Reading IOI at the gym

[Sophisticated Gent]

At times I find reading IOI, indication of interest, at the gym difficult. I am fairly comfortable with approaching at the gym now if I get some IOI but it seems that the girls don't always give IOI but are still interested. As a matter of fact I would say most of the girls I have had positive interactions with did not display normal IOI. It wasn't until I did an approach that I found out there was a level of interest I didn't read. Here is an example.

There is a new girl working the front desk. She started last week. I was only a little attracted to her so I decided I wasn't going to introduce myself. When she is working when I come in we would exchange the normal customer hello greeting. Yesterday when I entered she was working. For some reason I decided to introduce myself and ask her name. I just say, I haven't introduced myself. I am SGent. What is your name? She replies and gets this hugh smile and looks down. I was like I did not see that coming. I had no idea she had interest. I was interested in getting to my workout so I said nice to meet you and went on.

Part of this may be that she works there but I am seeing the same thing from other customers and workers. It is like they put up a wall and as soon a I make first contact is comes down. Now of course this is not true for every girl as we know not everyone is attracted to us/me. I would say of the girls I have approached at the gym more than half showed no IOI at all. Some that are showing IOI are not making the direct eye contact I would normally expect. You can read about Veronica in my journal to see what I mean or here is another example. This girl I have not approached yet. I am not sure if I will. She is a petite brunette with a nice butt and average face. Not quite up to my standards.

I have seen her several times working out. I will call her Jane. I have never gotten eye contact from Jane. Several times Jane has been in front of me while I am on the treadmill. She is usually on a bike or another machine. She will get off the machine and do stretches. Yesterday was different. The place was crowded when I came in. It was a cardio day so I headed for the treadmills. There were only a couple open. I pick one and started working out. I am going to be there for 1 hour so I get all settled in. I noticed that Jane was one machine away from me to the left. I am into the workout about 15 minutes and I notice that Jane has stopped and is doing some stretching. Then she starts up again. She goes for about 15 minutes then stops again. She is doing more stretching except this time it is extreme. She does a bend over where her ass is in the air and head at her feet. Then she gets down doggie position and does some stretching. This is all going on over to my side. It is strange but whatever. Then she gets off the machine walks across in front of me over to the wall which is right next to my right. At first she does some pushing against the wall stretches. Then she gets down on all fours with one foot against the wall. She brings her upper body up and then against the wall. With the offset of her foot behind her this shoots her breast out on full display. If she isn't doing this to get my attention then it is a shame because she has given me a full erection. My heart rate is over 150, walking at an 11 degree angle with a full hard on is tough on the body. Never one time did she look me in the eye. She does this for a couple of minutes then gets back on the treadmill. She finishes her workout and leaves the gym. I guess I am going to have to approach her just to verify that she is giving me IOI.

I know Sepukku is saying, you should have approached right then. I was surrounded by people on the treadmills. It would have been extremely awkward. But to see if I am correct that girls give much less IOI in the gym but are still interested I will have to approach her to see what is correct.

If you guys have any more evidence on gym IOI I would like to hear it as I am there a lot.

SGent

 

[Paulie Walnuts]

I'd be interested in hearing this one too haha. I don't think I've ever run an approach at the gym (except one time when I was trying to show one of my workout partners it was possible, it went pretty well).

I've never read any approach signals at the gym, but... then again girls are busy and listening to music. Might have to start going during the day time/early evening and see if I can pickup a few numbers/make some new "workout" buddies .

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

trackrunner,

The gym is definitely a different vibe. It is a social setting where almost no one knows each other. Chase nails most of the aspects in this article https://www.girlschase.com/content/gym-p ... -girls-gym. Follow his lead and you will do alright. The biggest problem I have with my gym is the lack of attractive women. It is probably just a location thing but there are only a couple of attractive women. This includes the staff and trainers. Along with this the women are not dressed sexy. I'll quit whining.

Good luck on your approaches.

SGent

 

[Paulie Walnuts]

Brilliant I loved that article! I usually go pretty late at night, after the holidays I may have to experiment with going in the afternoon and evening!