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Hello People,
So i be writing this a short post. I won't promise a long one because i suck at it but i hope Chase Amante picks up steam on this topic because trust me, this is a fucking popular topic. and he probably write a long ass article i be dying to read.
You guys will love this.
I know a lot of relationships don't have sex. I know.
The way they talk,
it screams...
It tells me everything In fact,
i seen it the other way too. I seen ordinary people with 'chode' face, having sex often with their girlfriends than those who look tough guy. But for most men, from the outside, every guy out there is jealous that a man has a relationship.
That's why Ed Sheeran song is morally correct, feels right. Avril lavigne's Girlfriend feels right. They are the fucker and you are the hero. And if you lose, you just spam out God and islam and bible so you can fuck those girls and not them.
But we live in a world of imperfect information. (Thank you Chase). So what is true? Are women really sluts in a conservative country? Now Zac takes you down the rabbit hole.
If you are thinking that women are "sluts" at this point, i assure you. You need to point this out for yourself. If it is
1)women like sex and i hate it somewhat
2)i can't believe women lie a lot more than they should.
If it is the first, i recommend that you need to make inner peace. If it is the second, i assure you. Every guy has this. It is normal.
But let's go down the rabbit hole. Here's 3 short personal accounts of Zac that will really alter your reality forever. I leave you all to have your own conclusions as to your question on relationships without sex and whether it is possible. The journey along the way also covers
1)why long distance relationship doesn't work
2)moving fast is very very important
3)Friends/tools/resources, lovers, or tribe
Personal WARNING and again: If You Have Read GIrlschase a lot, and if you are starting out and You know how things work but can't get yourself out to remove your beliefs systems, You know that i don't bullshit. And i speak things so frankly that it does mess up people's brain. Just ask Chase and he probably tell you how many post he has taken down from me. Not saying i am proud. I'm telling you as it is. He probably thinks i'm nuts, too. Somewhat intelligent but passionately crazy.
Zac and Vanessa (why long distance relationship doesn't work)
The day was long. I haven't had a proper drink in awhile. I didn't knew. That Vanessa would show up in a dance event that i was in. Afterall, work, school, dance makes you wear and tear. But i love it. After serving my National service, i was really relishing on spending my two years in school the best way i can, socializing. As i was having my dinner done, i went up the few steps and go to the audio system. I saw Vanessa. I was like "woah, i haven't seen her in a long time". My friend was there with her. I didn't realize that she was there. He was a fat guy, huge. I don't judge, but he covered her and the audio system was in a narrow place.
I said Hi and she was puzzling happy to see me but she see me in a different light. She was nervous anxious but 2018 Zac would have fuck her right then and there.
She was "unusually" disturbing to me. So much that she interupts my conversation, not something that she do. She is a bubbly and cheerful girl. The kind of girl that everyone loves. That girl who is "normal", "nice". She asked me if i wanted to get a drink. I was into my conversation with my fat friend. I knew something was amiss. 2018 Zac will have catch this.
I found her at a major concert 3 weeks later. Her boyfriend just came back from overseas. Now i somewhat know why she was "interuptive"
Zac and Nixie (moving fast is very very important)
Playing captain's ball was fun. In fact, i am in a game now. My guy friends all suck man, but the ladies are crazy. The more i am passionate, the more they are. Throwing balls here and there, my friends speak between themselves. "That girl has a huge rack". They were all watching her, fucking make us lose the captain's ball game. Thinking about it back then, it was hilarious. The team that has that girl was playing just beside us.
Our game ended. I decided to start a conversation and soon after we were playing the game with them.
Of course, my friends abandon me at this point. They were messing up with me saying "Zac only chase girls with huge racks". We all laugh in the shower room as we get prepared to go home. I saw her walking with her friends. I started having conversations with them. This point, i knew i wanted to date the girl.
I got her facebook and a week later, her number on facebook and we went on a date. I had a dance lesson to teach students on that sunday and she made up time for me for the whole day. I decline because i had lesson. Of course, i didn't knew any better.
She called. She wanted to meet up at her place. I was mummed. I was inexperienced. She turn the conversation and we still went out on a day on the sunday, even if its awhile. She tolerated me on the journey and during our date. She questioned why did we need to travel. But 2018 Zac knew that she just wants me to plow her onto oblivion. I already "qualified" to her but i didn't know any better.
She still contacted me when she had other fresher guys. Just that the opportunity passed.
Zac and Joanna (Friends/tools/resources or lovers or tribe)
We have been friends for 1 and half year. I regret this even till today. Yes you can sleep with girls who are friends, but just enough that it doesn't go crazy. Friends are not lovers and will never be, but this is 2018 Zac. Not 2012 Zac.
We were the best of friends. We went to dance together. We went to events together. She also happens to be my student later on. We would go out and perform for events. In one fine evening, i took her to eat. It was only two of us. She become so weird suddenly. She look at me for long. But just enough that i didn't caught on. Eventually i ask her out on a date. She was anxious, she panics, but she was calm. If i had to say it in perfect terms, her face tells me that she like me but she also didn't want to throw away that friendship we had. In fact, this is the first time i see the matrix glitch in a person's face, that friends lovers and tribe conflict.
I was heartbroken but pretended we are friends. I knew she was lying. I knew she was lying, but she said yes to my date, while still glitching in the matrix. It was all over her face.
Our friendship will prevail first. So much so that i was annoyed. Because we were walking on eggshells. I know she did. I know i did. But she hurt me at one point in time and she was fearful. So much so that our friends find her weird. They will be fine with me but they found her weird. Needless to say, we went back and forth, and settle into a relationship, an unofficial one for like 3 weeks and we never really talk to each other again.
Before we move on our own separate lifes, she had a guy who will call her, message. Someone we knew, our friends knew. I call him to tell him that she is annoyed. He was puzzled, He thought i was her boyfriend. In fact, i somewhat was. I somewhat not. Events day arrive and i saw him flirting with her. She was somewhat annoyed and creeped out but not so much when she knows she is single. Afterall, we are not official. She never tried to make me jealous. Just that women have their own phases of life. and i see this in plain sight. It does hurt me.
She started talking about how i was romantic to her on Facebook and twitter. before all this happen. We are friends on facebook. And that's why i was heartbroken. I was heartbroken that she flirted with him in public infront of all of us despite protesting how he was this and that. She took me for a fool. I thought she was a nice girl. How can she bitch about this guy yet allow him to flirt with all of us around, and me, standing there working out our operations for the event.
It was sad we walk on eggshells. She was selfish, to me at least..... but the bigger roots was, we were friends, not lovers. She had to do what every women do
Is relationships without sex, possible?
I recommend you read story 2, and ingrain it with your real life experiences. And you probably reach an enlightenment. I let you guys to draw up your own journey. This is the first 3 stories of the large roots that propel Zac to his journey. Of course, his small roots started out back in 2006 or early. But I hope you find your roots and then larger roots that propel you to your own journey.
Zac
So i be writing this a short post. I won't promise a long one because i suck at it but i hope Chase Amante picks up steam on this topic because trust me, this is a fucking popular topic. and he probably write a long ass article i be dying to read.
You guys will love this.
I know a lot of relationships don't have sex. I know.
The way they talk,
it screams...
It tells me everything In fact,
i seen it the other way too. I seen ordinary people with 'chode' face, having sex often with their girlfriends than those who look tough guy. But for most men, from the outside, every guy out there is jealous that a man has a relationship.
That's why Ed Sheeran song is morally correct, feels right. Avril lavigne's Girlfriend feels right. They are the fucker and you are the hero. And if you lose, you just spam out God and islam and bible so you can fuck those girls and not them.
But we live in a world of imperfect information. (Thank you Chase). So what is true? Are women really sluts in a conservative country? Now Zac takes you down the rabbit hole.
If you are thinking that women are "sluts" at this point, i assure you. You need to point this out for yourself. If it is
1)women like sex and i hate it somewhat
2)i can't believe women lie a lot more than they should.
If it is the first, i recommend that you need to make inner peace. If it is the second, i assure you. Every guy has this. It is normal.
But let's go down the rabbit hole. Here's 3 short personal accounts of Zac that will really alter your reality forever. I leave you all to have your own conclusions as to your question on relationships without sex and whether it is possible. The journey along the way also covers
1)why long distance relationship doesn't work
2)moving fast is very very important
3)Friends/tools/resources, lovers, or tribe
Personal WARNING and again: If You Have Read GIrlschase a lot, and if you are starting out and You know how things work but can't get yourself out to remove your beliefs systems, You know that i don't bullshit. And i speak things so frankly that it does mess up people's brain. Just ask Chase and he probably tell you how many post he has taken down from me. Not saying i am proud. I'm telling you as it is. He probably thinks i'm nuts, too. Somewhat intelligent but passionately crazy.
Zac and Vanessa (why long distance relationship doesn't work)
The day was long. I haven't had a proper drink in awhile. I didn't knew. That Vanessa would show up in a dance event that i was in. Afterall, work, school, dance makes you wear and tear. But i love it. After serving my National service, i was really relishing on spending my two years in school the best way i can, socializing. As i was having my dinner done, i went up the few steps and go to the audio system. I saw Vanessa. I was like "woah, i haven't seen her in a long time". My friend was there with her. I didn't realize that she was there. He was a fat guy, huge. I don't judge, but he covered her and the audio system was in a narrow place.
I said Hi and she was puzzling happy to see me but she see me in a different light. She was nervous anxious but 2018 Zac would have fuck her right then and there.
She was "unusually" disturbing to me. So much that she interupts my conversation, not something that she do. She is a bubbly and cheerful girl. The kind of girl that everyone loves. That girl who is "normal", "nice". She asked me if i wanted to get a drink. I was into my conversation with my fat friend. I knew something was amiss. 2018 Zac will have catch this.
I found her at a major concert 3 weeks later. Her boyfriend just came back from overseas. Now i somewhat know why she was "interuptive"
Zac and Nixie (moving fast is very very important)
Playing captain's ball was fun. In fact, i am in a game now. My guy friends all suck man, but the ladies are crazy. The more i am passionate, the more they are. Throwing balls here and there, my friends speak between themselves. "That girl has a huge rack". They were all watching her, fucking make us lose the captain's ball game. Thinking about it back then, it was hilarious. The team that has that girl was playing just beside us.
Our game ended. I decided to start a conversation and soon after we were playing the game with them.
Of course, my friends abandon me at this point. They were messing up with me saying "Zac only chase girls with huge racks". We all laugh in the shower room as we get prepared to go home. I saw her walking with her friends. I started having conversations with them. This point, i knew i wanted to date the girl.
I got her facebook and a week later, her number on facebook and we went on a date. I had a dance lesson to teach students on that sunday and she made up time for me for the whole day. I decline because i had lesson. Of course, i didn't knew any better.
She called. She wanted to meet up at her place. I was mummed. I was inexperienced. She turn the conversation and we still went out on a day on the sunday, even if its awhile. She tolerated me on the journey and during our date. She questioned why did we need to travel. But 2018 Zac knew that she just wants me to plow her onto oblivion. I already "qualified" to her but i didn't know any better.
She still contacted me when she had other fresher guys. Just that the opportunity passed.
Zac and Joanna (Friends/tools/resources or lovers or tribe)
We have been friends for 1 and half year. I regret this even till today. Yes you can sleep with girls who are friends, but just enough that it doesn't go crazy. Friends are not lovers and will never be, but this is 2018 Zac. Not 2012 Zac.
We were the best of friends. We went to dance together. We went to events together. She also happens to be my student later on. We would go out and perform for events. In one fine evening, i took her to eat. It was only two of us. She become so weird suddenly. She look at me for long. But just enough that i didn't caught on. Eventually i ask her out on a date. She was anxious, she panics, but she was calm. If i had to say it in perfect terms, her face tells me that she like me but she also didn't want to throw away that friendship we had. In fact, this is the first time i see the matrix glitch in a person's face, that friends lovers and tribe conflict.
I was heartbroken but pretended we are friends. I knew she was lying. I knew she was lying, but she said yes to my date, while still glitching in the matrix. It was all over her face.
Our friendship will prevail first. So much so that i was annoyed. Because we were walking on eggshells. I know she did. I know i did. But she hurt me at one point in time and she was fearful. So much so that our friends find her weird. They will be fine with me but they found her weird. Needless to say, we went back and forth, and settle into a relationship, an unofficial one for like 3 weeks and we never really talk to each other again.
Before we move on our own separate lifes, she had a guy who will call her, message. Someone we knew, our friends knew. I call him to tell him that she is annoyed. He was puzzled, He thought i was her boyfriend. In fact, i somewhat was. I somewhat not. Events day arrive and i saw him flirting with her. She was somewhat annoyed and creeped out but not so much when she knows she is single. Afterall, we are not official. She never tried to make me jealous. Just that women have their own phases of life. and i see this in plain sight. It does hurt me.
She started talking about how i was romantic to her on Facebook and twitter. before all this happen. We are friends on facebook. And that's why i was heartbroken. I was heartbroken that she flirted with him in public infront of all of us despite protesting how he was this and that. She took me for a fool. I thought she was a nice girl. How can she bitch about this guy yet allow him to flirt with all of us around, and me, standing there working out our operations for the event.
It was sad we walk on eggshells. She was selfish, to me at least..... but the bigger roots was, we were friends, not lovers. She had to do what every women do
Is relationships without sex, possible?
I recommend you read story 2, and ingrain it with your real life experiences. And you probably reach an enlightenment. I let you guys to draw up your own journey. This is the first 3 stories of the large roots that propel Zac to his journey. Of course, his small roots started out back in 2006 or early. But I hope you find your roots and then larger roots that propel you to your own journey.
Zac
