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Yesterday I was at this very cool Jazz bar where they also organise social events for music lovers.
I meet this guy I had talked with last time. Some minutes later a 40-year old woman who's acquainted to him approaches us. She's very cute and outgoing. We have a group conversation for some time and then this guy disappears leaving the two of us alone. We cover various topics in the conversation: primarily travelling, adventure, foreign cultures, food. She's having a good time and rarely looks around. I am very careful not to do one of my common mistakes: talking too much instead of listening. This time I just ask questions and let her say all that she has to say. I read Chase saying "the more she tells you about herself, the more connected she feels to you". At one point, after having talked a lot about food, I propose to move to this Mexican place across the street. She doesn't oppose.
We move to the restaurant, even though she's incredibly skinny she eats like a lion. She orders 4-5 different dishes which we share. We start talking about music, about meeting famous people. I understand she doesn't want to talk about her past relationships so I get off that entirely. I keep on asking very simple questions, then shut up and look her straight in the eyes as she's answering. As we finished eating, I tell her I have some very good wines back home, some of which I brought from my home city and that you don't find here and that she must have a glass. She agrees
We grab a taxi. While we are in the taxi I start to perceive the first resistances (there hadn't been none until none). She asks "ok, but where exactly are we going?". I answer "having some very good wine" and then immediately go back to ask questions. I understand that I have to keep her talking until we are at my place. So I keep on asking all kind of s**t.
We arrive at the place, she says: oh yes, i know exactly where we are. I invite her to sit on the sofa, put some music on (artists she told me she likes before), go shortly to the toilet, get a bottle of wine with two glasses and go back to the sofa. We keep on talking. After a couple of minutes I start caressing her back and legs as she talk. She really talks a lot. At one point I see she's kinda dancing, so I move her away from the sofa and we dance a bit. We dance very closely, I kiss her twice on the neck and I go for my first kiss attempt which is laughingly refuses by saying "no way". I smile and keep dancing. We go back to the sofa, we're much closer now. I bring my computer on the sofa, and we explore various songs and pictures together. I am kissing her on the neck and behind her ears very often. I move to the cheek. I have to make several attempts before we finally make out. She keeps on laughing saying she could be my mother. I say "no, more like older cousin, that was always one of my fantasies". We are touching a lot. I am caressing her ass, tits, basically everything. She starts saying she would like to go home. I ignore it, I take her in my arms and bring her to my bed. We keep on touching and kissing and hugging.
Although at one point I can see she really would like to go home, I make many other attempts to keep her. She's very lovely and warm, and I can see she really likes me but doesn't wanna go further than that. I grab her contact, I accompany her to the door. We make out again on the door. I tell her I would call her tomorrow (which is today). She also forgot her scarf here, a reason more to see each other again.
Do you suggest I invite her straight back to my place or for drinks closeby and then my place?
I meet this guy I had talked with last time. Some minutes later a 40-year old woman who's acquainted to him approaches us. She's very cute and outgoing. We have a group conversation for some time and then this guy disappears leaving the two of us alone. We cover various topics in the conversation: primarily travelling, adventure, foreign cultures, food. She's having a good time and rarely looks around. I am very careful not to do one of my common mistakes: talking too much instead of listening. This time I just ask questions and let her say all that she has to say. I read Chase saying "the more she tells you about herself, the more connected she feels to you". At one point, after having talked a lot about food, I propose to move to this Mexican place across the street. She doesn't oppose.
We move to the restaurant, even though she's incredibly skinny she eats like a lion. She orders 4-5 different dishes which we share. We start talking about music, about meeting famous people. I understand she doesn't want to talk about her past relationships so I get off that entirely. I keep on asking very simple questions, then shut up and look her straight in the eyes as she's answering. As we finished eating, I tell her I have some very good wines back home, some of which I brought from my home city and that you don't find here and that she must have a glass. She agrees
We grab a taxi. While we are in the taxi I start to perceive the first resistances (there hadn't been none until none). She asks "ok, but where exactly are we going?". I answer "having some very good wine" and then immediately go back to ask questions. I understand that I have to keep her talking until we are at my place. So I keep on asking all kind of s**t.
We arrive at the place, she says: oh yes, i know exactly where we are. I invite her to sit on the sofa, put some music on (artists she told me she likes before), go shortly to the toilet, get a bottle of wine with two glasses and go back to the sofa. We keep on talking. After a couple of minutes I start caressing her back and legs as she talk. She really talks a lot. At one point I see she's kinda dancing, so I move her away from the sofa and we dance a bit. We dance very closely, I kiss her twice on the neck and I go for my first kiss attempt which is laughingly refuses by saying "no way". I smile and keep dancing. We go back to the sofa, we're much closer now. I bring my computer on the sofa, and we explore various songs and pictures together. I am kissing her on the neck and behind her ears very often. I move to the cheek. I have to make several attempts before we finally make out. She keeps on laughing saying she could be my mother. I say "no, more like older cousin, that was always one of my fantasies". We are touching a lot. I am caressing her ass, tits, basically everything. She starts saying she would like to go home. I ignore it, I take her in my arms and bring her to my bed. We keep on touching and kissing and hugging.
Although at one point I can see she really would like to go home, I make many other attempts to keep her. She's very lovely and warm, and I can see she really likes me but doesn't wanna go further than that. I grab her contact, I accompany her to the door. We make out again on the door. I tell her I would call her tomorrow (which is today). She also forgot her scarf here, a reason more to see each other again.
Do you suggest I invite her straight back to my place or for drinks closeby and then my place?
