if the vibe is cool between us. So I’m thinking about genuinely qualifying girls based on their qualities being something new and engaging for me to explore. Then I can get more girls
Oh ya, then I was gaming another 6. At one point we were vibing exceptionally, and it would have been an opportune moment for a close. The nagging voice in my head told me I needed to qualify her more. Unfortunately, I listened and went on to make a few mistakes causing her to lose interest.
I’ve been trying out new teases - I told this chick “i dont date girls who wear shoes” which was stupid. I delivered it at the wrong time with the wrong vibe which put a dent in things. I really should have avoided trying out new material in this set given how well we were getting along. Then i wanted to see the lines on her hand and told her that people of the same horoscope sign usually have the same lines on their hand. This was incongruent, because it’s not true. I tried to move beside her to compare the lines on our hands but it was just too much awkwardness, and I was feeling antsy from the shoes line, so I came off as creepy. Attraction plummeted.
I’m happy I’m able to realize the mistakes I’m making shortly after I make them, or after I come home and reflect. I can't wait to be able to course correct for more advanced aspects of what's going on right in the moment.
I'm annoyed by the incongruence in my game. That needs to be flushed immediately. And there's this voice in my head that is nagging me in the middle of sets: "don't hit on her! it's weird!" or "don't touch her! she won't like it" I almost always do the opposite of what it says.
