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Hi Guys,
You might think that whiteknight syndrome only applies to dating, but this applies to other things in life as well.
Earlier this year, My organizers, leaders and myself have one of our participants fall flat to the ground. She fainted. What i didn't see is that the medics respond timely. What i see is that there's a slow effort later to attend to her. I feel i should have done better. Few things to take note
1)Stop, and be aware of yourself
It's easy to think you can be a hero when you can't, let alone have the skills to save a life. Fortunately, i know CPR if i need to help someone.
2)Analyse the surroundings.
Any red flags? Any dangers? IF a girl is being bullied by a guy, as an example. Does she look feared? Does she get annoyed?. If you're in a different country, will helping the victim land yourself in court?
3)To Attend the situation or not to Attend
See what you can do, and call for help. or in dating, Get the girl out of there, since she expecting you anyway.
Everyone has this. Don't be ashamed.
Zac
You might think that whiteknight syndrome only applies to dating, but this applies to other things in life as well.
Earlier this year, My organizers, leaders and myself have one of our participants fall flat to the ground. She fainted. What i didn't see is that the medics respond timely. What i see is that there's a slow effort later to attend to her. I feel i should have done better. Few things to take note
1)Stop, and be aware of yourself
It's easy to think you can be a hero when you can't, let alone have the skills to save a life. Fortunately, i know CPR if i need to help someone.
2)Analyse the surroundings.
Any red flags? Any dangers? IF a girl is being bullied by a guy, as an example. Does she look feared? Does she get annoyed?. If you're in a different country, will helping the victim land yourself in court?
3)To Attend the situation or not to Attend
See what you can do, and call for help. or in dating, Get the girl out of there, since she expecting you anyway.
Everyone has this. Don't be ashamed.
Zac
