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Edd--19

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I went out last night but never met any girls. I was too exhausted and struggled to get in a social mood amongst the Saturday night crowd. In the end I focused on upping my fundamentals... Mostly slowing my movements down and projecting my voice. Other than not meeting any girls my night was great... I'm garnering lots of looks by guys and girls alike.

Progressing onto today's outing. I set off listening to a new song I wrote, leading to me not saying hi to anyone on the walk to town. I got to town in a not very social mood but seeing as I've been hooking girls quite well recently I was ready to get started and immediately approached a girl. She was not interested in the slightest and walked away as soon as I delivered my opener. Eager to continue however, I try another approach a little later... Very quiet out today, Sunday and raining. As I approach this girl and say my opener I catch her glance down... Would have missed it if I blinked. My opener is well received and I comment how I like her energy and find it contagious. She starts a short rant on saying she isn't that upbeat today. I flirt a little saying "I must be the reason then", which she tries to deny... I lean in a little, touch her arm and say "Really?!". She starts laughing and plays with her hair. By this time an old lady is watching us 2 from 3 feet so away... Maybe I should have mentioned a threesome? Unfortunately my girl decides that shopping is more important than chatting to an attractive stranger and after a little persistence I let her get on with her day.

Weirdly the old lady leaves and goes into the same store shopper girl just went in...

I continue walking around feeling a better energy in me. I remember to project my voice at the start of an approach as those are the most important moments; then I can speak more normally. I make another approach on this gorgeous blonde who has just walked out of starbucks... She's a little ahead of me by now but I go for it. She turns around a little and I catch up to her and deliver my opener. She loves it and I forget what to say next. I promptly move her to the side as I talk a little about not knowing what to say and then arrive at this solution; she can give me a compliment. She complies by commenting on my jacket. After this I talk to her normally and she starts to build a little rapport and starts qualifying herself. I remain a little mysterious and give her approval of her qualifications. Playing with her hair a little ensues and I qualify her a little more to see if she's adventurous. She passes, and comments on how we have the same outlook on life. Hahaha, awesome. With her pretty much sold on me from the start, I forgot to flirt, so I mention that I have a few friends abroad and that one was a girl who invited me to hers. She doesn't seem to notice it so I make it a little more obvious (Originally, I was trying to avoid bragging by being very covert). She mentions seeing lots of new places is awesome and I go "Yeah, but I don't really go out and see new places that often" a mischievous smile and touch follow and she gets it. By this point I think she is slowly waving her phone in front of me... Not remembering this completely, take with a grain of salt. I move the interaction and get her number, a little more talking we hug and partways.

I'm riding a pretty good high from getting a stunning girls' number and I make a couple more approaches. One girl of these is rather receptive to me, she has a twang that sounds foreign. I've realised that foreign girls love meeting new people. We talk and I'm struggling to find something to say, I retreat to something I know works... Commenting on her accent. I do a cold read and try Spanish. Nah ah, Middle Eastern. I stick with what I said and say she looks Spanish, Portugese as she has light skin. She brings up that her accent has an American twinge to it and explains why. I've got her attention and start to qualify her a little on her adventurousness and she qualifies herself. I continue and flirt a little bit with her and she buys into the frame. I reckon now's a good time to get her number and she gives it to me.

After that I had a few more conversations with girls but nothing too major. I walked into a couple of stores and in fcuk one of the bleached blonde staff members approached me and complimented my necklace, however I didn't continue the conversation too much as the other girl I was talking to (who also worked there) returned... I flirted with the non-blonde and left.

That's all from today ;)
 
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Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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well done. not sure this qulaifies as a FR. maybe start a journal?

keep up the good work. seems progress is, indeed, being made
 
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