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Space Monkey
space monkey
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Aug 11, 2013
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I'm trying to tighten up my game on tinder, because I'm working long hours at new job so don't get a chance to meet new people.

Is it ever worth trying to reopen a girl on tinder? I've had it happen where the conversation is a bit stale at the beginning as I try to find commonalities, and I can deal with girls not replying then. I changed my game this time, and went for the number pretty quickly. I've attached screenshots of the convo.

http://imgur.com/UEWdU2d
http://imgur.com/VqlfEPe

We seemed to be having fun up until this point, and I thought it was pretty playful for a text based conversation, with that in mind, I went straight for the number as I've heard the idea is to transition to phone number asap. In this case, should I just ignore the fact she hasn't replied (its been 24 hours, and she has been active on tinder since) and plow through it. If I was out with a girl, and went for a kiss but got denied, PUA teaching would be too just persist, build up attraction/comfort etc, and then go for it again. Why don't the same rules apply.

I know it might be considered lame to do a double message or whatever, but my thinking was that girls, (especially ones with their boobs out in their pictures like this one) probably get loads of matches on tinder, so she may have forgotten about me. Or did I do something wrong?
 

Whizzy

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
Joined
Jan 8, 2013
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Just a couple of things that I noticed from glancing at the messages:

1) Your messages all appear to be much longer than hers, and much more frequent. Remember keep it 50/50 or even better, make her do all of the talking
2) In the 2nd picture she tries to qualify herself to you and instead of using that to reel her in you instead try to qualify yourself to her by saying that you are also a great person. Remember most people that think/say they are great, truly aren't
 
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