I have been trying to master the first section of Chase's book for about six months now and at first, I had loads of success making out with girls and fooling around with them in my dorm. I grew stagnant about two months ago and I can't figure out why. On some days, I can be really bad at picking up girls and other days I can be really good. Can someone explain what is happening? I'm thinking lack of success is messing with the progress. How should I change things up? I'm thinking about keeping a journal with me to maybe see what kind of changes are occurring so that I can fix any errors in anything that I find.
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aaron,
A journal would certainly be helpful, yeah. It will help you keep track of your interactions and look for patterns that are leading to sticking points that are preventing you from progressing. Once you notice these sticking points, you can attempt to correct them so you can further your progress.
Also, keep in mind that everyone goes through dry spells too. Sometimes you can go for a full month where girls just seem to be giving you their numbers left and right, and then occasionally you'll have weeks where girls just seem completely unreceptive and aren't moving things forward with you. The better you become at seduction, the less frequently this happens, but it still happens to the best of us. There's still a "luck" factor involved (in the sense that you might be a approaching an attractive girl who's just having a bad day, or maybe she already has a boyfriend that she is in love with, etc.)
- Franco
A journal would certainly be helpful, yeah. It will help you keep track of your interactions and look for patterns that are leading to sticking points that are preventing you from progressing. Once you notice these sticking points, you can attempt to correct them so you can further your progress.
Also, keep in mind that everyone goes through dry spells too. Sometimes you can go for a full month where girls just seem to be giving you their numbers left and right, and then occasionally you'll have weeks where girls just seem completely unreceptive and aren't moving things forward with you. The better you become at seduction, the less frequently this happens, but it still happens to the best of us. There's still a "luck" factor involved (in the sense that you might be a approaching an attractive girl who's just having a bad day, or maybe she already has a boyfriend that she is in love with, etc.)
- Franco