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So I'm in Mexico Rn, about to go out to see the nightlife here. Will definitely do a journal post later tonight.
In the meantime, a girl who I went out with during this last summer messaged me. She says she's back in the Seattle area. When I first met her, she was only there for a few days on a business trip. We went out on a 3 or 4 hour date which included several venue changes. I kissed her halfway through, and towards the end of the date, I started escalating on her in my car. We got to second base, after which she put up too much resistance for me to continue. I may or may not have written up a some sort of post or fr about it. If I did, can't seem to find it. This was a girl who was very adamant about communicating to me how "non-slutty" she is. And how "she doesn't do hook ups". I think this might've been part of the reason for her resistance. She didn't want to seem like a lier after talking so much about her "no hookup" policy. lol
In any case, this is new territory for me. How should I greet her (i.e. can I greet her with a peck on the lips, or should I just do a hug?). Also, should I expect anything different? Should I treat this date like I'm starting over with her, or should I just grab a quick cup of coffee then pull her home? etc.
Any and all thoughts on this situation in general would be great. Thanks guys!
Edit: I've forgotten almost everything about her. I feel like this might be offensive to her. Especially if she remembers shit I told her about myself. lol.
Any ideas on how to handle this?
In the meantime, a girl who I went out with during this last summer messaged me. She says she's back in the Seattle area. When I first met her, she was only there for a few days on a business trip. We went out on a 3 or 4 hour date which included several venue changes. I kissed her halfway through, and towards the end of the date, I started escalating on her in my car. We got to second base, after which she put up too much resistance for me to continue. I may or may not have written up a some sort of post or fr about it. If I did, can't seem to find it. This was a girl who was very adamant about communicating to me how "non-slutty" she is. And how "she doesn't do hook ups". I think this might've been part of the reason for her resistance. She didn't want to seem like a lier after talking so much about her "no hookup" policy. lol
In any case, this is new territory for me. How should I greet her (i.e. can I greet her with a peck on the lips, or should I just do a hug?). Also, should I expect anything different? Should I treat this date like I'm starting over with her, or should I just grab a quick cup of coffee then pull her home? etc.
Any and all thoughts on this situation in general would be great. Thanks guys!
Edit: I've forgotten almost everything about her. I feel like this might be offensive to her. Especially if she remembers shit I told her about myself. lol.
Any ideas on how to handle this?
