I browse through the comments here and many times I feel sorry for the younger guys... What I honestly think is that you guys have fucked up deal with girls here in US, that is unfortunate reality... If you lived in other places, e.g. Europe, you'd be way more successful with less skills, you would have quality relationships without much effort like here...
The US society is screwed up, feminists have too much power because of weak men allowed it and support it... Many (but not all) today's young(er) girls follow the feminist nonsense: Sleep with anyone you want, any time you want and without any consequences, and all the law is on your site...
As a result you have lots of girls who sleep around, girls who are unable to respect guys/men... you have to go through lots of rejections because today's girls are delusional about quality of men and thus many times choosing only fuckboys - guys who are unable to commit to relationships, guys who are just superficially exciting but have no real value, guys who are just fakes, one night stands...
Know that it is NOT really the fault of the girls because they just grew up in this environment; they were thought to behave this way, they see this behavior all around - for them it is just a normal behavior...
Know that it is not your fault either... Because you can't find a decent girl you can date and sleep with, you have to study seduction for months, if not years - just to become another one night stand fuckboy... You are beating yourself down by constant failures with girls, you are always believing that it is you who is the failure... I'm telling you, it is not you, it is the whole screwed up system in which we live, in which you grew up to the point that it seems normal to you to blame yourself for all the "failures"...
... So realize that you have much higher value as a man than you think and believe. Stop thinking in terms "I am High Value Man and I have to be a great seducer in order to get pussy", rather when you meet a new cute girl start thinking in terms: "She is a Low Value girl no matter how pretty she is, and she has to prove her Value to me if she wants to be my GF"
... Once you adopt this mindset the whole world will change for you, you will stop worshiping girls, you will stop working so hard on seduction, and you will have much better success with girls... Why? Because you will simply stop seeing them through pink glasses, you will stop putting them on a pedestal...
I read many times here that we as guys have to have lots of seduction knowledge/skills to get 'quality' girls, and then we have to keep working hard to keep them in LT relationships... that we guys have to keep improving ourselves for years before he "become good for girls"... I'll tell you, it's such a BS, the whole setup makes most guys believe that the are Low Value Men and thus have to work very hard on themselves...
What is quality girl? Though the definition may vary I'll tell you one thing: If you have to work hard to keep that girl, if you have to constantly manage that relationship (so she doesn't leave you, LOL) - you are not with quality girl at all... You are with high maintenance girl that you believe is quality, but once you stop all the "relationship management" she will leave you with no remorse, she will dump you on a spot and replace you with first available fuckboy... So that is what quality usually means to you, your quality means that you have to work very hard to "get the girl" and then keep working hard just to "keep her", while she usually does - NOTHING to keep you...
Eh, fuck that. Yoyu should never work hard to "get the girl" and you definitely should not work hard to "keep her" - especially if she is not quality girl herself...
I'll tell you what is quality girl in my definition: She works hard to keep you. She worries that you leave her because she understands and knows your value as a man, as a provider and lover. She doesn't sleep around, nor she has high number of partners before you. She is traditional and believes in LTR/Marriage, she believes in stable family because she knows that that is important for the kids. She cooks and cleans, and takes a great care of your children. She respect you and she respects other men. Though I can expand the list there is just one more important thing to know: She will never sleep with you on a first date because she knows her value very well, and heck, she will most likely not sleep with you the first month no matter how great seducer you believe you are... And, she will never cheat on you. There you go, that is what quality girl really means...
It may seem that I am talking about some imaginary girl, but that is not true. It is very hard to find such girl here in US, because US society is simply crewed... too many feminists, too many weak beta men who support feminism, too many weak lawyers that protect all the BS... You guys are screwed because you grew up in such environment, you have to work very hard to get and keep just average girl... I'm telling you, if you were in different places you could still find such quality girl, and you would be surprised how she respects you as a man, just the way you are...
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So couple points to recognize Low Quality Girls:
* She sleeps around, duh. She sleeps with you on a first date. Again, Quality girl WILL plan and WILL decide when to sleep with you (as a potential great mate). She will decide when to have sex, not you by your seduction/PUA BS. She will never sleep with you on a first date and she will have low number of BF's before you, she will be in LTR...
* She doesn't respect you (and many other guys), she looks down at you, she has a cold and/or miserable attitude towards you as a man
* She is superficial, she is not genuinely interested in you, it is all about her. She doesn't makes conversations easy on you, you have to contribute a lot, she makes your ass work hard to be around her
* She doesn't do anything for you... Nothing. She doesn't bring you coffee when you don't expect it. She doesn't ask you out, she doesn't invite you to her birth date. She doesn't ask how are you doing. She expects everything from you yet she gives you Nothing
* She rejects your attempts fast, she doesn't give you a chance (assuming she is free). She doesn't forgive you any seduction mistakes though she knows that you are just a guy, simple and straightforward guy... The minute she feels that you are NOT an exciting fuckboy, she will reject you very fast
* She is not traditional, doesn't really believe in LTR/Marriage, doesn't believe in family life. She doesn't puts a great focus on loyality and trust
* She doesn't cook and clean. Yes, that is very important, you don't want to live in a pig house and feed on cheap fast food
* She doesn't take a good care of herself. She is getting fat, she doesn't care what she eats and drinks
* She has unrealistic expectations about you, she has no education herself yet wants you to make lots of money. Delusional...
* She is a single mom (or married with children and looking for replacement - you). Which in translation means that she slept around with fuckboy, and chances are high that it wasn't just one guy. It means that she made a poor choices. She is or was most likely in love with a guy who fucked her and dumped her, and now she is looking for replacement. Don't be a fool, chances are very high that she has no respect for you and she is just after your valet and stability. You don't want to be a daddy to her children, too much drama with too little return...
* She has lots of single male friends on her FB account, and lots of likes and comments from them. Read there are lots of guys after her, she may crave the attention, she's a teaser and she keeps lots of orbitals (guys who can replace you on the spot, the very same day she dumps you)...
* Watch her parents. Watch if her mom is divorced, even multiple times. If her dad is nowhere to find, maybe he is on drugs or in jail. Mom walked out of the marriage because she was "bored". Mom is fat feminist with red lipsticks, disrespecting men. Chances are high that your girls will most likely follow her mom's footsteps
* She dumped her BF's in cold manner, on the spot. She slept with you while having BF. Meaning she has no respect for male's and their feelings at all - chances are she will do the same to you in the future...
* Listen how she talks about law, e.g. she knows she has to put her name on house, she knows that her girlfriends had to file restraining orders against their "bad and abusing BF's" and so on... Think twice because she is very smart, she knows that the current law is in her favor and not in your favor: she knows she can divorce you on the spot and you will be left with alimony, child support and house payments (while she filled out restraining order against you)
There you go, feel free to add to the list, it can go on and on... If you recognize girls doing couple points from the above, chances are high that they are Low Quality Girls... Do you want Low Quality, or are you aiming for High Quality? Remove all girls from the pedestals, start seeing them by default as Low Quality... Start seeing them with your logical mind, let them prove to you that they are not Low Quality Girls...
Make them work hard to get you, and to keep you around...
The US society is screwed up, feminists have too much power because of weak men allowed it and support it... Many (but not all) today's young(er) girls follow the feminist nonsense: Sleep with anyone you want, any time you want and without any consequences, and all the law is on your site...
As a result you have lots of girls who sleep around, girls who are unable to respect guys/men... you have to go through lots of rejections because today's girls are delusional about quality of men and thus many times choosing only fuckboys - guys who are unable to commit to relationships, guys who are just superficially exciting but have no real value, guys who are just fakes, one night stands...
Know that it is NOT really the fault of the girls because they just grew up in this environment; they were thought to behave this way, they see this behavior all around - for them it is just a normal behavior...
Know that it is not your fault either... Because you can't find a decent girl you can date and sleep with, you have to study seduction for months, if not years - just to become another one night stand fuckboy... You are beating yourself down by constant failures with girls, you are always believing that it is you who is the failure... I'm telling you, it is not you, it is the whole screwed up system in which we live, in which you grew up to the point that it seems normal to you to blame yourself for all the "failures"...
... So realize that you have much higher value as a man than you think and believe. Stop thinking in terms "I am High Value Man and I have to be a great seducer in order to get pussy", rather when you meet a new cute girl start thinking in terms: "She is a Low Value girl no matter how pretty she is, and she has to prove her Value to me if she wants to be my GF"
... Once you adopt this mindset the whole world will change for you, you will stop worshiping girls, you will stop working so hard on seduction, and you will have much better success with girls... Why? Because you will simply stop seeing them through pink glasses, you will stop putting them on a pedestal...
I read many times here that we as guys have to have lots of seduction knowledge/skills to get 'quality' girls, and then we have to keep working hard to keep them in LT relationships... that we guys have to keep improving ourselves for years before he "become good for girls"... I'll tell you, it's such a BS, the whole setup makes most guys believe that the are Low Value Men and thus have to work very hard on themselves...
What is quality girl? Though the definition may vary I'll tell you one thing: If you have to work hard to keep that girl, if you have to constantly manage that relationship (so she doesn't leave you, LOL) - you are not with quality girl at all... You are with high maintenance girl that you believe is quality, but once you stop all the "relationship management" she will leave you with no remorse, she will dump you on a spot and replace you with first available fuckboy... So that is what quality usually means to you, your quality means that you have to work very hard to "get the girl" and then keep working hard just to "keep her", while she usually does - NOTHING to keep you...
Eh, fuck that. Yoyu should never work hard to "get the girl" and you definitely should not work hard to "keep her" - especially if she is not quality girl herself...
I'll tell you what is quality girl in my definition: She works hard to keep you. She worries that you leave her because she understands and knows your value as a man, as a provider and lover. She doesn't sleep around, nor she has high number of partners before you. She is traditional and believes in LTR/Marriage, she believes in stable family because she knows that that is important for the kids. She cooks and cleans, and takes a great care of your children. She respect you and she respects other men. Though I can expand the list there is just one more important thing to know: She will never sleep with you on a first date because she knows her value very well, and heck, she will most likely not sleep with you the first month no matter how great seducer you believe you are... And, she will never cheat on you. There you go, that is what quality girl really means...
It may seem that I am talking about some imaginary girl, but that is not true. It is very hard to find such girl here in US, because US society is simply crewed... too many feminists, too many weak beta men who support feminism, too many weak lawyers that protect all the BS... You guys are screwed because you grew up in such environment, you have to work very hard to get and keep just average girl... I'm telling you, if you were in different places you could still find such quality girl, and you would be surprised how she respects you as a man, just the way you are...
---------------
So couple points to recognize Low Quality Girls:
* She sleeps around, duh. She sleeps with you on a first date. Again, Quality girl WILL plan and WILL decide when to sleep with you (as a potential great mate). She will decide when to have sex, not you by your seduction/PUA BS. She will never sleep with you on a first date and she will have low number of BF's before you, she will be in LTR...
* She doesn't respect you (and many other guys), she looks down at you, she has a cold and/or miserable attitude towards you as a man
* She is superficial, she is not genuinely interested in you, it is all about her. She doesn't makes conversations easy on you, you have to contribute a lot, she makes your ass work hard to be around her
* She doesn't do anything for you... Nothing. She doesn't bring you coffee when you don't expect it. She doesn't ask you out, she doesn't invite you to her birth date. She doesn't ask how are you doing. She expects everything from you yet she gives you Nothing
* She rejects your attempts fast, she doesn't give you a chance (assuming she is free). She doesn't forgive you any seduction mistakes though she knows that you are just a guy, simple and straightforward guy... The minute she feels that you are NOT an exciting fuckboy, she will reject you very fast
* She is not traditional, doesn't really believe in LTR/Marriage, doesn't believe in family life. She doesn't puts a great focus on loyality and trust
* She doesn't cook and clean. Yes, that is very important, you don't want to live in a pig house and feed on cheap fast food
* She doesn't take a good care of herself. She is getting fat, she doesn't care what she eats and drinks
* She has unrealistic expectations about you, she has no education herself yet wants you to make lots of money. Delusional...
* She is a single mom (or married with children and looking for replacement - you). Which in translation means that she slept around with fuckboy, and chances are high that it wasn't just one guy. It means that she made a poor choices. She is or was most likely in love with a guy who fucked her and dumped her, and now she is looking for replacement. Don't be a fool, chances are very high that she has no respect for you and she is just after your valet and stability. You don't want to be a daddy to her children, too much drama with too little return...
* She has lots of single male friends on her FB account, and lots of likes and comments from them. Read there are lots of guys after her, she may crave the attention, she's a teaser and she keeps lots of orbitals (guys who can replace you on the spot, the very same day she dumps you)...
* Watch her parents. Watch if her mom is divorced, even multiple times. If her dad is nowhere to find, maybe he is on drugs or in jail. Mom walked out of the marriage because she was "bored". Mom is fat feminist with red lipsticks, disrespecting men. Chances are high that your girls will most likely follow her mom's footsteps
* She dumped her BF's in cold manner, on the spot. She slept with you while having BF. Meaning she has no respect for male's and their feelings at all - chances are she will do the same to you in the future...
* Listen how she talks about law, e.g. she knows she has to put her name on house, she knows that her girlfriends had to file restraining orders against their "bad and abusing BF's" and so on... Think twice because she is very smart, she knows that the current law is in her favor and not in your favor: she knows she can divorce you on the spot and you will be left with alimony, child support and house payments (while she filled out restraining order against you)
There you go, feel free to add to the list, it can go on and on... If you recognize girls doing couple points from the above, chances are high that they are Low Quality Girls... Do you want Low Quality, or are you aiming for High Quality? Remove all girls from the pedestals, start seeing them by default as Low Quality... Start seeing them with your logical mind, let them prove to you that they are not Low Quality Girls...
Make them work hard to get you, and to keep you around...
