Resistance to Sex?

[AdamC]

So I am looking for advice, tactics on how to overcome this resistance to sex with this Eastern European Woman??
I picked her up through Day Game Thursday evening the day when she came to town. We hung out for several hours on Friday - before I had to go to work overnight.
Then again yesterday, from 3pm until almost 9pm when she had to go back to her Aunt's house.
She's leaving Tuesday to Mexico for a month and who knows who she might get with there, sooooo...
How do I close her tomorrow?

I did the "8 Orgasms" bit with her last night, as well as "why women are never sexually satisfied."
She lets me play with her hair, stoke the middle of her back, caress her inner forearms where her tattoos are, but hesitates any escalation more than that.
She's stated twice that despite being an Independent Feminist Woman, she's more on the conservative side of sex because she is very sensitive, and gets attached, so she doesn't have Travel Romances except for her first time with international travel visiting with a group to Bolivia, in which she fell in love with a Columbian guy and had a romance...

It's almost like Custer's Last Stand tomorrow if we actually hang out so what Advice would the group have to actually CLOSE this Woman???
(She's not an inexperience girl, by the way!)
Appreciate it!

 

[foggy]

One angle I'm looking at is that you are dealing with FSC [Female State Control].

She's conflicted on her value of independence...causing her to control her emotions and hold back from making a decision on you.

In other words, she does not trust her judgement to let go...due to the risk of catching feelings and becoming dependent.

Providing a safety net could help you here. As in, make her feel allowed to emotionally invest in you without consequence. I've done this before by setting rules to ensure no feelings get involved. It reduces the conflict and lets her remain independent.

 

[AdamC]

Hey there Fog,
It would be appreciated if you could explain a little further...
Assuming we hang out again tomorrow, what I believe is her last full day here - Do I go into a speech about how we should have passionate physical experience, and how she'd regret it, but she doesn't have to carry it emotionally??
I mean I just read Chase's "How to Get a Girl Into Bed" and he says NOT to do the speech-logic thing because it will just come off as manipulation.
But I've been hesitant to try the "burst of passion" just leaning in to kiss and embrace her, because I'm scared she'll push by, shut me down, and be like - "what are you doing, I told you already I don't get romantic on trips," and it might ruin this "Cool, Connected Los Angeles Guy in Entertainment thing, I've kinda established with her, taking her on a personal tour of one of the Studios I use to work at...
explain providing a safety net, and what action, or "milestones" I should do on this last day?
- Adam C