Intro
Her: from Greece, exchange student for the summer, getting her masters, looks like the model Georgina Rodriguez but with sharp facial structure
Me: management, former Wall Street private equity investor and investment banker, athletic
I was taking a walk at a university campus on this cold and windy summer day. I went to school here. This is one of the best universities in the world and a household name, so the girls tend to come from stellar backgrounds. It can also be a bit cliquey, as in if you don't belong then you get written off quickly. Compared to the regular school year, the volume was lower than usual.
Approach
Pre-approach
As I passed by a school cafe, I saw a girl wearing a white top and denim booty shorts sitting at a circular table outside. I got into her direct line of sight with my side turned toward her, but I don't say anything. I turned, waved at her, and sat down at her table. However, instead of facing the center of the table with my body like a normal person would, I rested my back toward the table and angled my body into the opening. It reduces the pressure on her to have to talk to you and can relieve concerns that this guy is weird and will stick around if things don't go well.
Opener and initial approach
Have you ever noticed how nice it is to be outside after a long week?
Yeah I think so
With how fast paced and stressful life is like for so many people, sometimes we just gotta get outside of the house and release all of that pent up energy
She had a bit of an accent when she responded, so I asked where she's from. She told me to guess. After I guessed Turkey and Serbia, she said she's from Greece and is here for the summer She had a small smile on her face, but she didn't really contribute too much to the convo for the first few mins. I just kept plowing and swapping topics, from architecture to Santorini and Mykonos to the local weather to American culture. The final topic landed really well. She had a question about the gun culture, and I let her know that in some states like Mississippi you could walk inside a Walmart and buy 1,000 guns the same way you buy candy. She was intrigued. She had a roommate, and they had separate rooms. This will be critical for the first date. She had to study in the library, so I added myself as a contact in her phone and texted myself.
Running into her half an hour later
I got off campus to see if there were any other girls to approach, but there were more homeless people than cute girls on the streets. When I was walking to CVS, I saw her walking toward me. I stopped walking in the middle of the street and looked her in the eyes, but she had headphones on and walked around me initially. She was so zoned out that she didn't recognize me at first.
It turned out that her favorite library was closed. She said I could walk her to her dorm. When we arrived, she said she couldn't meet later today but could meet up on Tuesday nearby after her classes ended.
Texting
My goal here was to just follow the logistics that we laid out in person and avoid dinner time.
For Friday - Sunday day game approaches like this one, I open with a statement on the day of the approach. If and only if there's high interest, continue bantering. Otherwise, leave her on read and re-open the following day. This is specifically used to counteract loss of frame and overinvestment from evening and late night texting on the weekends.
First date
Initial location
We met outside of a boba place close to her dorm. She was bubbly and excited, telling me that she bought merch from the student store. Even though this was a Monday afternoon, the other patrons took all the good seats and tables. Since the sun was getting in our eyes, I pulled the roller shade down. The conversation was very basic: growing up in Greece, her major, first impressions of America, vacation spots, where I grew up, etc. Her parents owned a lot of real estate in Greece, and she had traveled all over Europe.
We moved to a more comfy table in the corner after the couple sitting there left. With more people coming in, there was more distraction in the background. The conversation was losing steam, and I wanted to get out of there and walk around campus. This was some distance away. To deal with the potential vibe hit from a venue change, I first reduced my interest in her by excusing myself and going to the bathroom to pee. When I came back, I told her that we should go and check out the campus. Instead of walking to the exit, to test her compliance level, I purposely walked in another direction. There was a trash can there for me to throw away the empty drink. She followed. Awesome!
Mid date
Given that this was a big college campus, I used a hit-and-run tactic. Basically, we would sit on a bench in the shade, talk a bit, then take off for the next location. This was extremely effective.
We talked about a lot of things, but the topic that resonated most strongly was the American college experience. I mentioned frat parties and the fun stuff that would go down: people fucking in closets, drug use, getting drunk 3x a week, even strippers, etc. She said the stereotype that American college students were crazy was true. She's not an easy girl, had two boyfriends total, and had never had sex outside of a relationship. In Greece, people normally date within their social circles. Dating apps and sneaky links are not popular there, she emphasized.
I said the speed to sex doesn't really matter, and it's about how well the people understand each other. I used the TikTok, connection, and chemistry gambits that I wrote. She agreed.
Following a few bounces, she said she just exited a 3-year relationship. She gets tons of DMs from random guys on IG. She wanted to show me where her class was, so we entered an old building. There was a naked statue. I pointed that out and said he had a big dick. Mine is only 1cm. She laughed.
At the pizza place, a whole laundry list of objections surfaced:
Somehow we ended up discussing nipple piercings and tattoos. She said she's very conservative and only has ear piercings. I said good because I want to suck on meaty nipples and not metal lmfao. She gave me a few compliments (first time). She asked if we could go for a late night drive. Unfortunately, my car was parked 45 mins away and I live in another city that is far out, but this was an escalation window. And they were closing this place down, so I said I needed to use the bathroom and requested for her to take me to her dorm.
Attempted dorm pull
When we arrived at her dorm entrance, I noticed a security sign, and we had to bypass security. She walked in, so I had to go through the door as well. Security eyed both of us immediately. She scanned her ID and kept going. The security guard said "hey!" and told me to stop. I kept walking, pointed at my girl, and only said three words: "I'm with her." "Oh you're good don't worry about it," replied the security guard. Follow the law of least effort and don't overexplain yourself.
She showed me the communal restroom. Apparently, her roommate was studying inside, so we couldn't go in. We entered a lounge on her floor. "Didn't you tell me that you have your own room last time? We can go inside your room and stay quiet, so your roommate can continue studying, ok?" I asked. Well, due to language barriers, what she actually meant previously was they only had one room and two beds in there without walls or privacy.
While we're relaxing on the sofa, she questioned how many girls I've been with. I maintained that this doesn't matter. She guessed 20. I held my ground and switched topics. She was playing with her hair. It was getting late, we both looked exhausted, and attraction was sufficiently high, so I went home.
Second date
Initial location
She didn't want to go too far, so we met up at a cafe by the school. Late by half an hour.
That place was packed inside. I asked what her roommate was doing today. Her Christian roommate would be out the whole day for church events. After getting our drinks, we looked for seats outside. Some of the customers there gave us dirty looks. We found a table elsewhere. Unfortunately, a number of homeless people were walking around and screaming gibberish. Bruh! That made her uncomfortable, so we left.
Mid date
One of the bounces led us to the courtyard of a dorm that was undergoing renovation. One of her exes was a Greek American guy who was studying abroad in Greece when they met. This guy was 2.00 meters tall (6'7"), played basketball, and DM'd her on IG. After they broke up, the dude posted a picture with another girl on IG but messaged this girl saying how bad he wanted her. This girl didn't respond, so the basketball guy sent this girl a video of him getting a blowjob from the new girl with the new girl's face being visible and texted "wish this was you". Worst game I've seen. Pure autism and beyond retarded.
I used both the narratives and secret house gambits. As expected because of the language barrier, they didn't land as well. Whatever. But I did glean that she had the princess fantasy.
Back to her dorm again
No security this time. She opened the door, and her roommate was there. God damn it!
We did some dorm exploring. The hotels here like Marriott and Hyatt cost $400 / night. To seed the motel pull, I said the view of the dorms from the outside reminded me of a motel. She didn't know what a motel was, so I explained it. She said her ex took her on a romantic getaway to a hotel for their anniversary.
We got tired of exploring and went inside a dark lounge on the main floor. There were people there playing the piano at first. I wanted to pump up the arousal ahead of the big motel pull. I picked her up off the floor, told her to sit on my lap, and just held her tightly. Then, I told her to think about how great it felt when she stayed in hotels in vacation and when her ex celebrated their anniversary together. This is a simple emotional anchoring technique. I mentioned there was a cool little motel nearby that we could check out. She questioned what we would be doing. "Oh we can watch TV," I replied.
She asked me how far it was and the name of the motel, so she could send it to her roommate. Even after pulling up that info, she was on the fence. She said she wanted to have a girl talk with her roommate first, so we go upstairs. I waited 10 mins in the hallway. I was worried that her religious roommate would intervene. She came out with no expression on her face. She put on a cardigan and swapped out her original Chanel purse for a big purse. I complimented her cardigan.
Walk to motel
She didn't talk and had a tense look on her face, arms crossed too. Here, I pulled off an autistic move. For some reason, I decided to match her aloofness and did an Elon walk. Basically, I walked like I was by myself, while keeping distance and not paying attention to her. She asked me what the phone number was to call the police if something went wrong...
I was somewhat tired and couldn't think properly. I finally snapped out of my autism and wrapped my arm around her, made small talk, and expressed more warmth. When she asked how she could get home later, I said we'd get her a Lyft. The motel check-in took 10 mins. She asked if I had a condom, and I gave her a thumbs up because I had to talk to the motel clerk. The bill was $150 for a king-sized bed...
Setting up the room
After she entered, to create a liminal space, I closed the curtains, turned off all of the lights except for one, and was going to disable or cover any analog clocks, but they were too cheap to have one. She took off her shoes and placed her belongings down.
I gave her space and let her get comfortable with the room by walking over and getting "distracted" by the TV (done on purpose). Well, it took me 10 mins to find the remote controller, learn how to use it, and find a good channel. There were some porno channels that costed $15 / movie. I read the short movie description to her while holding her close, and she was laughing.
We both sat down on the edge of the bed facing the TV, making light conversation while shoulder to shoulder. Whenever the convo died, we would just stare into each other's eyes. She said she's very shy, this was happening too fast, and she just stood up. I turned off the TV and played some Spanish music from Bad Bunny and Camila Cabello to calm her down and danced with her.
Escalation, 1 hour of LMR, and 2 hours of sex
Despite making out a bit, she didn't want to go all the way until I picked her up and threw her onto the bed. She's very germophobic and insisted we both take our clothes off if we wanted to lay on the bed. I went first. "Only cuddling," she stressed. I took off my boxers under the sheets and responded: "Of course, but you're not allowed to see my 1cm dick. I'm shy too." While cuddling and making out with her lingerie on, she completely blocked off her breast and vaginal regions. I pre-empted and say it's completely fine if you haven't shaved. I put her hand on my dick and let her stroke it. Well, after a while, she finally took her bra off, and I sucked on her tits while rubbing her pussy. Licked her all the way down there until I felt hair. At this point, she moved on top of me, rubbed her pussy with panties on my dick, and asked me for the condom before taking off her panties.
We alternated between missionary, adapted missionary, and mostly cowgirl because I was exhausted. This lasted 1.5 hours. She was extremely passionate, so that was great. At the end, she even gave me a hand job for 30 mins and tried using all of her assets. But nothing came out, and I ended up with blue balls lmfao. She wondered what she was doing wrong. I reassured her multiple times that it wasn't her and blamed it on me not having eaten anything in 12 hours. I rested and drank cups of tap water, but it did nothing.
Bonus: aftermath
It's now 3am. "I hope you enjoyed your time as my little princess," I mentioned as we were leaving. I showed her that the condom didn't have any rips before flushing it down the toilet. Since my car was going to get towed soon (just realized) from the train station as we entered the early morning hours, we checked out. As you may have remembered, I originally wanted to call her a Lyft but decided to walk her back to her dorm since I needed exercise to deal with the blue balls. The only people left on the streets were the homeless. Kissed her goodbye and took a Lyft home myself.
Post-sex texting:
My messages don't get delivered even an hour later, but I don't panic because I know how to tell if you're blocked. We're slated to see each other soon
Her: from Greece, exchange student for the summer, getting her masters, looks like the model Georgina Rodriguez but with sharp facial structure
Me: management, former Wall Street private equity investor and investment banker, athletic
I was taking a walk at a university campus on this cold and windy summer day. I went to school here. This is one of the best universities in the world and a household name, so the girls tend to come from stellar backgrounds. It can also be a bit cliquey, as in if you don't belong then you get written off quickly. Compared to the regular school year, the volume was lower than usual.
Approach
Pre-approach
As I passed by a school cafe, I saw a girl wearing a white top and denim booty shorts sitting at a circular table outside. I got into her direct line of sight with my side turned toward her, but I don't say anything. I turned, waved at her, and sat down at her table. However, instead of facing the center of the table with my body like a normal person would, I rested my back toward the table and angled my body into the opening. It reduces the pressure on her to have to talk to you and can relieve concerns that this guy is weird and will stick around if things don't go well.
Opener and initial approach
Have you ever noticed how nice it is to be outside after a long week?
Yeah I think so
With how fast paced and stressful life is like for so many people, sometimes we just gotta get outside of the house and release all of that pent up energy
She had a bit of an accent when she responded, so I asked where she's from. She told me to guess. After I guessed Turkey and Serbia, she said she's from Greece and is here for the summer She had a small smile on her face, but she didn't really contribute too much to the convo for the first few mins. I just kept plowing and swapping topics, from architecture to Santorini and Mykonos to the local weather to American culture. The final topic landed really well. She had a question about the gun culture, and I let her know that in some states like Mississippi you could walk inside a Walmart and buy 1,000 guns the same way you buy candy. She was intrigued. She had a roommate, and they had separate rooms. This will be critical for the first date. She had to study in the library, so I added myself as a contact in her phone and texted myself.
Running into her half an hour later
I got off campus to see if there were any other girls to approach, but there were more homeless people than cute girls on the streets. When I was walking to CVS, I saw her walking toward me. I stopped walking in the middle of the street and looked her in the eyes, but she had headphones on and walked around me initially. She was so zoned out that she didn't recognize me at first.
It turned out that her favorite library was closed. She said I could walk her to her dorm. When we arrived, she said she couldn't meet later today but could meet up on Tuesday nearby after her classes ended.
Texting
Saturday
[Texted her name to myself from her phone]
[Screenshot of my steps and walking distance from the Health app]
this is how i stay in shape
Sounds good! Haha
Sunday
morning
Good morning!
do u speak any language besides english and greek
Yeah a bit of German, Spanish, and French haha
Hbu?
russian, mandarin, and 1 word in greek u taught me
let's get coffee or boba on tuesday
Yea sure [like reaction]
Sounds good!
You want to go on Monday or Wednesday? Cuz I'll be watching baseball on Tuesday
baseball? u r now officially half an american
what time r u free those days
True
7-10pm I'll be available if that works for you
looks like u want it to be dinner time
I have morning classes those days, but I think on Monday I'll be free after class at noon
let's do monday at 3pm
i'll go to the gym today and see u tmr
Sure
[Apple Maps link to boba shop]
let's meet up at this boba place
lots of seating and they got good reviews too
Okay!! [love reaction]
My goal here was to just follow the logistics that we laid out in person and avoid dinner time.
For Friday - Sunday day game approaches like this one, I open with a statement on the day of the approach. If and only if there's high interest, continue bantering. Otherwise, leave her on read and re-open the following day. This is specifically used to counteract loss of frame and overinvestment from evening and late night texting on the weekends.
First date
Initial location
We met outside of a boba place close to her dorm. She was bubbly and excited, telling me that she bought merch from the student store. Even though this was a Monday afternoon, the other patrons took all the good seats and tables. Since the sun was getting in our eyes, I pulled the roller shade down. The conversation was very basic: growing up in Greece, her major, first impressions of America, vacation spots, where I grew up, etc. Her parents owned a lot of real estate in Greece, and she had traveled all over Europe.
We moved to a more comfy table in the corner after the couple sitting there left. With more people coming in, there was more distraction in the background. The conversation was losing steam, and I wanted to get out of there and walk around campus. This was some distance away. To deal with the potential vibe hit from a venue change, I first reduced my interest in her by excusing myself and going to the bathroom to pee. When I came back, I told her that we should go and check out the campus. Instead of walking to the exit, to test her compliance level, I purposely walked in another direction. There was a trash can there for me to throw away the empty drink. She followed. Awesome!
Mid date
Given that this was a big college campus, I used a hit-and-run tactic. Basically, we would sit on a bench in the shade, talk a bit, then take off for the next location. This was extremely effective.
We talked about a lot of things, but the topic that resonated most strongly was the American college experience. I mentioned frat parties and the fun stuff that would go down: people fucking in closets, drug use, getting drunk 3x a week, even strippers, etc. She said the stereotype that American college students were crazy was true. She's not an easy girl, had two boyfriends total, and had never had sex outside of a relationship. In Greece, people normally date within their social circles. Dating apps and sneaky links are not popular there, she emphasized.
I said the speed to sex doesn't really matter, and it's about how well the people understand each other. I used the TikTok, connection, and chemistry gambits that I wrote. She agreed.
Following a few bounces, she said she just exited a 3-year relationship. She gets tons of DMs from random guys on IG. She wanted to show me where her class was, so we entered an old building. There was a naked statue. I pointed that out and said he had a big dick. Mine is only 1cm. She laughed.
At the pizza place, a whole laundry list of objections surfaced:
- I don't want to tell her the name of my company
- Didn't save her contact
- Have no social media
- Probably have 3 phones and 1 for each girl
- No music apps
- Probably never went to school here
- When I showed her my skincare routine that was probably another girl's
- I might have diseases like STDs
Somehow we ended up discussing nipple piercings and tattoos. She said she's very conservative and only has ear piercings. I said good because I want to suck on meaty nipples and not metal lmfao. She gave me a few compliments (first time). She asked if we could go for a late night drive. Unfortunately, my car was parked 45 mins away and I live in another city that is far out, but this was an escalation window. And they were closing this place down, so I said I needed to use the bathroom and requested for her to take me to her dorm.
Attempted dorm pull
When we arrived at her dorm entrance, I noticed a security sign, and we had to bypass security. She walked in, so I had to go through the door as well. Security eyed both of us immediately. She scanned her ID and kept going. The security guard said "hey!" and told me to stop. I kept walking, pointed at my girl, and only said three words: "I'm with her." "Oh you're good don't worry about it," replied the security guard. Follow the law of least effort and don't overexplain yourself.
She showed me the communal restroom. Apparently, her roommate was studying inside, so we couldn't go in. We entered a lounge on her floor. "Didn't you tell me that you have your own room last time? We can go inside your room and stay quiet, so your roommate can continue studying, ok?" I asked. Well, due to language barriers, what she actually meant previously was they only had one room and two beds in there without walls or privacy.
While we're relaxing on the sofa, she questioned how many girls I've been with. I maintained that this doesn't matter. She guessed 20. I held my ground and switched topics. She was playing with her hair. It was getting late, we both looked exhausted, and attraction was sufficiently high, so I went home.
Second date
Initial location
She didn't want to go too far, so we met up at a cafe by the school. Late by half an hour.
That place was packed inside. I asked what her roommate was doing today. Her Christian roommate would be out the whole day for church events. After getting our drinks, we looked for seats outside. Some of the customers there gave us dirty looks. We found a table elsewhere. Unfortunately, a number of homeless people were walking around and screaming gibberish. Bruh! That made her uncomfortable, so we left.
Mid date
One of the bounces led us to the courtyard of a dorm that was undergoing renovation. One of her exes was a Greek American guy who was studying abroad in Greece when they met. This guy was 2.00 meters tall (6'7"), played basketball, and DM'd her on IG. After they broke up, the dude posted a picture with another girl on IG but messaged this girl saying how bad he wanted her. This girl didn't respond, so the basketball guy sent this girl a video of him getting a blowjob from the new girl with the new girl's face being visible and texted "wish this was you". Worst game I've seen. Pure autism and beyond retarded.
I used both the narratives and secret house gambits. As expected because of the language barrier, they didn't land as well. Whatever. But I did glean that she had the princess fantasy.
Back to her dorm again
No security this time. She opened the door, and her roommate was there. God damn it!
We did some dorm exploring. The hotels here like Marriott and Hyatt cost $400 / night. To seed the motel pull, I said the view of the dorms from the outside reminded me of a motel. She didn't know what a motel was, so I explained it. She said her ex took her on a romantic getaway to a hotel for their anniversary.
We got tired of exploring and went inside a dark lounge on the main floor. There were people there playing the piano at first. I wanted to pump up the arousal ahead of the big motel pull. I picked her up off the floor, told her to sit on my lap, and just held her tightly. Then, I told her to think about how great it felt when she stayed in hotels in vacation and when her ex celebrated their anniversary together. This is a simple emotional anchoring technique. I mentioned there was a cool little motel nearby that we could check out. She questioned what we would be doing. "Oh we can watch TV," I replied.
She asked me how far it was and the name of the motel, so she could send it to her roommate. Even after pulling up that info, she was on the fence. She said she wanted to have a girl talk with her roommate first, so we go upstairs. I waited 10 mins in the hallway. I was worried that her religious roommate would intervene. She came out with no expression on her face. She put on a cardigan and swapped out her original Chanel purse for a big purse. I complimented her cardigan.
Walk to motel
She didn't talk and had a tense look on her face, arms crossed too. Here, I pulled off an autistic move. For some reason, I decided to match her aloofness and did an Elon walk. Basically, I walked like I was by myself, while keeping distance and not paying attention to her. She asked me what the phone number was to call the police if something went wrong...
I was somewhat tired and couldn't think properly. I finally snapped out of my autism and wrapped my arm around her, made small talk, and expressed more warmth. When she asked how she could get home later, I said we'd get her a Lyft. The motel check-in took 10 mins. She asked if I had a condom, and I gave her a thumbs up because I had to talk to the motel clerk. The bill was $150 for a king-sized bed...
Setting up the room
After she entered, to create a liminal space, I closed the curtains, turned off all of the lights except for one, and was going to disable or cover any analog clocks, but they were too cheap to have one. She took off her shoes and placed her belongings down.
I gave her space and let her get comfortable with the room by walking over and getting "distracted" by the TV (done on purpose). Well, it took me 10 mins to find the remote controller, learn how to use it, and find a good channel. There were some porno channels that costed $15 / movie. I read the short movie description to her while holding her close, and she was laughing.
We both sat down on the edge of the bed facing the TV, making light conversation while shoulder to shoulder. Whenever the convo died, we would just stare into each other's eyes. She said she's very shy, this was happening too fast, and she just stood up. I turned off the TV and played some Spanish music from Bad Bunny and Camila Cabello to calm her down and danced with her.
Escalation, 1 hour of LMR, and 2 hours of sex
Despite making out a bit, she didn't want to go all the way until I picked her up and threw her onto the bed. She's very germophobic and insisted we both take our clothes off if we wanted to lay on the bed. I went first. "Only cuddling," she stressed. I took off my boxers under the sheets and responded: "Of course, but you're not allowed to see my 1cm dick. I'm shy too." While cuddling and making out with her lingerie on, she completely blocked off her breast and vaginal regions. I pre-empted and say it's completely fine if you haven't shaved. I put her hand on my dick and let her stroke it. Well, after a while, she finally took her bra off, and I sucked on her tits while rubbing her pussy. Licked her all the way down there until I felt hair. At this point, she moved on top of me, rubbed her pussy with panties on my dick, and asked me for the condom before taking off her panties.
We alternated between missionary, adapted missionary, and mostly cowgirl because I was exhausted. This lasted 1.5 hours. She was extremely passionate, so that was great. At the end, she even gave me a hand job for 30 mins and tried using all of her assets. But nothing came out, and I ended up with blue balls lmfao. She wondered what she was doing wrong. I reassured her multiple times that it wasn't her and blamed it on me not having eaten anything in 12 hours. I rested and drank cups of tap water, but it did nothing.
Bonus: aftermath
It's now 3am. "I hope you enjoyed your time as my little princess," I mentioned as we were leaving. I showed her that the condom didn't have any rips before flushing it down the toilet. Since my car was going to get towed soon (just realized) from the train station as we entered the early morning hours, we checked out. As you may have remembered, I originally wanted to call her a Lyft but decided to walk her back to her dorm since I needed exercise to deal with the blue balls. The only people left on the streets were the homeless. Kissed her goodbye and took a Lyft home myself.
Post-sex texting:
My messages don't get delivered even an hour later, but I don't panic because I know how to tell if you're blocked. We're slated to see each other soon
