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I've written extensively about my love for day game.
I got into day game to step away from night game, where I was above average at best, because of booze.
After 2.5 years of staying away from bars and clubs, I decided to make a comeback.
First night went horrible lol. Made 2 weak approaches and spent an hour leaning against the bar with my glass of sparkling water, talking to no one. Felt like the biggest loser ever.
Second night I had some fun socializing with people and made a couple approaches on social momentum. One girl hooked but my process was as non-existent as a total beginner. Lost her very fast.
On the third night, I did some visualization before going out and re-read my own lay reports just to remind myself that I'm not that bad
I reach this chill bar where I know the bouncer, having tipped him the first two nights. I spend some chatting with him and joking aroud to get some social momentum in.
My outfit: red shirt, black jeans, chelsea boots. I wear the shirt with rolled up sleeves and two buttons opened. My body is looking really lean and muscular from eating clean and working out. Feeling good.
It's a bar where youngsters come play billiards and darts but it's got this classy vibe where everyone dresses well.
As I enter, I take a quick glance around. 3 girls at the bar in skimpy dresses. The one on my far right looks good.
Two guys are playing pool on one table. The other table is free, so I take it and start shooting.
15 minutes later a whale appears ouf of nowhere next to me and compliments my shirt. I exchange a few polite words with her and keep playing.
Deciding to take a break, I head to the bar to get a drink (non-alcoholic of course)
The three girls I spotted earlier are sitting right in front of the bar.
I walk to them and make eye contact with the middle and far right chick.
As I look at them alternatively, I make a funny facial expression as I stare at the space between them, bring my hands together and mimic a gesture where I'm widening the gap between them.
They laugh and both tilt their bodies on each side, widening the gap between them so that I can reach the bar.
Me: Thaaaaaaaank you ladies.
Middle chick, laughing: Be fast!
Me: Of course of course. Well (stroke my chin deliberately), what am I gonna get?? (said thoughtfully, making it clear I'm taking my time just to mess with them)
They both laugh, with the middle chick rolling her eyes.
Me, to the bartender: I'll have this (point at non-alcoholic beverage on drink menu)
Me, to both chicks: Soooo, how's your night going? Asides from guarding the bar, of course.
Middle girl: yeah it's alright.
Me: just alright?
Middle girl: yeah. and you?
Me: A bit better than alright I hope
They laught a bit but seem bored. Not of me (I hope lol) but probably since they arrived in the venue.
Me (grabbing my drink from the bartender) I'm James btw (switch my drink to my left hand and extend the right one to each one of them) They give me their names and I repeat each name + wonderful to meet you before moving to the next. I start from left to right and when I reach the right chick, the one I like most, I let my handshake and eye contact linger a few more seconds.
Me: You girls play pool? (I gesture nochalantly at the pool table I was playing)
Middle girl: If you mean play as in play "well", no, but we can try to score.
Me: Well as long as you can handle a stick and a few balls, should be fine (wink)
They giggle.
Me: You girls should join me. Let's make that night better than "alright"
I said the word "alright" in the same voice as the middle said it, which gets them laughing.
They follow me to the table.
Me: Alright, so how should we do this? 2 v 2 or...?
Middle girl: nooooo you play against us 3.
Me: Aight aight, best of luck.
I high five each one of them and wink at my girl. Let's call her Becca. She's
During the next 15-20 minutes, I wreck them in pool while teasing the heck out of them.
I give them each a generous amount of my attention and add 10% more for Becca. It soon becomes apparent I favour her but it's not said. Kind of how you could tell the teacher favoured a particular kid at school by the extra attention.
When I offer to help Becca with a shot, the other two make comments like "of couuuuurse you had to help herrr!"
I pretend I don't catch on the innuendo and continue being flirting with all of them, with some extra attention to Becca.
The dynamic was like that of a high school group of friends teasing two of their friends who obviously like each other.
After the game, I suggest we get drinks again.
Becca walks ahead with the other girl. I motion to the middle girl to stay behind.
Me: Do you guys mind if I steal Becca for a few minutes? I wanna get to know her a bit.
Middle girl (smiling the "I knew it!" smile) Of couuurse.
We walk to the bar and middle girl tells the other girl: "Come, let's play me vs you."
Becca and the other girl look confused.
Middle girl: Becca and James are gonna be chilling here. Come."
She grabs the other girl's hand and walks to the table.
I turn to Becca who's looking at me shyly.
Me (warm smile) Shall we? (I point at a couch)
We sit next to each other. Without wasting time, I start deep diving her.
While she talks, I maintain strong eye contact and include many little touches.
Something I've been working on the past few weeks is counting 2 seconds before speaking. I find it builds some nice tension. I do that too and soon we're in a bubble of sexual tension.
I knew I could propose to leave but I wanted to raise her floor a little bit more.
After maybe 15 minutes, I tell her:
"Let's head back to mine, I'll serve you my best green tea"
(The green tea thing was seeded during the pool game where I mentioned that tea is my hobby)
Her "What about Middle girl and Other girl?"
Me: "We'll meet them after"
Her "Ok sure"
I quickly order the Uber. I don't think she even noticed. We get up and I walk to the pool table and tell middle girl:
"We'll be right back"
She gives me a nod that indicates she gets what I mean. I nod back.
A brother in arms indeed. Or sister in arms.
I guide Becca out of the bar. The bouncer asks me if I'm leaving already. I assure him that I'll be right back.
The Uber is already here.
On the ride, we make small talk. I try to keep it light.
I can feel she's nervous but going for it.
We reach my place. I prepare some green tea. I notice she's standing around awkwardly so I task her with finding me some useless stuff.
We sit on the couch and drink the tea.
She's not really making eye contact, which I interprete as nervousness.
As she puts her cup of tea down, I grab her chin and manhandlekiss her.
Her: Wow so fast.
Me: Hmm you taste good.
Her: You know I did not expect that, right?
Me: I know. Beautiful how things evolve right? You never know where you'll end up (call back to something I mentioned during the deep dive about how the most unexpected things can happen)
Her: Yes true
We kiss again, falling together on the couch.
Her: (puts her hand on her mouth, as if ashamed)
Me: (interrogative look)
Her: I did not shave.
Me: It's alright.
Her: No!!!
Me: It's alright, don't worry.
Her: Can I shower?
Me: Of course.
I lift her in my arms and make out with her as I bring her in the shower.
Me: Let's get in.
Her: Can you give me 10 minutes first? I'll call you.
Me: Sure
She takes 20 minutes at least lol but then she calls me.
I walk in and we start making out right away.
She blows me well.
I've never gotten the hype of shower fucks. I get her out of there and head straight for the bed.
After round 1, she texts her friedns that she won't make it and we go for round 2.
I got into day game to step away from night game, where I was above average at best, because of booze.
After 2.5 years of staying away from bars and clubs, I decided to make a comeback.
First night went horrible lol. Made 2 weak approaches and spent an hour leaning against the bar with my glass of sparkling water, talking to no one. Felt like the biggest loser ever.
Second night I had some fun socializing with people and made a couple approaches on social momentum. One girl hooked but my process was as non-existent as a total beginner. Lost her very fast.
On the third night, I did some visualization before going out and re-read my own lay reports just to remind myself that I'm not that bad
I reach this chill bar where I know the bouncer, having tipped him the first two nights. I spend some chatting with him and joking aroud to get some social momentum in.
My outfit: red shirt, black jeans, chelsea boots. I wear the shirt with rolled up sleeves and two buttons opened. My body is looking really lean and muscular from eating clean and working out. Feeling good.
It's a bar where youngsters come play billiards and darts but it's got this classy vibe where everyone dresses well.
As I enter, I take a quick glance around. 3 girls at the bar in skimpy dresses. The one on my far right looks good.
Two guys are playing pool on one table. The other table is free, so I take it and start shooting.
15 minutes later a whale appears ouf of nowhere next to me and compliments my shirt. I exchange a few polite words with her and keep playing.
Deciding to take a break, I head to the bar to get a drink (non-alcoholic of course)
The three girls I spotted earlier are sitting right in front of the bar.
I walk to them and make eye contact with the middle and far right chick.
As I look at them alternatively, I make a funny facial expression as I stare at the space between them, bring my hands together and mimic a gesture where I'm widening the gap between them.
They laugh and both tilt their bodies on each side, widening the gap between them so that I can reach the bar.
Me: Thaaaaaaaank you ladies.
Middle chick, laughing: Be fast!
Me: Of course of course. Well (stroke my chin deliberately), what am I gonna get?? (said thoughtfully, making it clear I'm taking my time just to mess with them)
They both laugh, with the middle chick rolling her eyes.
Me, to the bartender: I'll have this (point at non-alcoholic beverage on drink menu)
Me, to both chicks: Soooo, how's your night going? Asides from guarding the bar, of course.
Middle girl: yeah it's alright.
Me: just alright?
Middle girl: yeah. and you?
Me: A bit better than alright I hope
They laught a bit but seem bored. Not of me (I hope lol) but probably since they arrived in the venue.
Me (grabbing my drink from the bartender) I'm James btw (switch my drink to my left hand and extend the right one to each one of them) They give me their names and I repeat each name + wonderful to meet you before moving to the next. I start from left to right and when I reach the right chick, the one I like most, I let my handshake and eye contact linger a few more seconds.
Me: You girls play pool? (I gesture nochalantly at the pool table I was playing)
Middle girl: If you mean play as in play "well", no, but we can try to score.
Me: Well as long as you can handle a stick and a few balls, should be fine (wink)
They giggle.
Me: You girls should join me. Let's make that night better than "alright"
I said the word "alright" in the same voice as the middle said it, which gets them laughing.
They follow me to the table.
Me: Alright, so how should we do this? 2 v 2 or...?
Middle girl: nooooo you play against us 3.
Me: Aight aight, best of luck.
I high five each one of them and wink at my girl. Let's call her Becca. She's
During the next 15-20 minutes, I wreck them in pool while teasing the heck out of them.
I give them each a generous amount of my attention and add 10% more for Becca. It soon becomes apparent I favour her but it's not said. Kind of how you could tell the teacher favoured a particular kid at school by the extra attention.
When I offer to help Becca with a shot, the other two make comments like "of couuuuurse you had to help herrr!"
I pretend I don't catch on the innuendo and continue being flirting with all of them, with some extra attention to Becca.
The dynamic was like that of a high school group of friends teasing two of their friends who obviously like each other.
After the game, I suggest we get drinks again.
Becca walks ahead with the other girl. I motion to the middle girl to stay behind.
Me: Do you guys mind if I steal Becca for a few minutes? I wanna get to know her a bit.
Middle girl (smiling the "I knew it!" smile) Of couuurse.
We walk to the bar and middle girl tells the other girl: "Come, let's play me vs you."
Becca and the other girl look confused.
Middle girl: Becca and James are gonna be chilling here. Come."
She grabs the other girl's hand and walks to the table.
I turn to Becca who's looking at me shyly.
Me (warm smile) Shall we? (I point at a couch)
We sit next to each other. Without wasting time, I start deep diving her.
While she talks, I maintain strong eye contact and include many little touches.
Something I've been working on the past few weeks is counting 2 seconds before speaking. I find it builds some nice tension. I do that too and soon we're in a bubble of sexual tension.
I knew I could propose to leave but I wanted to raise her floor a little bit more.
After maybe 15 minutes, I tell her:
"Let's head back to mine, I'll serve you my best green tea"
(The green tea thing was seeded during the pool game where I mentioned that tea is my hobby)
Her "What about Middle girl and Other girl?"
Me: "We'll meet them after"
Her "Ok sure"
I quickly order the Uber. I don't think she even noticed. We get up and I walk to the pool table and tell middle girl:
"We'll be right back"
She gives me a nod that indicates she gets what I mean. I nod back.
A brother in arms indeed. Or sister in arms.
I guide Becca out of the bar. The bouncer asks me if I'm leaving already. I assure him that I'll be right back.
The Uber is already here.
On the ride, we make small talk. I try to keep it light.
I can feel she's nervous but going for it.
We reach my place. I prepare some green tea. I notice she's standing around awkwardly so I task her with finding me some useless stuff.
We sit on the couch and drink the tea.
She's not really making eye contact, which I interprete as nervousness.
As she puts her cup of tea down, I grab her chin and manhandlekiss her.
Her: Wow so fast.
Me: Hmm you taste good.
Her: You know I did not expect that, right?
Me: I know. Beautiful how things evolve right? You never know where you'll end up (call back to something I mentioned during the deep dive about how the most unexpected things can happen)
Her: Yes true
We kiss again, falling together on the couch.
Her: (puts her hand on her mouth, as if ashamed)
Me: (interrogative look)
Her: I did not shave.
Me: It's alright.
Her: No!!!
Me: It's alright, don't worry.
Her: Can I shower?
Me: Of course.
I lift her in my arms and make out with her as I bring her in the shower.
Me: Let's get in.
Her: Can you give me 10 minutes first? I'll call you.
Me: Sure
She takes 20 minutes at least lol but then she calls me.
I walk in and we start making out right away.
She blows me well.
I've never gotten the hype of shower fucks. I get her out of there and head straight for the bed.
After round 1, she texts her friedns that she won't make it and we go for round 2.