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So I'm not sure what to think about this.
I met this girl a little older than myself on a dating site (Okcupid) and we talked for a little bit and I would've asked her out there but she's a nurse who got temporarily transferred to the other side of the country just before corona hit and is now stuck there until this ends (or at least dies down). So I figured video chatting here and there would've been better than texting but she only had facebook (which I ended up getting off of before this, more on this later). After that we both got caught up with work and fell out of touch for a month or two. Just three days ago (as of writing this), we got back in touch and I had just gotten back on facebook to see events and stuff going on around me but I kept it completely blank since I had trouble with some relentless scammers before (even changed my last name there). I told her this and she didn't seem to mind, just really wanted to chat there on messenger.
It was only two or three messages before she brought up roll play which we ended up doing for about five hours (basically sexting without nudes). According to her, she came around the same time as me (no cameras where used, we were texting what we were doing) After that we just texted normally like how you would talk after actually sleeping with a woman in bed (basically a lighthearted conversation where we got to know each other a little bit). That ended when I had to go because my battery was dying and I was dying for some food.
Next day (today) I wake up and she texts me on messenger, which I quickly turned into roll play again. Only this time she asked me if I loved her while we were "fucking". I thought it was a little soon for this and just kind of sidestepped it by intentionally misinterpreting it and saying that I was loving the texting here. She wasn't letting me get around it though and clarified that she meant like boyfriend/girlfriend. After that I said that if we were going to do that, that i'd want to video chat with her sometime. It was after that, that she blocked me completely on both the dating site and in messenger. Which really bums me out because she seemed really real (she never asked for anything at all) and I was starting to like her a bit. I guess she thought I was asking her for too much or thought I was just a player and went into autorejection mid sext
:/
I'm still a bit bummed out by this and I'm still talking to other people but I've had this stuck on my mind. Wondering what would've happened if I just went with it and stuck with her. There were a lot of pictures of her and she was really cool and cute in all of them.
I met this girl a little older than myself on a dating site (Okcupid) and we talked for a little bit and I would've asked her out there but she's a nurse who got temporarily transferred to the other side of the country just before corona hit and is now stuck there until this ends (or at least dies down). So I figured video chatting here and there would've been better than texting but she only had facebook (which I ended up getting off of before this, more on this later). After that we both got caught up with work and fell out of touch for a month or two. Just three days ago (as of writing this), we got back in touch and I had just gotten back on facebook to see events and stuff going on around me but I kept it completely blank since I had trouble with some relentless scammers before (even changed my last name there). I told her this and she didn't seem to mind, just really wanted to chat there on messenger.
It was only two or three messages before she brought up roll play which we ended up doing for about five hours (basically sexting without nudes). According to her, she came around the same time as me (no cameras where used, we were texting what we were doing) After that we just texted normally like how you would talk after actually sleeping with a woman in bed (basically a lighthearted conversation where we got to know each other a little bit). That ended when I had to go because my battery was dying and I was dying for some food.
Next day (today) I wake up and she texts me on messenger, which I quickly turned into roll play again. Only this time she asked me if I loved her while we were "fucking". I thought it was a little soon for this and just kind of sidestepped it by intentionally misinterpreting it and saying that I was loving the texting here. She wasn't letting me get around it though and clarified that she meant like boyfriend/girlfriend. After that I said that if we were going to do that, that i'd want to video chat with her sometime. It was after that, that she blocked me completely on both the dating site and in messenger. Which really bums me out because she seemed really real (she never asked for anything at all) and I was starting to like her a bit. I guess she thought I was asking her for too much or thought I was just a player and went into autorejection mid sext
:/ I'm still a bit bummed out by this and I'm still talking to other people but I've had this stuck on my mind. Wondering what would've happened if I just went with it and stuck with her. There were a lot of pictures of her and she was really cool and cute in all of them.
