I was wondering if some of y'all could help me out with this one. I recently met a girl who was previously my coworker, at a coffee shop. She previously flirted with me but i was an oblivious nut-job at the time. Now, after meeting her and after promptly getting her number,over text, i tried to set up a date to which she replied that she didn't have her weeks schedule yet and should know the day after. To this I replied: "Alright text me when you are free if you want to meet." Radio silence for two days now and she obviously know her schedule, should i try to resurrect this or move on? Much obliged.
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It happens the best of us at some point... I had a girl go cold recently.
Try to learn something from it but don't beat yourself up.
From experience, a girl will only actually follow up on something like that if she is heavily invested with you. I think you're at a point where there's nothing wrong with re-initiating the contact this week and seeing if she was just waiting for you to take the initiative.
Hopefully at that point you can set something up, if she's still not giving straight answers at that point to setting up a meet up, time to leave it go.
Try to learn something from it but don't beat yourself up.
From experience, a girl will only actually follow up on something like that if she is heavily invested with you. I think you're at a point where there's nothing wrong with re-initiating the contact this week and seeing if she was just waiting for you to take the initiative.
Hopefully at that point you can set something up, if she's still not giving straight answers at that point to setting up a meet up, time to leave it go.