Reflections on losing virginity to an escort

hater58

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I lost my virginity to an escort about 3 months ago. After a couple instances of screwing up with girls I had been texting, I responded like a child, decided that I was sick of being a virgin, and that I was going to get it over with as soon as possible.

I found an escort on Eros and ended up driving a couple of hours to her hotel room. The expereince ended up being , well, very..odd, to say the least.

I arrived at the door and she greeted my hug. Right I was somewhat disappointed as she did not look anything like the picture, but she was still attractive regardless.

Mainly I was annoyed that she said something along the lines of "I'm wearing what you requested", when in reality she did not actually adhere to the request.

She had me take a shower first, which was unexpected and reminded me of the beginning of some porn videos that I had seen.

Long story short, the sex was terrible. It just seemed so fake to me (even though I have never really had sex), mainly because there was effectively zero intimacy(no kissing). In retrospect, had I known that it was not GFE, I wouldn't have gone through with it, but I guess I just thought that for the price I was paying(800 fir 1.5 hr), that would be included but I guess not. She was very nice though.

It just seemed so awkward for me to find any sort of rhythm, 2 sets of appendages just not really meshing...I don't know if this is what it was like for many with their first time, but that is the way it was for me. I never ended up finishing despite a variety of positions. Closest I got was an HJ but even then...just did not quite happen.

Overall, initially I felt that the experience was in no way meaningful or impactful on my life. Upon more reflection, I would not recommended going tis route to lose your virginity. I feel like I am significantly less motivated to go out and try to "lose it" since I am no longer technically a virgin.

YMMV, but that is a quick summary of my first time.
 

ulrich

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Don't worry dude.
Your first times are usually akward, specially if you are a little shy yourself.
Don't beat yourself too much.

Many guys struggle with going a little soft and being unable to come out of fear of performing inadequately... it happened to me.

I even went to an urologist and he suggested I use viagra for my first lays which ended up being great advice.
After 6 or 7 lays, I eventually laid it off.

Escorts and prostitutes are also a sensitive subject, for most of my life I didn't like strip clubs at all because I was feeling like I was cheating and that I should instead be seducing "real" women.
As I grow older and feel more comfortable and sexually satisfied, I have started to enjoy strip clubs. I don't feel guilt anymore.

It's alll growing pains.
 

trashKENNUT

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Long story short, the sex was terrible. It just seemed so fake to me

Yea, it's like staring death. It feels so practical especially if you get a girl who is literally 'all work mode'.

I won't recommend it unless you just into sex,
and like all sorts of fetishes.

z@c+
 

POB

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My first time I was shitty drunk and the girl had a massive period.
After we were done, it looked like Jason Voorhees had sex with 10 chicks on that bed.
It didn't stop me from getting good at it.

Escorts are a double-edged sword....you were looking for intimacy, she was looking for money.
Just be patient, things will improve for sure.
 

Starboy

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I lost my virginity to an escort about 3 months ago. After a couple instances of screwing up with girls I had been texting, I responded like a child, decided that I was sick of being a virgin, and that I was going to get it over with as soon as possible.

I found an escort on Eros and ended up driving a couple of hours to her hotel room. The expereince ended up being , well, very..odd, to say the least.

I arrived at the door and she greeted my hug. Right I was somewhat disappointed as she did not look anything like the picture, but she was still attractive regardless.

Mainly I was annoyed that she said something along the lines of "I'm wearing what you requested", when in reality she did not actually adhere to the request.

She had me take a shower first, which was unexpected and reminded me of the beginning of some porn videos that I had seen.

Long story short, the sex was terrible. It just seemed so fake to me (even though I have never really had sex), mainly because there was effectively zero intimacy(no kissing). In retrospect, had I known that it was not GFE, I wouldn't have gone through with it, but I guess I just thought that for the price I was paying(800 fir 1.5 hr), that would be included but I guess not. She was very nice though.

It just seemed so awkward for me to find any sort of rhythm, 2 sets of appendages just not really meshing...I don't know if this is what it was like for many with their first time, but that is the way it was for me. I never ended up finishing despite a variety of positions. Closest I got was an HJ but even then...just did not quite happen.

Overall, initially I felt that the experience was in no way meaningful or impactful on my life. Upon more reflection, I would not recommended going tis route to lose your virginity. I feel like I am significantly less motivated to go out and try to "lose it" since I am no longer technically a virgin.

YMMV, but that is a quick summary of my first time.
Pretty brave of you to share your experience. Not that i'm judging you for doing so. I never really considered hiring one. There may have been times where I was feeling lonely and horny in my room and imagined myself fucking one. I would be thinking about the ease,the gratification and how stress free it would feel to just fuck one and not have to worry about any sort of drama to get to that point.

But drama is a part of the mating courtship and it can't be avoided. We have to learn to coexist and appeal to the opposite sex and it can't be with money because it will never feel genuine.
 

PalmaSailor

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Cut yourself some slack young man. It doesn’t matter,

just forget it and move on. There are loads of women out there. Just start talking to all of them, even if you don’t like them.
 
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