Question??

[Alexis]

Hi im new to this.

I have this date with a girl.im having a little hard time deciding whether this girl should pick me up in her car or i should pick her up on my car and go to our date?
In other words is if i tell her to pickme up and drive me to this date is that her chasing me?

I would meet her up at the place where our date is but she isnt familiar with my town.
So i wanted to know what would help me more for me to attract her and chase me if she picks me and drives me? Or i pick her up?

 

[Zoro]

Welcome Alexis!

First I'd like to say you're over thinking a little. It's okay to analyze and think deep but this kind of thinking can lead to freezing yourself up from not knowing what to do.

Since your new to this I would say pick one of the choices, and go with that one whole heartily. It often times boils down to how you do it rather than what you do.

Perhaps pick the option that is easiest for you. Maybe driving your own car? Or if you don't feel like driving tell her to pick you up.
Lead and mind your fundamentals (eye contact, slow movements, powerful voice).

One of the things that helps me the most is staying calm in all situations. Unsure of what to do, stay calm. Not only do you think clearer, but I remember hearing from somewhere (probably chase) that calmness can be inverse to attractiveness. Being that you stay calm, her attraction goes up! You sweat and shake, her attraction drops like a stone. I've experienced this myself.

Hope this helps and good luck!
-J Wick

 

[The Tool]

I agree with andy. You are over thinking this.

Best option would be for you to pick her up. Its more manly and dominate on your part.

 

[Alexis]

Thanks! I appreciate the help!!!