Reactions aren't results

[zqw 10k]

Hi, I've got a question about this.. To what extend does this apply?
A couple of weeks ago I met a girl outside and she took me to her apartment after talking for about 5-10 minutes
But she was talking with her arms crossed, the whole conversation (outside and inside too)
Is this something I should ignore or not?
While deep diving I found out she was timid, could this be the cause?

 

[trashKENNUT]

zqw 10k,

While deep diving I found out she was timid, could this be the cause?

there's a lot of different variables come into play. I find that moving forward and initiate the kiss and pulling back seems to let you know whether you able to pull this or is she still need more comfort.

My thoughts,
Zac

 

[zqw 10k]

Thank you for your reply

and pulling back

You mean going for the kiss, but just before kissing you stop, pull your head back look in her eyes and deep dive a bit more?

still need more comfort.

With deep diving?

 

[trashKENNUT]

You mean going for the kiss, but just before kissing you stop, pull your head back look in her eyes and deep dive a bit more?

Yeap, go in for the kiss, She will struggle a little. and kiss her just a slight bit, and pull. IF she struggles a lot, it's something worth noting that she would be very difficult later on.

With deep diving?

Yeap, but you don't just go in to deep diving straight. Just pull back, relax a little, and build things back up like nothing happened, and you try again.

Zac

 

[Verisimilitude]

In my opinion, the whole point of the "reactions vs results" mentality is to get you moving fast with women. By not wasting time and energy analyzing their reactions, you can move faster by simply assuming attraction and going for it. So to answer your question, the arms crossed doesn't matter. Now five minutes is quick,, and I'd probably deep dive with her a bit. But she also took you inter her apartment. She was thinking about sex. Get her comfortable and go for it.