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James D

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I've written extensively about my love for day game.

I got into day game to step away from night game, where I was above average at best, because of booze.

After 2.5 years of staying away from bars and clubs, I decided to make a comeback.

First night went horrible lol. Made 2 weak approaches and spent an hour leaning against the bar with my glass of sparkling water, talking to no one. Felt like the biggest loser ever.

Second night I had some fun socializing with people and made a couple approaches on social momentum. One girl hooked but my process was as non-existent as a total beginner. Lost her very fast.

On the third night, I did some visualization before going out and re-read my own lay reports just to remind myself that I'm not that bad :ROFLMAO:

I reach this chill bar where I know the bouncer, having tipped him the first two nights. I spend some chatting with him and joking aroud to get some social momentum in.

My outfit: red shirt, black jeans, chelsea boots. I wear the shirt with rolled up sleeves and two buttons opened. My body is looking really lean and muscular from eating clean and working out. Feeling good.

It's a bar where youngsters come play billiards and darts but it's got this classy vibe where everyone dresses well.

As I enter, I take a quick glance around. 3 girls at the bar in skimpy dresses. The one on my far right looks good.

Two guys are playing pool on one table. The other table is free, so I take it and start shooting.

15 minutes later a whale appears ouf of nowhere next to me and compliments my shirt. I exchange a few polite words with her and keep playing.

Deciding to take a break, I head to the bar to get a drink (non-alcoholic of course)

The three girls I spotted earlier are sitting right in front of the bar.

I walk to them and make eye contact with the middle and far right chick.

As I look at them alternatively, I make a funny facial expression as I stare at the space between them, bring my hands together and mimic a gesture where I'm widening the gap between them.

They laugh and both tilt their bodies on each side, widening the gap between them so that I can reach the bar.

Me: Thaaaaaaaank you ladies.

Middle chick, laughing: Be fast!

Me: Of course of course. Well (stroke my chin deliberately), what am I gonna get?? (said thoughtfully, making it clear I'm taking my time just to mess with them)

They both laugh, with the middle chick rolling her eyes.

Me, to the bartender: I'll have this (point at non-alcoholic beverage on drink menu)

Me, to both chicks: Soooo, how's your night going? Asides from guarding the bar, of course.

Middle girl: yeah it's alright.

Me: just alright?

Middle girl: yeah. and you?

Me: A bit better than alright I hope ;)

They laught a bit but seem bored. Not of me (I hope lol) but probably since they arrived in the venue.

Me (grabbing my drink from the bartender) I'm James btw (switch my drink to my left hand and extend the right one to each one of them) They give me their names and I repeat each name + wonderful to meet you before moving to the next. I start from left to right and when I reach the right chick, the one I like most, I let my handshake and eye contact linger a few more seconds.

Me: You girls play pool? (I gesture nochalantly at the pool table I was playing)

Middle girl: If you mean play as in play "well", no, but we can try to score.

Me: Well as long as you can handle a stick and a few balls, should be fine (wink)

They giggle.

Me: You girls should join me. Let's make that night better than "alright"

I said the word "alright" in the same voice as the middle said it, which gets them laughing.

They follow me to the table.

Me: Alright, so how should we do this? 2 v 2 or...?

Middle girl: nooooo you play against us 3.

Me: Aight aight, best of luck.

I high five each one of them and wink at my girl. Let's call her Becca. She's

During the next 15-20 minutes, I wreck them in pool while teasing the heck out of them.

I give them each a generous amount of my attention and add 10% more for Becca. It soon becomes apparent I favour her but it's not said. Kind of how you could tell the teacher favoured a particular kid at school by the extra attention.

When I offer to help Becca with a shot, the other two make comments like "of couuuuurse you had to help herrr!"

I pretend I don't catch on the innuendo and continue being flirting with all of them, with some extra attention to Becca.

The dynamic was like that of a high school group of friends teasing two of their friends who obviously like each other.

After the game, I suggest we get drinks again.

Becca walks ahead with the other girl. I motion to the middle girl to stay behind.

Me: Do you guys mind if I steal Becca for a few minutes? I wanna get to know her a bit.

Middle girl (smiling the "I knew it!" smile) Of couuurse.

We walk to the bar and middle girl tells the other girl: "Come, let's play me vs you."

Becca and the other girl look confused.

Middle girl: Becca and James are gonna be chilling here. Come."

She grabs the other girl's hand and walks to the table.

I turn to Becca who's looking at me shyly.

Me (warm smile) Shall we? (I point at a couch)

We sit next to each other. Without wasting time, I start deep diving her.

While she talks, I maintain strong eye contact and include many little touches.

Something I've been working on the past few weeks is counting 2 seconds before speaking. I find it builds some nice tension. I do that too and soon we're in a bubble of sexual tension.

I knew I could propose to leave but I wanted to raise her floor a little bit more.

After maybe 15 minutes, I tell her:

"Let's head back to mine, I'll serve you my best green tea"

(The green tea thing was seeded during the pool game where I mentioned that tea is my hobby)

Her "What about Middle girl and Other girl?"

Me: "We'll meet them after"

Her "Ok sure"

I quickly order the Uber. I don't think she even noticed. We get up and I walk to the pool table and tell middle girl:

"We'll be right back"

She gives me a nod that indicates she gets what I mean. I nod back.

A brother in arms indeed. Or sister in arms.

I guide Becca out of the bar. The bouncer asks me if I'm leaving already. I assure him that I'll be right back.

The Uber is already here.

On the ride, we make small talk. I try to keep it light.

I can feel she's nervous but going for it.

We reach my place. I prepare some green tea. I notice she's standing around awkwardly so I task her with finding me some useless stuff.

We sit on the couch and drink the tea.

She's not really making eye contact, which I interprete as nervousness.

As she puts her cup of tea down, I grab her chin and manhandlekiss her.

Her: Wow so fast.

Me: Hmm you taste good.

Her: You know I did not expect that, right?

Me: I know. Beautiful how things evolve right? You never know where you'll end up (call back to something I mentioned during the deep dive about how the most unexpected things can happen)

Her: Yes true

We kiss again, falling together on the couch.

Her: (puts her hand on her mouth, as if ashamed)

Me: (interrogative look)

Her: I did not shave.

Me: It's alright.

Her: No!!!

Me: It's alright, don't worry.

Her: Can I shower?

Me: Of course.

I lift her in my arms and make out with her as I bring her in the shower.

Me: Let's get in.

Her: Can you give me 10 minutes first? I'll call you.

Me: Sure

She takes 20 minutes at least lol but then she calls me.

I walk in and we start making out right away.

She blows me well.

I've never gotten the hype of shower fucks. I get her out of there and head straight for the bed.

After round 1, she texts her friedns that she won't make it and we go for round 2.
 

Stark

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Hard to fathom James will ever have a problem approaching anywhere - let alone a nightclub.

Love that you used your usual MO, despite this being a Nightgame venue.

Long drawn out opener, letting her get immersed, getting them to laugh and less physical game from the onset.

3 set is tricky indeed. You managed to work up trust beautifully before isolation.

Once you got her seated for the deep dive, I knew it was all over. She had no choice despite not shaving the bush 😉

I bet she didn’t have matching underwear either ?
 

Skills

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the first two nights you were rusty and probably had a bit of aa, but again this is the new reality of night game, you have to work groups and again as sound like a broken records you will be dealing with yellows, most seducers..... The days of the dtf freebies are gone....

So many good things:

- first you take your time to do well written lay reports were you describe your style, your thinking, your mistakes previous nights, as much as you remember or what you were doing and the girls and group reactions..... Things that people can read and picture themselves in the situation vs Useless brag reports, met her, texted fuck, or she came to me fuck useless shit! a bit disappointed you did not go on the sex and how she was...and the follow up (just my nitpick)

- i have student that is the same way he is having more success not in clubs but in places with pool tables/ darts things like that vs actual club club...

- the whale help you with a bit of boost of confidence on what you were wearing... though lol pua uniform a bit dated, but red is now trending with light blue jeans.... what matters is that it worked... (i just bought a cropped red shirt this week) again my nitpick

- you sniper your targets, sets analyze the strategy to use, you use approach invites, bought time with the opener, use of humor.... and the spending a bit of time with the actual target was great.... you sub communicated social intelligence, the group felt safe with you...

-we just had a guy that was asking about pulling 15 minutes from the club, i am so happy for this report.... @James D just curious how far was your place from the pub??

-^ i mention the how is your night going? one of my openers true and tested....

- the girl being nervous when she gets home is totally normal... I am surprise she did not excuse to use bathroom (actually she did to take a shower normal), i always offer the bathroom, and don't know if you had some music going.... Also just curious what did you talk during ubber?? or did you stay quiet or the ubber dude was talking(just info on what happen during the ride)

Awesome lay report AND HOW LAY REPORTS SHOLD BE WRITTEN, if you i met fuck lay reports save the typing, total useless crap.. This is how now game is going now a days, the freebie days as of now are gone... As you can confirm...
 

barneystin

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Good stuff, man! Always looking forward to reading your reports

It's a bar where youngsters come play billiards and darts but it's got this classy vibe where everyone dresses well.
Just curious, was this night a week night or weekend night (fri, sat)? I have a couple venues like this that i frequent - theyre great during the week (when they’re not empty at least) but not as good on prime nights because everyone goes out and the venue is packed/chaotic which makes it harder for conversations
 

Spike

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Good stuff @James D

This report took me back to my earlier days when I would go out around midnight and have to do all that stuff instead of showing up at the last hour and either pulling or number closing girls right away.

Nothing bad to say. Great job winning the middle girl over so that she would help you secure the lay with your girl.

And of course I know you’re not going to share a picture of the girl in this report so I won’t ask. But the clothing style just made me skeptical.
- the whale help you with a bit of boost of confidence on what you were wearing... though lol pua uniform a bit dated
Yeah the 2016-2019 pua style lol. I personally would count it as zero feedback if a whale complimented my style. I may even be motivated to change it if this is the type of girl that is attracted to it lol. Only feedback that matters is from the girls I’m targeting. Ignore the rest.
This is how now game is going now a days, the freebie days as of now are gone... As you can confirm
They aren’t gone lol (my reports are proof of that) He just showed up early. Which there’s nothing wrong with that.
 

KJ Francis

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billiards and darts but it's got this classy vibe where everyone dresses well.

As I enter, I take a quick glance around. 3 girls at the bar in skimpy dresses
Sounds like a good venue. Interesting mix of billiards (typically dive or sports bars) and girls wearing dresses. I imagine the music volume is good for verbals and people are still moving around.


Soooo, how's your night going?
The super lethal forbidden knowledge panty dropping pickup line they don't want you to know lol love it


During the next 15-20 minutes, I wreck them in pool while teasing the heck out of them
Did you get to know them at all here or was the convo all teasing about the game?


Something I've been working on the past few weeks is counting 2 seconds before speaking. I find it builds some nice tension. I do that too and soon we're in a bubble of sexual tension.

I knew I could propose to leave but I wanted to raise her floor a little bit more.

After maybe 15 minutes, I tell her:

"Let's head back to mine, I'll serve you my best green tea"
Was it 15 minutes total of isolation? Or from the point where you knew you had it but wanted to raise the floor?

Did you set any verbal sexual frames or tease her ("come up for air" from the deep dive)? Or was it purely touch and the pausing to build the tension? Deep diving's so powerful to build comfort/connection and getting her to trust you enough to follow your lead. Lethal combo to exude sexiness while showing interest in her as a person.


I've never gotten the hype of shower fucks
Yeah the mechanics are bad. I just like it for a short time due to the heat and "immersion" aspect

Yeah the 2016-2019 pua style lol
Curious what is the male gen z dressed up style? When the girls are in cocktail dresses, a crew neck is underdressed, no? And faded denim too casual. Even dark indigo could be too "work wear" in some settings?
 

Will_V

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I've written extensively about my love for day game.

I got into day game to step away from night game, where I was above average at best, because of booze.

After 2.5 years of staying away from bars and clubs, I decided to make a comeback.

First night went horrible lol. Made 2 weak approaches and spent an hour leaning against the bar with my glass of sparkling water, talking to no one. Felt like the biggest loser ever.

Second night I had some fun socializing with people and made a couple approaches on social momentum. One girl hooked but my process was as non-existent as a total beginner. Lost her very fast.

On the third night, I did some visualization before going out and re-read my own lay reports just to remind myself that I'm not that bad :ROFLMAO:

I reach this chill bar where I know the bouncer, having tipped him the first two nights. I spend some chatting with him and joking aroud to get some social momentum in.

My outfit: red shirt, black jeans, chelsea boots. I wear the shirt with rolled up sleeves and two buttons opened. My body is looking really lean and muscular from eating clean and working out. Feeling good.

It's a bar where youngsters come play billiards and darts but it's got this classy vibe where everyone dresses well.

As I enter, I take a quick glance around. 3 girls at the bar in skimpy dresses. The one on my far right looks good.

Two guys are playing pool on one table. The other table is free, so I take it and start shooting.

15 minutes later a whale appears ouf of nowhere next to me and compliments my shirt. I exchange a few polite words with her and keep playing.

Deciding to take a break, I head to the bar to get a drink (non-alcoholic of course)

The three girls I spotted earlier are sitting right in front of the bar.

I walk to them and make eye contact with the middle and far right chick.

As I look at them alternatively, I make a funny facial expression as I stare at the space between them, bring my hands together and mimic a gesture where I'm widening the gap between them.

They laugh and both tilt their bodies on each side, widening the gap between them so that I can reach the bar.

Me: Thaaaaaaaank you ladies.

Middle chick, laughing: Be fast!

Me: Of course of course. Well (stroke my chin deliberately), what am I gonna get?? (said thoughtfully, making it clear I'm taking my time just to mess with them)

They both laugh, with the middle chick rolling her eyes.

Me, to the bartender: I'll have this (point at non-alcoholic beverage on drink menu)

Me, to both chicks: Soooo, how's your night going? Asides from guarding the bar, of course.

Middle girl: yeah it's alright.

Me: just alright?

Middle girl: yeah. and you?

Me: A bit better than alright I hope ;)

They laught a bit but seem bored. Not of me (I hope lol) but probably since they arrived in the venue.

Me (grabbing my drink from the bartender) I'm James btw (switch my drink to my left hand and extend the right one to each one of them) They give me their names and I repeat each name + wonderful to meet you before moving to the next. I start from left to right and when I reach the right chick, the one I like most, I let my handshake and eye contact linger a few more seconds.

Me: You girls play pool? (I gesture nochalantly at the pool table I was playing)

Middle girl: If you mean play as in play "well", no, but we can try to score.

Me: Well as long as you can handle a stick and a few balls, should be fine (wink)

They giggle.

Me: You girls should join me. Let's make that night better than "alright"

I said the word "alright" in the same voice as the middle said it, which gets them laughing.

They follow me to the table.

Me: Alright, so how should we do this? 2 v 2 or...?

Middle girl: nooooo you play against us 3.

Me: Aight aight, best of luck.

I high five each one of them and wink at my girl. Let's call her Becca. She's

During the next 15-20 minutes, I wreck them in pool while teasing the heck out of them.

I give them each a generous amount of my attention and add 10% more for Becca. It soon becomes apparent I favour her but it's not said. Kind of how you could tell the teacher favoured a particular kid at school by the extra attention.

When I offer to help Becca with a shot, the other two make comments like "of couuuuurse you had to help herrr!"

I pretend I don't catch on the innuendo and continue being flirting with all of them, with some extra attention to Becca.

The dynamic was like that of a high school group of friends teasing two of their friends who obviously like each other.

After the game, I suggest we get drinks again.

Becca walks ahead with the other girl. I motion to the middle girl to stay behind.

Me: Do you guys mind if I steal Becca for a few minutes? I wanna get to know her a bit.

Middle girl (smiling the "I knew it!" smile) Of couuurse.

We walk to the bar and middle girl tells the other girl: "Come, let's play me vs you."

Becca and the other girl look confused.

Middle girl: Becca and James are gonna be chilling here. Come."

She grabs the other girl's hand and walks to the table.

I turn to Becca who's looking at me shyly.

Me (warm smile) Shall we? (I point at a couch)

We sit next to each other. Without wasting time, I start deep diving her.

While she talks, I maintain strong eye contact and include many little touches.

Something I've been working on the past few weeks is counting 2 seconds before speaking. I find it builds some nice tension. I do that too and soon we're in a bubble of sexual tension.

I knew I could propose to leave but I wanted to raise her floor a little bit more.

After maybe 15 minutes, I tell her:

"Let's head back to mine, I'll serve you my best green tea"

(The green tea thing was seeded during the pool game where I mentioned that tea is my hobby)

Her "What about Middle girl and Other girl?"

Me: "We'll meet them after"

Her "Ok sure"

I quickly order the Uber. I don't think she even noticed. We get up and I walk to the pool table and tell middle girl:

"We'll be right back"

She gives me a nod that indicates she gets what I mean. I nod back.

A brother in arms indeed. Or sister in arms.

I guide Becca out of the bar. The bouncer asks me if I'm leaving already. I assure him that I'll be right back.

The Uber is already here.

On the ride, we make small talk. I try to keep it light.

I can feel she's nervous but going for it.

We reach my place. I prepare some green tea. I notice she's standing around awkwardly so I task her with finding me some useless stuff.

We sit on the couch and drink the tea.

She's not really making eye contact, which I interprete as nervousness.

As she puts her cup of tea down, I grab her chin and manhandlekiss her.

Her: Wow so fast.

Me: Hmm you taste good.

Her: You know I did not expect that, right?

Me: I know. Beautiful how things evolve right? You never know where you'll end up (call back to something I mentioned during the deep dive about how the most unexpected things can happen)

Her: Yes true

We kiss again, falling together on the couch.

Her: (puts her hand on her mouth, as if ashamed)

Me: (interrogative look)

Her: I did not shave.

Me: It's alright.

Her: No!!!

Me: It's alright, don't worry.

Her: Can I shower?

Me: Of course.

I lift her in my arms and make out with her as I bring her in the shower.

Me: Let's get in.

Her: Can you give me 10 minutes first? I'll call you.

Me: Sure

She takes 20 minutes at least lol but then she calls me.

I walk in and we start making out right away.

She blows me well.

I've never gotten the hype of shower fucks. I get her out of there and head straight for the bed.

After round 1, she texts her friedns that she won't make it and we go for round 2.

Very smooth working the group, giving attention to all the girls and getting them all onside, so that making your move was easy street.

I also like to pause frequently, in the silences is where seduction does its work.

And yeah, shower fucking is meh. The water takes away her smell, and everything feels rubbery.

Well presented, easy to read and picture the scenario. Great stuff!
 

Spike

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Curious what is the male gen z dressed up style? When the girls are in cocktail dresses, a crew neck is underdressed, no? And faded denim too casual. Even dark indigo could be too "work wear" in some settings?
When I get time later I’ll post about some things I got which is tailored for gen z style. I’ll post it in one of skills fashion threads.
 

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Loved this one. Reading this felt like reading a classic old school nightgame LR - you approached a group in a bar, isolated one, hit her escalation window and extracted. In and out with laser-like precision.

Feels like this could be an example in a GirlsChase article ;)
 

James D

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. @James D just curious how far was your place from the pub??
Uber said drive would last 36 minutes.... but with some congestion and some detour the driver took, it was a 45 min drive.

Also just curious what did you talk during ubber?? or did you stay quiet or the ubber dude was talking(just info on what happen during the ride)
Very light talk + some touch, mostly on her thigh.

No deep dive, nothing deep.

Talked about random stuff like something funny on the street, or I made some lame joke about the driver wanting to audition for the next fast and furious movie because he suddenly accelerated... Just to keep the mood up because I had the feeling she was not too comfortable with long silences.

and don't know if you had some music going....
I didn't. That's a great idea.

Awesome lay report AND HOW LAY REPORTS SHOLD BE WRITTEN,
Thanks man, appreciate it.
 

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Good stuff, man! Always looking forward to reading your reports
Cheers man!

Just curious, was this night a week night or weekend night (fri, sat)? I
It was Sunday night actually.

theyre great during the week (when they’re not empty at least) but not as good on prime nights because everyone goes out and the venue is packed/chaotic which makes it harder for conversations
I noticed that too. My first night out was Friday night. The chaotic setting threw me off as I was rusty.
 

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The super lethal forbidden knowledge panty dropping pickup line they don't want you to know lol love it
:ROFLMAO:

Did you get to know them at all here or was the convo all teasing about the game?
Mostly teasing.

Was it 15 minutes total of isolation?
Yes.

Did you set any verbal sexual frames
I didn't this time. Not sure why maybe because of loud music and it didn't feel like it.

Or was it purely touch and the pausing to build the tension?
It was! I'm pretty happy with it because I haven't fully mastered that yet. I used to rely only on verbals.
 

James D

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Loved this one. Reading this felt like reading a classic old school nightgame LR - you approached a group in a bar, isolated one, hit her escalation window and extracted. In and out with laser-like precision.

Feels like this could be an example in a GirlsChase article ;)
Thank you man!! Looking to replicate that now xD
 

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@James D good for you

i'm new to this stuff so sorry if this is a silly question.... but you said you wanted to "raise her floor a little more" what does that mean?
 
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@James D good for you

i'm new to this stuff so sorry if this is a silly question.... but you said you wanted to "raise her floor a little more" what does that mean?

No silly questions man!

Raising her floor is an expression from this article:


It's in my opinion the greatest article on game ever written.
 
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