Whassup guys
Ok so my buddy Andrew is sleeping so I'll buy my hawaiian shirts after dinner and write this LR now. I don't find this night super exciting (the night after was fucking crazy), so it may be a bit light on details, but it's fairly fun regardless.
This was a few nights ago. I had just left Muay Thai and showered, and Andrew and I were walking to the club. I was heading to a promoter's party, as I have just started promoting for this club and they were having a staff night before the club night. I'm bringing Andrew cause fuck them they can let my buddy in.
ALso, I've done a complete 180 and am now going for a sort of eccentric BMOC vibe. I had a nervous breakdown a week ago in part because I was trying too hard to be aloof, and the chill smooth vibe, whilst getting me results, was frankly stifling. Back to the loud weird fun vibe then. Oh well, I'm just going with whatever feels right at the moment.
So we roll into the bar above the club, where the staff party is at. Andrew and I grab beer and pizza (which was free!!) and chat for a bit. We know no one here.
After about five minutes, I notice a group of two girls and a guy sitting on a couch. I go sit next to them and say something like
After chatting about the usual nonsense (which uni are you in, what major, etc.) I learn they are all first years too, and have just started promoting like me.
I then decide we are going to play a drinking game cause yeah. I just felt like it. I pull one of the girls in closer, and she is all over me. Girl what?
We ask really sexual questions during the game. These girls, and the guy they are with, are fucking dirty I have done almost as much as them but not quite, and my boy Andrew is left in the dust. Eventually I head to the bathroom. When I come back the girls have gone to smoke. I just chill and am approached by a girl and lightly talk to her. The girl I was sitting with comes in and wraps her arms around me.
Jesus fuck this girl is thirsty
The girl who approached me kinda backs off. Andrew comes and starts chatting with her and I lead my girl to the rest of our group, who are chilling by the bar and playing arcade games. I start laughing at how bad I am compared to some of them. The guy in their group, we will call him James. The girl I'm with, Cary. The other girl isn't that important and thus doesn't merit me naming her.
I give up with the arcades and just start dancing along to the music as they play. Cary puts her hand around my shoulders and then slides it down to my ass.
Girl what? That's my move!
I grab her ass and pull her into me. She grinds for a bit then goes back to playing arcades. We then go to a booth and sit and chat with the group for a bit. Andrew comes back looking dejected. Poor buddy, guessing things didn't go so well with his girl.
I have one arm around Cary at this point and I put the other around him.
He tells me he's going home. I tell him that's fine, and we talk for a bit. He tells me he expects stories from this night. I smile. Oh yeah, there will be.
Those of us that remain (James, Cary, the other girl, and me) head down to the dance floor. I tell James I need alcohol. He and I go drink about three whisky shots each cause we are very smart people who believe in moderation.
We dance for ages. Some highlights:
-Me grabbing someones mexican hat and dancing with it. I have no clue why they had a sombrero but whatever.
-Me trying to dance with a group of girls who were not having it, and told me to get lost.
-Me making out with Cary
-Me grinding with Cary's friend cause I lost Cary and James
-Finding them and making out with Cary again. James is getting it on with the other girl.
After about two hours of shenanigans, I grow bored and mention getting out of there to Cary. She leads us to the smoking area to just sit instead. She sits on my lap. James has the other girl on his. Cary makes out with me again. People are giving us looks...and I don't really have a clue what to do but the day before, Hector told me to just do shit, see what works. I go with it.
Cary and her friend start kissing. James and I look at each other, laughing, as he makes some joke. Then James starts kissing Cary. Bitch what???
Then I start kissing Cary's friend. Then Cary and her friend kiss again.
Then all four of us try to do a fourway makeout.
At this point everyone is staring, and we decide to all leave back to the dorms. They by coincidence leave near me, but in one of the posh dorms. I tease them about this relentlessly. James does a human flagpole on some construction scaffolding. Not to be outdone, I decide to jump and swing on it (do random shit, right?). I also run up a wall yelling
lol
I can be a weird fuck. Sorry that you had to read that guys.
Anyway we arrive back at the dorms and all go to Cary's room. I am sobering up at this point and my feet hurt from my parkouring so I am debating just going to bed, but Cary drags me along. We start watching really weird music videos that James just had to show me, things like Happy tree friends and Llamas with hats. Google those at your own risk.
Then James and his girl leave and Cary and I start making out. It's pretty aggressive, and fun. She gives me one of the best blowjobs I've ever had (enthusiasm and incorporation of the balls are truly key). Then we fuck.
We chat a bit after about the clown weirdness that just arrived in the UK from the US. I walk back to my dorm at 5am terrified of clowns jumping out at me, and then get back and collapse exhausted into bed. I sleep all day pretty much, and wake up to work out and go to dinner...and that is where my next FR will pick up!
So yeah, key takeaways:
1. I can pull off weird pretty well, it's way more fun and natural than me being aloof (aloof arguably got me better results, but we'll see).
2. Girls show interest way more when you are less subtle.
3. I do really stupid shit. I'm actually embarrassed to write some of this up
4. Holding frame is key, and the only reason I can get away with stupid shit.
Anyway, I hope my new BMOC style isn't too obnoxious or annoying, I feel a lot better with it, as I'm not constantly trying to play it cool, it feels way more natural, but I'm still trying to figure out who I am and who I want to be.
Love yall
Byron
Ok so my buddy Andrew is sleeping so I'll buy my hawaiian shirts after dinner and write this LR now. I don't find this night super exciting (the night after was fucking crazy), so it may be a bit light on details, but it's fairly fun regardless.
This was a few nights ago. I had just left Muay Thai and showered, and Andrew and I were walking to the club. I was heading to a promoter's party, as I have just started promoting for this club and they were having a staff night before the club night. I'm bringing Andrew cause fuck them they can let my buddy in.
ALso, I've done a complete 180 and am now going for a sort of eccentric BMOC vibe. I had a nervous breakdown a week ago in part because I was trying too hard to be aloof, and the chill smooth vibe, whilst getting me results, was frankly stifling. Back to the loud weird fun vibe then. Oh well, I'm just going with whatever feels right at the moment.
So we roll into the bar above the club, where the staff party is at. Andrew and I grab beer and pizza (which was free!!) and chat for a bit. We know no one here.
After about five minutes, I notice a group of two girls and a guy sitting on a couch. I go sit next to them and say something like
After chatting about the usual nonsense (which uni are you in, what major, etc.) I learn they are all first years too, and have just started promoting like me.
I then decide we are going to play a drinking game cause yeah. I just felt like it. I pull one of the girls in closer, and she is all over me. Girl what?
We ask really sexual questions during the game. These girls, and the guy they are with, are fucking dirty I have done almost as much as them but not quite, and my boy Andrew is left in the dust. Eventually I head to the bathroom. When I come back the girls have gone to smoke. I just chill and am approached by a girl and lightly talk to her. The girl I was sitting with comes in and wraps her arms around me.
Jesus fuck this girl is thirsty
The girl who approached me kinda backs off. Andrew comes and starts chatting with her and I lead my girl to the rest of our group, who are chilling by the bar and playing arcade games. I start laughing at how bad I am compared to some of them. The guy in their group, we will call him James. The girl I'm with, Cary. The other girl isn't that important and thus doesn't merit me naming her.
I give up with the arcades and just start dancing along to the music as they play. Cary puts her hand around my shoulders and then slides it down to my ass.
Girl what? That's my move!
I grab her ass and pull her into me. She grinds for a bit then goes back to playing arcades. We then go to a booth and sit and chat with the group for a bit. Andrew comes back looking dejected. Poor buddy, guessing things didn't go so well with his girl.
I have one arm around Cary at this point and I put the other around him.
He tells me he's going home. I tell him that's fine, and we talk for a bit. He tells me he expects stories from this night. I smile. Oh yeah, there will be.
Those of us that remain (James, Cary, the other girl, and me) head down to the dance floor. I tell James I need alcohol. He and I go drink about three whisky shots each cause we are very smart people who believe in moderation.
We dance for ages. Some highlights:
-Me grabbing someones mexican hat and dancing with it. I have no clue why they had a sombrero but whatever.
-Me trying to dance with a group of girls who were not having it, and told me to get lost.
-Me making out with Cary
-Me grinding with Cary's friend cause I lost Cary and James
-Finding them and making out with Cary again. James is getting it on with the other girl.
After about two hours of shenanigans, I grow bored and mention getting out of there to Cary. She leads us to the smoking area to just sit instead. She sits on my lap. James has the other girl on his. Cary makes out with me again. People are giving us looks...and I don't really have a clue what to do but the day before, Hector told me to just do shit, see what works. I go with it.
Cary and her friend start kissing. James and I look at each other, laughing, as he makes some joke. Then James starts kissing Cary. Bitch what???
Then I start kissing Cary's friend. Then Cary and her friend kiss again.
Then all four of us try to do a fourway makeout.
At this point everyone is staring, and we decide to all leave back to the dorms. They by coincidence leave near me, but in one of the posh dorms. I tease them about this relentlessly. James does a human flagpole on some construction scaffolding. Not to be outdone, I decide to jump and swing on it (do random shit, right?). I also run up a wall yelling
lol
I can be a weird fuck. Sorry that you had to read that guys.
Anyway we arrive back at the dorms and all go to Cary's room. I am sobering up at this point and my feet hurt from my parkouring so I am debating just going to bed, but Cary drags me along. We start watching really weird music videos that James just had to show me, things like Happy tree friends and Llamas with hats. Google those at your own risk.
Then James and his girl leave and Cary and I start making out. It's pretty aggressive, and fun. She gives me one of the best blowjobs I've ever had (enthusiasm and incorporation of the balls are truly key). Then we fuck.
We chat a bit after about the clown weirdness that just arrived in the UK from the US. I walk back to my dorm at 5am terrified of clowns jumping out at me, and then get back and collapse exhausted into bed. I sleep all day pretty much, and wake up to work out and go to dinner...and that is where my next FR will pick up!
So yeah, key takeaways:
1. I can pull off weird pretty well, it's way more fun and natural than me being aloof (aloof arguably got me better results, but we'll see).
2. Girls show interest way more when you are less subtle.
3. I do really stupid shit. I'm actually embarrassed to write some of this up
4. Holding frame is key, and the only reason I can get away with stupid shit.
Anyway, I hope my new BMOC style isn't too obnoxious or annoying, I feel a lot better with it, as I'm not constantly trying to play it cool, it feels way more natural, but I'm still trying to figure out who I am and who I want to be.
Love yall
Byron
