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Yesterday it was the third night in a row I gamed. The day before a wingman and I managed to get two girls back at their hotel but we didn't make it to the room. That left me hungry so I went clubbing the day after.
The first girl I approach is a very cute blonde. My opening is "Are you from Russia?". She's very receptive and explains she's from Belarus. We chat a bit. Another guy is gaming her friend who at one point wants to go to another room of the club. I let them go. Some 10 minutes later I go to the same room and I reapproach her. Again, the friend wants to go back to the other room but before she can follow her, I stop her, and say "wait let's have a drink". she says "ok, but I only drink water". We go to the bar we chat for some minutes but then she wants to go back to where her friend his. We go back, we dance a bit and I do a very bold dance move I learned on youtube. She definitely doesn't like it. That create some weirdness. Still, I could have kept on gaming her but for some reason I just go back to my friends.
Second girl I approach is an asian one. I just stop her and say some crap I don't remember. She's totally into me but as I chat I realise I actually don't like her, so I kinda let her got. The third girl seems also into me although she's kinda confrontational.
OPENING
After a while I spot this super cute blonde girl and I immediately think "I have to open with that one". She's with a big group of other girls and some guys partying super hard. I reckon it must been either a birthday or a group of tourists having fun. I lose sight of the girl I like for a while but I stick there knowing she would come back at one point. After around 10 minutes there she is again. So I go.
me: "you're so cute it's illegal"
her: "nooooo, it's not true".
me: "yes it is. are you australian?"
her: "haha how to do you know"
me: "I have magic powers. How ya doin' mate?"
her: "hahahahah"
me: "I want to visit Australia so bad. Can you hide me in your luggage when you fly back?"
her: "I'm not sure you would fit in there"
ISOLATION
I see she's got a pack of cigarettes in her hands. Without asking I take one and put her behind my ear.
her: "you're a thief!"
me: "come on, you should share! I'll tell you what: there's a smoking lounge, let's go there!"
her: "mhhh... I don't know I am with my friends here".
me: "it's just around that corner, we'll smoke one and go back"
she agrees and as we're headed there, one friend stops us with the clear intention of cockblocking me. I act friendly to her and the blonde tells her: don't worry, we're just gonna have a cigarette outside"
So we're outside, we start talking about all kind of stuff. How's life in Australia, what does she thinks of life in the european countries she visited, why they're travelling with such a big group of people etc.. She's very social and funny and sometimes we also engage some other people in the conversation. I compliment her on her eyes with some very deep, romantic remark I cannot remember now.
After around 20 minutes of chatting I kiss her lightly (I don't go into full make-out as I am learning to save most of the kissing for when I am back at my/her place". At one point the friends come looking for her and ask her if everything's alright. She says: yes it's cool. After a while we go back inside and we have a couple of shots at the bar
FIRST PULLING ATTEMPT: FAILED
As we're chatting at the bar..
me: "you know, it's pretty loud her. There's a bar just across the road. Let's go out and drink something there".
her. "I can't really, I have to stay where my friends are.
I insist a couple of times but she clearly doesn't want to.
We sit on a sofa and keep talking. Now it becomes more personal and we talk about friendships and relationships. She's very impressed by the remarks I'm making and at one point she hugs me and says: I really understand you!
We go back to the dance floor, dance a bit, play around, kiss lightly. Then we go back smoking. The friends come again saying they're leaving but a couple of people from the group are still there, so she's ok with staying.
SECOND PULLING ATTEMPT: SUCCEEDED
me: you know. It's pretty common in this town to go to just more than one club. You go to the first, then you go to the second and sometimes keep partying until 8 in the morning
her: really? that's awesome! I was in England before coming here and everything closes so early"
me: I'll tell you what, let's go to the next club!
she doesn't say much, so I just grab her and bring her to the wardrobe.
After getting out, I stop a cab and I tell an address very close to my place. It's a lounge bar I already know was closed at that time. The taxi brings us there. We get out out of the cab.
me: "oh shit, it's closed! well fuck it let's go for a walk around, I'll show you the area!"
her: "alright, it's cool!"
as we're walking I tell her that's actually my neighbourhood and I live nearby. We stop at a 24/hour open shop in front of my place. We grab some drinks and food and we go straight to my place. No resistance at all.
BACK AT MY PLACE
We chill, we put some music, we chat a bit more. We start dancing and as we dance I start kissing her. I take her sweater off and she doesn't oppose any resistance. I bring her to the bed. Again no resistance at all. It really looked on.
It's when I start going to more intimate places that the problems start. She really gives me a super hard time removing her shirt and bra, but somehow I manage to and I start licking her breast. I take my shirt off.
I can see she's getting very defensive now so I take it slower. When I start aiming at more intimate parts, namely taking her pants off, that's when the trouble starts.
her: no, I really can't do this.
me: you're so sexy
her: I think I want to go home.
me: no, stay, I am enjoying your company.
her: no I really have to go home. I am not feeling comfortable.
the way she's saying it is not only very serious but kinda scared too.
I give it another try but I see that she's getting more and more defensive.
I decide to rebuild comfort. I pull back, take the laptop and start playing with the music again. It doesn't take long for her to feel ok again.
I read both on other other field report and from a friend of mine of the strategy of just falling asleep with the girl and banging her the morning after. That's what I was aiming at. We stand there, watching videos and hugging, but when she realise that's already 6 in the morning she really says she has to go back to the hotel and she doesn't want make her friends worry.
I try another escalation attempt but it fails.
I don't know if the fact that she's 10 years younger than me made me less persistent and resolute than usual, or if she simply didn't want to and that's it. Or who knows, maybe she's a virgin.
Well, useful experience anyway. She gave me her contact but I can't really do much with it considering we live in two different continents
Opinions and advice are always welcome!
Cheers,
Prehistoric
The first girl I approach is a very cute blonde. My opening is "Are you from Russia?". She's very receptive and explains she's from Belarus. We chat a bit. Another guy is gaming her friend who at one point wants to go to another room of the club. I let them go. Some 10 minutes later I go to the same room and I reapproach her. Again, the friend wants to go back to the other room but before she can follow her, I stop her, and say "wait let's have a drink". she says "ok, but I only drink water". We go to the bar we chat for some minutes but then she wants to go back to where her friend his. We go back, we dance a bit and I do a very bold dance move I learned on youtube. She definitely doesn't like it. That create some weirdness. Still, I could have kept on gaming her but for some reason I just go back to my friends.
Second girl I approach is an asian one. I just stop her and say some crap I don't remember. She's totally into me but as I chat I realise I actually don't like her, so I kinda let her got. The third girl seems also into me although she's kinda confrontational.
OPENING
After a while I spot this super cute blonde girl and I immediately think "I have to open with that one". She's with a big group of other girls and some guys partying super hard. I reckon it must been either a birthday or a group of tourists having fun. I lose sight of the girl I like for a while but I stick there knowing she would come back at one point. After around 10 minutes there she is again. So I go.
me: "you're so cute it's illegal"
her: "nooooo, it's not true".
me: "yes it is. are you australian?"
her: "haha how to do you know"
me: "I have magic powers. How ya doin' mate?"
her: "hahahahah"
me: "I want to visit Australia so bad. Can you hide me in your luggage when you fly back?"
her: "I'm not sure you would fit in there"
ISOLATION
I see she's got a pack of cigarettes in her hands. Without asking I take one and put her behind my ear.
her: "you're a thief!"
me: "come on, you should share! I'll tell you what: there's a smoking lounge, let's go there!"
her: "mhhh... I don't know I am with my friends here".
me: "it's just around that corner, we'll smoke one and go back"
she agrees and as we're headed there, one friend stops us with the clear intention of cockblocking me. I act friendly to her and the blonde tells her: don't worry, we're just gonna have a cigarette outside"
So we're outside, we start talking about all kind of stuff. How's life in Australia, what does she thinks of life in the european countries she visited, why they're travelling with such a big group of people etc.. She's very social and funny and sometimes we also engage some other people in the conversation. I compliment her on her eyes with some very deep, romantic remark I cannot remember now.
After around 20 minutes of chatting I kiss her lightly (I don't go into full make-out as I am learning to save most of the kissing for when I am back at my/her place". At one point the friends come looking for her and ask her if everything's alright. She says: yes it's cool. After a while we go back inside and we have a couple of shots at the bar
FIRST PULLING ATTEMPT: FAILED
As we're chatting at the bar..
me: "you know, it's pretty loud her. There's a bar just across the road. Let's go out and drink something there".
her. "I can't really, I have to stay where my friends are.
I insist a couple of times but she clearly doesn't want to.
We sit on a sofa and keep talking. Now it becomes more personal and we talk about friendships and relationships. She's very impressed by the remarks I'm making and at one point she hugs me and says: I really understand you!
We go back to the dance floor, dance a bit, play around, kiss lightly. Then we go back smoking. The friends come again saying they're leaving but a couple of people from the group are still there, so she's ok with staying.
SECOND PULLING ATTEMPT: SUCCEEDED
me: you know. It's pretty common in this town to go to just more than one club. You go to the first, then you go to the second and sometimes keep partying until 8 in the morning
her: really? that's awesome! I was in England before coming here and everything closes so early"
me: I'll tell you what, let's go to the next club!
she doesn't say much, so I just grab her and bring her to the wardrobe.
After getting out, I stop a cab and I tell an address very close to my place. It's a lounge bar I already know was closed at that time. The taxi brings us there. We get out out of the cab.
me: "oh shit, it's closed! well fuck it let's go for a walk around, I'll show you the area!"
her: "alright, it's cool!"
as we're walking I tell her that's actually my neighbourhood and I live nearby. We stop at a 24/hour open shop in front of my place. We grab some drinks and food and we go straight to my place. No resistance at all.
BACK AT MY PLACE
We chill, we put some music, we chat a bit more. We start dancing and as we dance I start kissing her. I take her sweater off and she doesn't oppose any resistance. I bring her to the bed. Again no resistance at all. It really looked on.
It's when I start going to more intimate places that the problems start. She really gives me a super hard time removing her shirt and bra, but somehow I manage to and I start licking her breast. I take my shirt off.
I can see she's getting very defensive now so I take it slower. When I start aiming at more intimate parts, namely taking her pants off, that's when the trouble starts.
her: no, I really can't do this.
me: you're so sexy
her: I think I want to go home.
me: no, stay, I am enjoying your company.
her: no I really have to go home. I am not feeling comfortable.
the way she's saying it is not only very serious but kinda scared too.
I give it another try but I see that she's getting more and more defensive.
I decide to rebuild comfort. I pull back, take the laptop and start playing with the music again. It doesn't take long for her to feel ok again.
I read both on other other field report and from a friend of mine of the strategy of just falling asleep with the girl and banging her the morning after. That's what I was aiming at. We stand there, watching videos and hugging, but when she realise that's already 6 in the morning she really says she has to go back to the hotel and she doesn't want make her friends worry.
I try another escalation attempt but it fails.
I don't know if the fact that she's 10 years younger than me made me less persistent and resolute than usual, or if she simply didn't want to and that's it. Or who knows, maybe she's a virgin.
Well, useful experience anyway. She gave me her contact but I can't really do much with it considering we live in two different continents
Opinions and advice are always welcome!
Cheers,
Prehistoric
