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Realistic or not?: Getting a weekly new lay

Mr.Rob

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My question: Is it realistic to get lay a new girl once a week through cold approach pick up assuming your going out 2-3 nights a week for a decent amount of time.

Hate to be all "analytical and PUAish" (the infamous PUA batting average type of deal?) but in your experience how realistic is this?

One of my goals in PU this year is to reach "REAL" abundance.

I currently operate from a place of abundance with women and can easily communicate this implicitly to the women I see, however I don't think I'm at a place of "real" abundance.

"Real" abundance being able to go out and get laid whenever I want in a relatively short period of time (as Chase defines this).

I currently can get laid about once every 4-6 weeks (perhaps more now that I've just relocated to a bigger city more conducive to meeting women regularly) which is the best I've been able to pull off thus far but I want to notch it down to where I could get laid basically once every week or two with a new girl, granted I put in the work.

Chase noted that he realized he reached abundance when he could go out and as long as he talked to enough girls he would almost always be able to pull. This leads me to believe that he would essentially be able to fuck 2 new girls a week if he went out 2-3 nights a week.

Which would be about 100 girls a year give or take... which to me seems like the math is off a bit.

Like I said a very PUAish type of question, sorry, but more or less trying to figure out if this is realistic for my goal setting.

Thanks

-Rob
 

PrettyDecent

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Very possible!

I think it's just very time-consuming continuing for a whole year straight, so you have people get focused back on work, or socializing, or personal projects or what have you. Once you've pulled a new girl home every week for the last 20 weeks, you just don't have as many demons inside you telling you to prove yourself 32 more times (unless you take your focus off of pure efficient numbers, and onto the intrinsic enjoyment of sex and the chase itself, which is why the dudes with incredibly high sex drives do sleep with 52+ women in a year, if they know how).

But if there's a cat that can show it's possible man, I'm sure you'd be the one to show us. :)

~Nick
 

Mr.Rob

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PrettyDecent said:
which is why the dudes with incredibly high sex drives do sleep with 52+ women in a year, if they know how).
Lol definitely not me unfortunately. I'd kill to have a super high sex drive (so much more aggressive and motivated lol).

No it's not so much for ego purposes as it is I'm just fucking committed to reaching abundance with women to where getting laid isn't something to worry about anymore.

Yes I agree once I got a few weeks in a row I'd probably wouldn't keep going out like a PUA monster and would work on other aspects of my life.

Thanks for weighing in Nick your input is always valued.

-Rob
 
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