Reverse BEX (Bullshit Excuse)

[Jan]

I'm currently reading "Seduction trends" by alphahot1 and he suggests to use what he calls a Reverse Bullshit Excuse.

A regular Bullshit Excuse could be something like:

HER: "I feel so comfortable with you, you FEEL JUST LIKE A BROTHER TO ME." [Womanse way to reject a nice guy]

alphahot1 suggests to use a similar technique on her:

ME: "I feel so good talking to you, like I can tell you anything... you feel just like A SISTER TO ME."

I believe the purpose of this technique would be to provoke her to become more directly sexual towards me.

I'm wondering however what could be the effect of this technique on attainability. I'm afraid it would send her into auto-rejection if my attainability was too low.

Has anyone got any experience with this technique?

 

[Warped Mindless]

It’s a technique that focuses on the wrong thing.

If she is calling you a brother is almost always means she isn’t interested in you sexually. That’s the root problem you need to address, not the words she’s using to tell you she’s not interested.

 

[orkie123]

Ive used sister/friend when she is overly worried that sex might be happening to the point of not wanting to come over.

It works well then because it lowers the tension.

Ideally you would avoid getting in that situation like Warped said, but I think it can work great to regain the upper hand.