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Met a girl last week when I was working at my job as a server (I have a large post coming in the future on Server Game - how to get numbers on the tab and turn them into lays) when I overheard a convo about neuroscience that grabbed my attention. A cute blonde girl with a solid body was with her mom, and I was doing my typical thing of trying to gain attraction while taking their orders, but she didn't seem to pay attention. When she started talking about neuro I stopped what I wad doing with a different table and chatted with her about her passion. She's a very hard working academic, wants to be a neurosurgeon (aka the most demanding and time consuming job in the medical field), and is definition Type A personality. Very, very outgoing. I kept serving her and her mom margaritas and the mom told me to ask for her number, which has never happened before. I tease them saying I'm not that easy, but the girl was blushing so I knew I could if I wanted to. They tip heavily, and the girl uses the bathroom right before she leaves. I grab her right before she walks out and get her number, then we text a bit and set up a coffee date.
The date itself went great, we started at my house (we live very close, huge bonus points), walk to the coffee shop, then take a different route and walk through a nature preserve on the way to my house. When I asked her to come in, she essentially pretended like she didn't hear me. So, I angled the conversation to houses in the area and say she should check out my house. We get in, and I forgot to immediately ask her to take her shoes off. Then we're sitting down, and I ask, to which she again pretends like she didn't hear it. Then I take my shoes off, expected her to follow suite, nada.
She kept talking about school (we talked about many subjects on the date, she's just a huge academic) which is a terrible subject matter to try and kiss her from, so I start talking about how college is more than just school. It's a massive learning experience where you need to balance living, working, and coming to understanding the world. And especially taking opportunities that might not exist again. I'm getting physical as I'm talking about this so it's pretty obvious that I'm gearing to kiss her.
SO much resistance.
She wasn't facing me with body, still had her purse around her, and full heartedly disagreed that school is anything but for work. I'm putting on my sexy vibe as hard as I can, and she's saying things like I'm terrible, and to stop it while smiling, so I knew it was working. I go in for a man handle kiss and she laughs and turns her head (FUUUCK). i laugh too and show her slight confusion, but then immediately go back to the sexy vibe and trying to gear it towards hooking up.
Her: "I'm not that easy
"
Me: "I never said you were (;"
Her: "Well this is our first time hanging out"
Me: "It's not like we're fucking on the couch right now" (I had already accepted there was no way of getting into her pants this time, but wanted to settle for something intimate)
Her: "Well..." *blushes, looks down and smiles*
I go in again, same reaction. She says she needs to go study, I tell her to stay for 5 more minutes.... eventually she stands up. I grab her by the waist, facing her, before she gets to the door, and almost get the kiss, but still rejected. She enjoyed all of this, but said word for word that she is very stubborn.
Her: "Maybe next time" (;
Me: "If I decide to text you" (;
Eventually she gets to the door, gives me a hug and kisses me on the fucking cheek.
Me: "You suck"
Her: "I know. Byeee"
Me: *Waves goodbye with my fingers*
She told me she feels very comfortable around me and that I'm a great conversationalist, that I'm cute, and that she loves how I'm passionate about what I do. I made conversation sexual multiple times, and used sexual humor... she always responded with positivity and laughter.. She, being incredibly outgoing, does TONS of awesome shit. Way cooler than most girls I've gone on a date with. I could definitely see myself having her in a gf type situation in all honesty, and I'm not even worrying or that upset about the failed escalation as I do with most girls. Very good vibes between the two of us, even with and during the rejected kiss.
I really wish I knew how to break her stubbornness. She's quite the catch, and she knows it. I teased her enough to not give her too much power, but she certainly took charge of the intimacy. This just happened, and right now can't think of many ways to change what I'm doing to speed up getting with her. As for now I'll text her tomorrow about how I enjoyed the date and try to set up another.
Peace peace yall
Hueman
Met a girl last week when I was working at my job as a server (I have a large post coming in the future on Server Game - how to get numbers on the tab and turn them into lays) when I overheard a convo about neuroscience that grabbed my attention. A cute blonde girl with a solid body was with her mom, and I was doing my typical thing of trying to gain attraction while taking their orders, but she didn't seem to pay attention. When she started talking about neuro I stopped what I wad doing with a different table and chatted with her about her passion. She's a very hard working academic, wants to be a neurosurgeon (aka the most demanding and time consuming job in the medical field), and is definition Type A personality. Very, very outgoing. I kept serving her and her mom margaritas and the mom told me to ask for her number, which has never happened before. I tease them saying I'm not that easy, but the girl was blushing so I knew I could if I wanted to. They tip heavily, and the girl uses the bathroom right before she leaves. I grab her right before she walks out and get her number, then we text a bit and set up a coffee date.
The date itself went great, we started at my house (we live very close, huge bonus points), walk to the coffee shop, then take a different route and walk through a nature preserve on the way to my house. When I asked her to come in, she essentially pretended like she didn't hear me. So, I angled the conversation to houses in the area and say she should check out my house. We get in, and I forgot to immediately ask her to take her shoes off. Then we're sitting down, and I ask, to which she again pretends like she didn't hear it. Then I take my shoes off, expected her to follow suite, nada.
She kept talking about school (we talked about many subjects on the date, she's just a huge academic) which is a terrible subject matter to try and kiss her from, so I start talking about how college is more than just school. It's a massive learning experience where you need to balance living, working, and coming to understanding the world. And especially taking opportunities that might not exist again. I'm getting physical as I'm talking about this so it's pretty obvious that I'm gearing to kiss her.
SO much resistance.
She wasn't facing me with body, still had her purse around her, and full heartedly disagreed that school is anything but for work. I'm putting on my sexy vibe as hard as I can, and she's saying things like I'm terrible, and to stop it while smiling, so I knew it was working. I go in for a man handle kiss and she laughs and turns her head (FUUUCK). i laugh too and show her slight confusion, but then immediately go back to the sexy vibe and trying to gear it towards hooking up.
Her: "I'm not that easy
"Me: "I never said you were (;"
Her: "Well this is our first time hanging out"
Me: "It's not like we're fucking on the couch right now" (I had already accepted there was no way of getting into her pants this time, but wanted to settle for something intimate)
Her: "Well..." *blushes, looks down and smiles*
I go in again, same reaction. She says she needs to go study, I tell her to stay for 5 more minutes.... eventually she stands up. I grab her by the waist, facing her, before she gets to the door, and almost get the kiss, but still rejected. She enjoyed all of this, but said word for word that she is very stubborn.
Her: "Maybe next time" (;
Me: "If I decide to text you" (;
Eventually she gets to the door, gives me a hug and kisses me on the fucking cheek.
Me: "You suck"
Her: "I know. Byeee"
Me: *Waves goodbye with my fingers*
She told me she feels very comfortable around me and that I'm a great conversationalist, that I'm cute, and that she loves how I'm passionate about what I do. I made conversation sexual multiple times, and used sexual humor... she always responded with positivity and laughter.. She, being incredibly outgoing, does TONS of awesome shit. Way cooler than most girls I've gone on a date with. I could definitely see myself having her in a gf type situation in all honesty, and I'm not even worrying or that upset about the failed escalation as I do with most girls. Very good vibes between the two of us, even with and during the rejected kiss.
I really wish I knew how to break her stubbornness. She's quite the catch, and she knows it. I teased her enough to not give her too much power, but she certainly took charge of the intimacy. This just happened, and right now can't think of many ways to change what I'm doing to speed up getting with her. As for now I'll text her tomorrow about how I enjoyed the date and try to set up another.
Peace peace yall
Hueman
