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Here's one that's been bothering me for a while now -- hopefully someone here has reasoned this out further than I have, or looked into and questioned the literature and come to different conclusions:
To be direct: pretty much everyone I've ever met have held the common sense (metaphysical) assumption that all humans are programmed with a biological drive to mate. Note the word drive here. It's as though there is something outside of us pushing us around that is beyond our control. We are "driven" to mate. And though our understanding since Freud of drives has certainly matured, it still seems to maintain this fundamental "it's not you" assumption.
This has always unsettled me, but I'd never been able to pin it down more specifically till recently. What I've noticed is as followed:
This attitude makes it sound like it's your duty to procreate, like it's serious and like it invariably has to be hard work, and that you'll be punished (by nature, or god, or what have you) if you don't satiate your drives. That you have no choice in the matter.
Hunger falls in the same category, actually. Do you eat because you don't want to die? You're going to die anyway, you know. I don't know about you, but I don't eat for just fuel -- it also happens to be great fun, and extremely enjoyable. Especially when eating with other people.
When you think about it, the idea of drives is actually quite a grating, put down assumption to anyone who wants to take responsibility for anything beyond their image of themselves as a soul inside a body (i.e., ego) instead of a body inside an ego (energy/god/nature/etc.). And it's also no more based in fact than any other myths of the world.
I did some more research in the topic, and I read some works by some philosophers from the 70s who posit that this attitude is a natural continuation of the Jewish-Christian myth, and that most of the assumptions underlying our everyday common sense are in fact still based on the Jewish-Christian assumptions about the universe.
So, here's my question for you:
Is there really a biological foundation for wanting to impregnate women outside the ego? In other words, how much of our concept of biology is tainted by the social conventions of the 19th century myths/assumptions about, and the image of, the world (like the Newtonian myth and Hegel's concept of life being nothing but "blind energy")?
-Howell
To be direct: pretty much everyone I've ever met have held the common sense (metaphysical) assumption that all humans are programmed with a biological drive to mate. Note the word drive here. It's as though there is something outside of us pushing us around that is beyond our control. We are "driven" to mate. And though our understanding since Freud of drives has certainly matured, it still seems to maintain this fundamental "it's not you" assumption.
This has always unsettled me, but I'd never been able to pin it down more specifically till recently. What I've noticed is as followed:
This attitude makes it sound like it's your duty to procreate, like it's serious and like it invariably has to be hard work, and that you'll be punished (by nature, or god, or what have you) if you don't satiate your drives. That you have no choice in the matter.
Hunger falls in the same category, actually. Do you eat because you don't want to die? You're going to die anyway, you know. I don't know about you, but I don't eat for just fuel -- it also happens to be great fun, and extremely enjoyable. Especially when eating with other people.
When you think about it, the idea of drives is actually quite a grating, put down assumption to anyone who wants to take responsibility for anything beyond their image of themselves as a soul inside a body (i.e., ego) instead of a body inside an ego (energy/god/nature/etc.). And it's also no more based in fact than any other myths of the world.
I did some more research in the topic, and I read some works by some philosophers from the 70s who posit that this attitude is a natural continuation of the Jewish-Christian myth, and that most of the assumptions underlying our everyday common sense are in fact still based on the Jewish-Christian assumptions about the universe.
So, here's my question for you:
Is there really a biological foundation for wanting to impregnate women outside the ego? In other words, how much of our concept of biology is tainted by the social conventions of the 19th century myths/assumptions about, and the image of, the world (like the Newtonian myth and Hegel's concept of life being nothing but "blind energy")?
-Howell