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I know @Chase is busy these days but I noticed reading over a post not that long ago where you said that when you first started out, you used to struggle with redheads and pale women. Now given that you are a pale Irish guy yourself, you mentioned how everyone is trying to adhere to that beauty standard of tanned skin and good looks or such for their kids. You even said that you used to not approach redheads and paler girls as a result of the lack of IOIs you got.
Now overtime, you said that things got better and as you got better game, you could get a hot redhead or a hot pale girl.
Here is something I struggle with right now, more mentally if anything. When you were able to get a hot redhead or a hot pale girl, how did you deal with knowing that deep down you kind of had to overcompensate or that your ceiling with them was lower?
Like something I struggle with is that there are girls of certain groups I want (Latinas come to mind) but I know that the culture they come from, a dude like me is not a top preference or even seen as much of an option. I know I can "game" and do all that but I feel more of me proving myself as opposed to me just being a natural.
I guess deep down something I struggle with internally is hard to describe in words as a lot of my issues. Like I tend to value that initial good vibe instead of having to change her opinion. Even if I could, it makes me feel lesser as a guy because here is a woman who thought lowly of me before I opened my mouth. I rather let it be more natural or I guess go for women who I initially vibe on a good level with.
I rather go for women whose culture do look highly upon men of my kind of background rather than having to pull teeth I guess.
Now overtime, you said that things got better and as you got better game, you could get a hot redhead or a hot pale girl.
Here is something I struggle with right now, more mentally if anything. When you were able to get a hot redhead or a hot pale girl, how did you deal with knowing that deep down you kind of had to overcompensate or that your ceiling with them was lower?
Like something I struggle with is that there are girls of certain groups I want (Latinas come to mind) but I know that the culture they come from, a dude like me is not a top preference or even seen as much of an option. I know I can "game" and do all that but I feel more of me proving myself as opposed to me just being a natural.
I guess deep down something I struggle with internally is hard to describe in words as a lot of my issues. Like I tend to value that initial good vibe instead of having to change her opinion. Even if I could, it makes me feel lesser as a guy because here is a woman who thought lowly of me before I opened my mouth. I rather let it be more natural or I guess go for women who I initially vibe on a good level with.
I rather go for women whose culture do look highly upon men of my kind of background rather than having to pull teeth I guess.
