Red Flags on a date

[shaneawi]

I went on a couple of dates with a girl who's 20 years old. I'm in my late 20's. We became really comfortable with each other but she's said a few things of concern while on the date.

RED FLAGS

-She had a misdemeanor for knocking over trash cans of girls she was fighting with
-When she was in high school a lot of girls didn't like her. She had a lot of guy friends.
-She's 20 and has slept with 9 guys. (at least that's what she's told me)
-She enjoys giving oral and had sex in a car before
-The oldest guy she's been with is 28
-She goes out late drinking and to rave parties
-She's 20 and never had a relationship and doesn't think she wants to have kids.
-She's currently dealing with a fuckboy who her mom and girlfriends can't stand.
-Doesn't plan on going to college but when she turns 21 she's going to become a flight attendant

Is this girl even worth it to try and sleep with? She's already put me into the boyfriend or friends with benefits category.

 

[Smurf]

Is this a troll?

There's nothing wrong with any of those traits, although the passive aggressiveness would put me off a bit. Sounds like your average 20 year old girl. Unless you're looking for relationship material, then I'd pass. Since she already put you in the boyfriend zone territory, I'd just pass on her and move on. The last thing you want to do is get stuck pining for a party girl.

Jake.

 

[WayOfHand]

Worth it as regards of what? For fun, hell yeah. For relationship, not before hell freezes. Boyfriend and FWB frames are quite different. If you haven't shagged her yet, chances are high that you are just an orbiter/bf candidate.

 

[shaneawi]

No trolling going on. I just read some articles before by Chase where he discusses staying away from party girls

 

[Smurf]

If you want a relationship, yeah, stay away. If you want to improve your game and have a probably really fun night, shag her silly. Just don't make her your girlfriend.

Jake.