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I am not a naturally patient person but i do tolerate people sometimes getting in my face.
So i was thinking, How do i teach this people who labelled themselves "NICE" or at times some people who are just plain awkward in a social situation? For the latter, i am totally cool because sometimes people really don't know things and they feel off, but for the 'NICE' people, and i write this ' instead of the subjective "(because they get in my face), Sometimes i would love to kick their a$$ because they just do things on autopilot. For Western etiquette, people usually don't try to touch your stuff. For my Asian etiquette, people usually try to touch your stuff, that is if you don't draw a line.
I guess drawing so many lines doesn't get in people's head. I realize a method that works on people who do not have some social etiquette, Join them! Touch their stuff and abuse it. Not exactly abuse, but Well it works for me at least, before i needed to do that whole process again.
Guess this quote rings bells "Do unto others what you want others do unto you.".
This is a culture, identity problem, i do believe.
Zac
So i was thinking, How do i teach this people who labelled themselves "NICE" or at times some people who are just plain awkward in a social situation? For the latter, i am totally cool because sometimes people really don't know things and they feel off, but for the 'NICE' people, and i write this ' instead of the subjective "(because they get in my face), Sometimes i would love to kick their a$$ because they just do things on autopilot. For Western etiquette, people usually don't try to touch your stuff. For my Asian etiquette, people usually try to touch your stuff, that is if you don't draw a line.
I guess drawing so many lines doesn't get in people's head. I realize a method that works on people who do not have some social etiquette, Join them! Touch their stuff and abuse it. Not exactly abuse, but Well it works for me at least, before i needed to do that whole process again.
Guess this quote rings bells "Do unto others what you want others do unto you.".
This is a culture, identity problem, i do believe.
Zac
