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Hi guys, I have a question:
My GF is very jealous and once asked me to cut contact with a friend because she was very flirty with me and I did it.
But last month my GF went to a bar with her friends to celebrate that one of them (Dick) was going to work to Canada during 1 month because he has serious economic problems. I picked her up after the meeting because she said she wanted to have some space with her friends and when I arrived I noticed, to my surprise, that Dick looked angry. Without asking her, my GF told me he was angry because of me, since he had a crush on her.
This weekend we went to Dick’s house because his family threw a party for his return. While I was there, I noticed he wouldn’t approach us and was acting strange towards me and my GF. I asked her what was going on and after insisting she said that Dick and her had a casual relationship months ago and they ended up being just friends, but since his departure he had been trying to get back with her and even sent her some messages in which he said I was a poor choice.
We left the party and I told her that what she had done was unacceptable and a betrayal because she took me to his ex’s house while she had previously asked me to ghost a friend of mine for being too flirty and she even took me to his house. In other words she didn´t reciprocate.
She swears that she didn’t think about it that it was a mistake and that she won’t ever get back with him (I think she’s telling the truth) but I told her that, to be even, this will change the relationship forever since I will not cut contact with any other girl even if she’s openly flirting with me because I won’t give her what I didn’t receive even though she has blocked Dick on social media.
What do you think about it?
What would you do?
My GF is very jealous and once asked me to cut contact with a friend because she was very flirty with me and I did it.
But last month my GF went to a bar with her friends to celebrate that one of them (Dick) was going to work to Canada during 1 month because he has serious economic problems. I picked her up after the meeting because she said she wanted to have some space with her friends and when I arrived I noticed, to my surprise, that Dick looked angry. Without asking her, my GF told me he was angry because of me, since he had a crush on her.
This weekend we went to Dick’s house because his family threw a party for his return. While I was there, I noticed he wouldn’t approach us and was acting strange towards me and my GF. I asked her what was going on and after insisting she said that Dick and her had a casual relationship months ago and they ended up being just friends, but since his departure he had been trying to get back with her and even sent her some messages in which he said I was a poor choice.
We left the party and I told her that what she had done was unacceptable and a betrayal because she took me to his ex’s house while she had previously asked me to ghost a friend of mine for being too flirty and she even took me to his house. In other words she didn´t reciprocate.
She swears that she didn’t think about it that it was a mistake and that she won’t ever get back with him (I think she’s telling the truth) but I told her that, to be even, this will change the relationship forever since I will not cut contact with any other girl even if she’s openly flirting with me because I won’t give her what I didn’t receive even though she has blocked Dick on social media.
What do you think about it?
What would you do?
