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Protective guy friend dilemma

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I've encountered 4 situations where the girl tells a guy about her and my encounter and then seeing the guy walking up to me to ask me what my intentions are or just getting pissed and tryna scare me or something.

I think more sexual subtlety is the key to avoiding situations like these and being calm when they happen is the key to handling them properly.

But I couldn't help but post this up to see if there are any other perspectives or if anybody else has experienced this.
 

BrandonCodi

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The guys are overly protective because they want the girl for themselves and it drives them crazy knowing that you might get somewhere with the girl while they're stuck in the friendzone. You aren't going to win the approval of the guy in these situations. Be nice to them though because you still want to get the girl. Tell them whatever bull shit they want to hear so they don't have an excuse to report back to the girl saying you're a bad guy. Preferably do this in front of the girl that way you can show her you're a good guy and her friend will end up looking like the crazy one.

If you meet her at a club, be smooth and win her affection. If there's interest there, you've already won. It's just a matter of maintaining it. The overprotective friend is just a minor roadblock. After you clear things up with the guy make sure you close things with this girl. Get her number and text. If you can make out with her, even better. The best part about this is that it will drive the other guy crazy and you'll feel like such a boss when you seduce her in front of him and he can't do anything to stop it because the girl will think he's a jerk.

Cheers, brother
 
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