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Random guy tries to 'warm-up' my gf, even when he know, shes taken.

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Space Monkey
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So how should i react to this:

- my gf was at bar, she decides to head home, this guy sees an opportunity and comes to pick up her, she says, that she got bf. After that he still insist, that he want to walk same way to home, gf says okey, but your not getting anywhere (he didnt).

-when i saw my gf she told me about this episode.

- then we were on shes laptop and this guy comes to say, "how are you ;)" on facebook, i ask is that the guy you just told about, she says yes and sigh after that.(my gf is kind person and she dont want to say too harshly to other people)

- I let this thing to be, becouse all what i have read from this website, tells to NOT care about guys, how tries your girl, becouse it looks like i were a weak and insecure.

FYI we got almost perfect relationship, so i trust her and i believe that shes not doing anything stupid.



But anyways, i get really pissed, when guys like those keep persisting, even when they know whats the deal is, so should i just let this be, or do/say something to my gf or that dude?
 

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Space Monkey
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Thx for fast reply,

sometimes its just good to hear your opinion, even when i did, just like you told in the last paragraph =) (well not with those specific words, but you know..;)).

Maybe i just reacted like this, because shes telling me all these stories, how someone tries to pick up her, meanwhile, i keep my mouth always shut about things like that, because confident men dont need to brag about things like that ( even, when i could get gorgeous girls home every time when im at bar/club with my friends and hardly even trying to 'pick-up' anyone, just having fun).

So maybe im more worried about, if shes thinking that, i dont have lot of options, because i dont say it loud, or does she "feel" it anyways and words are not needed, when you know by yourself whats the case ?
 
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Chase said:
And, for the commenters here feeling the need to defend their current girlfriends who meet this description... I know, I know - your girl's "different." She always is ;)

I just raw dogged a girl Saturday night. Pulled her from a club after 15 minutes. She kept her friends at bay with texting the whole way to my house. Took some persistence, but after some finger-blasting, dick lickin', and dirty talk, I fucked her, even after saying "you can go kiss your boyfriend after I'm done with you." Then her friends called, worried sick. I got her an Uber, she went back to the club, and her boyfriend picked her up along with all her friends.

I would suggest finding a different girlfriend, but you probably won't listen. Hell, I wouldn't have listened to me either when i was dating my sex. Thus, my second best advice is this: kill jealousy. Use your time now to face that monster.

I conquered that monster after my several gauntlets with the most hardcore party girl you can imagine. High partner count and super high sex drive. I lasted 6 months before she made-out with a guy at a party. Stayed with her, then got shattered that summer after she called a "break." A few dudes later and we broke up (luckily I got some pussy during the time, too). Got back together with her a few times since and now we're best friends. We shag every time we see each other, but I would never get serious with her again.

In fact, she called me this past Saturday night (before I went and shagged that girl) and told me about how controlling her new boyfriend is. Then she started sexting me and sent me a video of her finger blasting herself. She's a fantastic girl - sexy as hell, super intelligent, and very dominant. Love her to death, just not relationship material.

This probably isn't what you wanted to hear, but I had to.

G-Eazy said:
But you're dope you got a bad chick, yeah, cool bro we all get it
She wears a ring, came through without it
You really think she stay true? I doubt it
Cause I'm fucking your girlfriend, and there's nothing you can do about it

- "I Mean It"

Anatman


Edit: your handle is "rickroll," so this might all be a trollfest?
 
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