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So it had been three years since I last talked to this girl but we met a while back in a hospital and quickly grew close (I was in bad place at the time and she was a cute girl practically just throwing herself at me, even outright telling me she liked me and taking every chance to get close to me). We would've fucked like rabbits but it was because we were in a hospital and being closly monitiored that we couldn't. So I got her number and we started texting when I got out although after my first text I never really had a chance to start a text conversation because she'd beat me to it every day! 
Although we mostly video chatted and talked over phone calls. Thing is, she had an abusive boyfriend at the time who caught us talking and challenged me to a fight for her. Looking back, he was a short fucker I could've kicked through a field goal (no offense to any shorter dudes, this guy was way down there) but like I said, I wasn't really in a good place at the time so I let her go and said goodbye (total regret there, that's no way to leave someone).
Fast forward to five days ago, I was cleaning out my desk and found her number. Knowing now's a good time to get back in touch, I gave her a call (since I remember her prefering phone calls). It went to voicemail and I left a message. A few minutes later, I get a text from a new number then her number. Both saying that she got a new number. She also gave me her snapchat. I added her on there and then we got to talking. (Due to the nature of snapchat, I don't have any texts I can share ) I remember she was really warm still (more like burning hot- I wouldn't have been surprised to recieve a nude), as if we had never been separated in the first place.
We talked on the phone for a bit afterwards and I found out she's moved to Florida and has been missing me ever since we got split up (I'm in PA, where we first met) which also happens to be a place I'm looking to move to (have been for a few months now, I told her this). I remember we stopped talking when my phone was about to die and we where both pretty happy to hear from each other.
The next day she sent me a snap of herself (not much has changed, she still starts most text conversations) and we talked for a while on snapchat before we moved to a video chat (the quality sucked so I told her to get skype or something to which she agreed, although we haven't used it yet so I'm not sure if she really did) It wasn't too hard for me to notice she was significantly high but we talked for an hour or two anyway. This time the conversation felt a little stale since I wasn't sure what to talk about and she wasn't pitching any ideas We dragged it out a bit until I got tired and she got bored. I went to bed and she went to surf the web.
The next day was the first day we didn't talk, I didn't get anything from her so I figured she wanted some space and gave her it. I then quickly realized I cared too much about this girl when all I got from her in chat was a few one word replies the next day. So I reached out to a few girls online the next day (what do you know, the most of the replies are from floridians) and practiced my online game a bit before reaching out to a few other girls that were dormant in my contacts. Most were pretty estatic to hear from me, one lived close and I almost got her to go out with me on an instant date after like three texts but she decided against it for whatever reason, so I joked about it and sent a meme. She gave a laugh and I went back to texting some other girls.
When I was feeling a little more grounded, I wrote out a text for the hospital girl and sent it on snapchat. She opened it pretty quickly and yet again gave a one word reply. I asked if I could ask her something and she said sure. I then gave an animal crossing joke and meme since this is pretty much where all her time has been going lately she gave a longer response this time with laughter in all caps. Then conversation then dwindled quickly again and we agreed to pick things up again monday (aka a few hours from the time I'm writting this).
So my question here is: we started off really warm and talkative but now things are starting to slow down and I'm having trouble holding a conversation with this hospital chick and I'm not really sure what else to do right now in regards to her (I feel like I've got a grip on what to do with the others ), was hoping you guys would have some advice
Although we mostly video chatted and talked over phone calls. Thing is, she had an abusive boyfriend at the time who caught us talking and challenged me to a fight for her. Looking back, he was a short fucker I could've kicked through a field goal (no offense to any shorter dudes, this guy was way down there) but like I said, I wasn't really in a good place at the time so I let her go and said goodbye (total regret there, that's no way to leave someone).Fast forward to five days ago, I was cleaning out my desk and found her number. Knowing now's a good time to get back in touch, I gave her a call (since I remember her prefering phone calls). It went to voicemail and I left a message. A few minutes later, I get a text from a new number then her number. Both saying that she got a new number. She also gave me her snapchat. I added her on there and then we got to talking. (Due to the nature of snapchat, I don't have any texts I can share
) I remember she was really warm still (more like burning hot- I wouldn't have been surprised to recieve a nude), as if we had never been separated in the first place. We talked on the phone for a bit afterwards and I found out she's moved to Florida and has been missing me ever since we got split up (I'm in PA, where we first met) which also happens to be a place I'm looking to move to (have been for a few months now, I told her this). I remember we stopped talking when my phone was about to die and we where both pretty happy to hear from each other.
The next day she sent me a snap of herself (not much has changed, she still starts most text conversations) and we talked for a while on snapchat before we moved to a video chat (the quality sucked so I told her to get skype or something
to which she agreed, although we haven't used it yet so I'm not sure if she really did) It wasn't too hard for me to notice she was significantly high but we talked for an hour or two anyway. This time the conversation felt a little stale since I wasn't sure what to talk about and she wasn't pitching any ideas We dragged it out a bit until I got tired and she got bored. I went to bed and she went to surf the web. The next day was the first day we didn't talk, I didn't get anything from her so I figured she wanted some space and gave her it. I then quickly realized I cared too much about this girl when all I got from her in chat was a few one word replies the next day. So I reached out to a few girls online the next day (what do you know, the most of the replies are from floridians
) and practiced my online game a bit before reaching out to a few other girls that were dormant in my contacts. Most were pretty estatic to hear from me, one lived close and I almost got her to go out with me on an instant date after like three texts but she decided against it for whatever reason, so I joked about it and sent a meme. She gave a laugh and I went back to texting some other girls. When I was feeling a little more grounded, I wrote out a text for the hospital girl and sent it on snapchat. She opened it pretty quickly and yet again gave a one word reply. I asked if I could ask her something and she said sure. I then gave an animal crossing joke and meme since this is pretty much where all her time has been going lately
she gave a longer response this time with laughter in all caps. Then conversation then dwindled quickly again and we agreed to pick things up again monday (aka a few hours from the time I'm writting this).So my question here is: we started off really warm and talkative but now things are starting to slow down and I'm having trouble holding a conversation with this hospital chick and I'm not really sure what else to do right now in regards to her (I feel like I've got a grip on what to do with the others
), was hoping you guys would have some advice 