Online & Apps Re-opening women who never read your message

[The Byronic Man]

I was just going through my sent messages, and I see some were never read (my 1-month subscription includes a read receipt). I figure she's going through hundreds of messages and my thumbnail didn't catch her attention. Or she just simply overlooked it for whatever innocuous reason.

Do you guys think it's good to resend another message? If so, what would you send? I was thinking of re-sending the same message pretending I never sent her the first one. She'll see it's a duplicate, but my messages are personalized anyway (thanks to Chase's template), so my hope is that she'll think it was some system hiccup.

 

[57Things]

why not? what do you have to lose?

 

[mkivtt]

I'm facing the same issue. Many of the 30 girls I first messaged didn't visit my profile, which means they didn't read the message because they A) didn't like my picture, or B) were overwhelmed with messages.

So if nothing works out with the girls from the first set who responded, I'll definitely be messaging those other girls again. I'm kind of picky and love Indian girls, so I'd rather retry those that didn't respond than move on to the white and latina girls. Maybe I'll swap out the picture too, just in case the reason was A).

The only downside is that the rotation is quite quick for girls, so if you wait a few weeks to see if the first ones work out or not, they may already have moved on and no longer exist on OKC. But then again my time is limited and I can't possibly fit in more girls to my dating schedule right now.