Recommendation: Should I take a Break?

[NewBeeWinner]

Hey guys,

I'm almost done with my degree - 4 months left! I'm then going to take a break from studying before going to med school for 2 years. The break is about 5-7 months or so during which time I plan to work a full-time job (currently working part-time) and focus on my game/social life.

Now, I'm currently working part-time, a full time student, and working an internship. I'm still with my parents and have been looking at moving out - but they're fighting me hard on it and just want me to wait until I'm done with my degree. My issue with that is that it is 4 months - that's a long time. Especially considering I can't have girls over for the night (so no sex). And while yes, I can screen for if they have their own place, a lot of girls in college don't yet (unless they're mid 20s usually). So it just makes the logistics harder (and they have been hard). I also have had to fight with my parents to spend the night with a girl (so even if I do go to her place - spending the night is not easy).

Additionally, the med school I'm going to is in a different city about an hour away. The age range is a lot more my age there (so more girls in their 20-30s than here) and there is more of a night scene / social scene of things to do. So I'm going to have to move there eventually (or to a cheaper nearby suburb city).

So what do you guys think? Should I take a 4 month break from game, get my degree done, move to the new city/suburb (with more girls my age range), and then get back into game with my own place? OR should I try and get my own place here for maybe a six month lease and then move out there (even though my schedule is busier and I'd fight heavily with my parents)?

Either way, I want to move out and my parents don't want to see me go (as any parents do). I seriously just want to bang a ton of girls without worrying about being accountable to my parents - especially now that I'm decent with girls. But, I am busy with classes and it's easier for me to afford a place on a full-time paycheck than it is a part-time one (much easier).

Any thoughts?

NBW

 

[DarkKnight]

Dont rent a place for six months its a big waste of money. Also you are not a 12 year old, you do not have to keep telling your parents that you are out with girls! Simply work on your boundaries. They should understand at this point that you are an adult. Don't engage in fights either, just avoid or redirect the subject.

A car would be more useful. For logistics and banging as an intermediary solution until you move out. It's not perfect but it is something.

 

[JacobPalmer]

Yeah, I wouldn't completely take a break, you'll get too rusty, but you can decrease your efforts towards it for the next little while.

 

[NewBeeWinner]

Thanks guys.

This help refueled me. I'll hold off on getting a place until I graduate and can get a full time job.

Until then, I'll keep approaching. My focus will be a car (or "unusual place") escalation or back to her place. I'll get better at it

NBW

 

[Fuck This]

I'd make contact with as many future Med school classmates as possible and see if you can get a place with one as a roommate for the post Graduation time before school starts again. Look for a job in the new town, and Rent a room if you have to. Advantages to doing this besides the freedom is :

Jump start your job hunt
Makes you familiar with your new city
which will make you get off to a smoother start in school.

Don't "Game" so much and focus on building a social circle. Use your social skills to create a group of people with whom you have a mutual respect. Then when you do meet a woman through those contacts you have social proof. i think when you "dial it back" you will find women fall in your lap when you let it happen.